worried he will never ask!

Ok so here it is... We have been living together for 4 years. A day does not go by that I don't get asked when we are getting married by family, coworkers and friends. Yes things are great. I am 28, he is 32, and before we met he was with a woman for 8 years and was ready to buy her a ring, why is he so hesitant with me? I have sat and watched my girlfriends meet guys after and they are all ready married! I don't pressure him, but he knows that i want to get married. Is he debating and not sure I am the one? Is there something wrong with me? Is it ever going to happen? :(

did the other woman turn him down?

no, he was starting to save, then he realized she was not good for him. We were dating for a few months and they met for a drink, he realized then that he loved me. Left there and called me immediately.

he may have fears of committing "forever", i'd imagine its relatively normal, marriage is a big step

Well, if he was ready to buy her a ring after eight years, it sounds like you have four more years to go before you hit the mark with him.

Is he a dragass in all other regards or just romantically?

I don't see why he should want to get married... he is probably having all his needs met without benefit of marriage, isn't he?

ugh of course. minus 1 that i am saving for a husband. Well that s*cks to be me then! I just don't get why it hasn't happened yet. it's just fustrating. Is there anything I can do?

Have you told him you want to get married? If not, then you should. You should also decide how long you are willing to keep the arrangement as it is.