Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
So.... you two agreed to a certain length of time/number of dates before sex would be considered. You call him to hang out while making it clear that it was specifically just to hang out and nothing more..... and yet somehow he gets expectations that sex was going to happen?
Have you two passed the time frame you agreed to already and have still not done anything? If so, I could MAYBE understand him getting a little impatient.... but that still doesn't change the fact that he could just be a man and be honest about that, rather than being a giant man-baby and just deciding to ghost on you. If you've not yet passed the time frame you both agreed, then he has NO excuse as far as I am concerned.
I mean, bottom line, maybe he just felt he wasn't that interested in you.... and that is honestly fine. He's not obligated to like you. If that is the case, he should have just been honest with you. I personally have no forgiveness for people pulling that kind of ghosting bull crap. If you just don't feel you are hitting it off with somebody, that is fine.... but have some damn decency, stop being a coward, and just be honest so they can move on and find somebody else.
Personally, my suggestion to you would be to move on now and don't look back. Also, just be thankful he did this now rather than dragging it on longer to where you only felt even closer. Better it happened before you got too attached. You will find somebody who appreciates you the way you deserved some day. If this guy isn't it, that's HIS loss.
Good luck to you.