Tips on BJs

[melancholia]

Hey all!

I'm posting in Ask a Male because the tips from men will be v helpful to me; but I am sure there are lots of women here who can add some great tips as well.

I'm in a brand new relationship with a super awesome dude. We have great sex all around, it's awesome. I've always loved to give BJs to guys, and I think I'm pretty good at it (at least I've never had any complaints lol). I try my best to do different things and not just stick to one method when I'm giving it, but I'd still love more tips on how to make it even better for my guy.

I like to switch hands, sometimes use both at the same time, swirl/flick my tongue around, use varying degrees of sucking power & shallow to deep throating as well; and I try to make sure never to forget about his balls or perineum (area right behind the balls). He likes minimal ass play, so I try to do that as well... I really try to use my whole scope of what I know guys like, from my experiences, and from gauging his reaction to what I do.

I want to make sure that he doesn't get bored with what I'm doing. I want to make sure our sex life stays spicy and exciting! I would appreciate any other tips from all of you, if you have anything to add!

Thanks in advance!

[melancholia]

Anyone? Nobody has any tips for me?

[bnme90]

Here's a tip (this coming from a guy). So you basically covered all the basics, but don't forget to make eye contact! Just remember to look up every now and then, it'll help you guys connect on a more emotional level.

Also, give a light tug on his testicles before he climaxes. It'll send him over the top (at least for me it does lol). Good luck!

[melancholia]

Thank you so much for those tips! This is exactly the type of advice I was looking for.

In a slight deviation from my original question, what are your thoughts on using toys?

If anyone has any other ideas on ways to spice things up in the bedroom, please feel free to share!!

[gr8love]

A small change that makes a huge difference : take a small icecube in your mouth and then give him a blowjob where you start realy slow and go down starting from his breasts. Realy slow and intensive. It is an awesome expierence for a guy !

[melancholia]

I've heard of that before but I've never tried it! Thanks!

*puts fresh ice trays in freezer*