realize that if you get cheated upon there usually is a reason for that.
If there is a pattern repeating itsself then usually there is one common factor
and thats you.
Thats a hard concept to grasp. But it also means that YOU have the power to change it.
The difficulty is spotting what you are doing wrong (or where you have the wrong attitude) and what to do or what to believe instead...
If you want then I can help you search for that.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.