Re: Too pretty to approach
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Originally posted by 2c2bt
There is a girl that works at my mother’s bank that is so unbelievably pretty. I can’t even remember when the last time I’ve seen a girl that utterly pretty on TV or anywhere. At first site, I would love for her to be my girlfriend. Just looking at her makes me feel totally nervous and unworthy. I have no idea how to confidently approach a girl that pretty. What’s wrong with me?
2c2bt
Clearly, the girl isn't "too pretty to approach" (no such thing), you're too inconfident. There's nothing wrong with you, you're just like 90% of the guys out there. However, you don't have to be. What you need to understand is that girls are just like you. They eat, sleep, worry, drink, and do everything else you do. What the real problem is is that you take this chick, who you've never known, and put her on this pedestal. Why do that? What's the point of adoring her like she's a god? You would love for her to be your girlfriend yet you've never spoken to her. You're nervous approaching, thats ok, I can get nervous too, all players can, but that doesn't stop me from approaching. Yet, somehow, you've decided that you are unworthy of her, this is ridiculous. What? You're not of the right "caste" to date her? If you're attracted, make a move. The only thing that would make me uncomfortable in this situation is that she's an employee of your mom's...
Re: Re: Too pretty to approach
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Originally posted by MVPlaya
2c2bt
The only thing that would make me uncomfortable in this situation is that she's an employee of your mom's...
Ya that's a tuffy. She's not exactly my mom's employee because she works in a different department. She's a teller. My mom is a Senior FA. I still feel weird approaching her with my mom there. I don't even drive all the way down to that bank unless I have a brunch date with mom. Even if I did, I wouldn't know how to talk to her while she's working. I wouldn't even know how to ask my mom about her. If she's married or something, I'm going to be really upset. It's hard enough as it is to find a girl that pretty. Much less single at the same time.