I am dating this guy who is fantastic. We will have sex for the first time when I go visit him next weekend. I am afraid that now that I have gain a little weight he wont think Im sexy. How do guys feel about a little extra weight?
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I am dating this guy who is fantastic. We will have sex for the first time when I go visit him next weekend. I am afraid that now that I have gain a little weight he wont think Im sexy. How do guys feel about a little extra weight?
We don't like extra weight.
How much is a little weight?
Anyway, I'm sure he can tell how big/small you are and if he's willing to get into bed with you then I dont think he'd care.
no honestly, how much is a little weight?? nevermind sleeyhead... take it from a male.. how much is a little??
raverboy
Well I'm sure there's a limit here, which is why i asked how much! If it's the amount you dont notice when clothing is on then whats the deal ... if it's going from thin to fat, then he'd notice wouldn't he?
I don't know. It depends on the guy, but please, male opinion here appreciated :D
i'm also sure that there is a limit to how much weight she gain.. which is why "I" also asked how much is a little?? to a slim girl 2 pounds can be a disaster, yet so a much larger girl 50 pounds can be a daily fluctuation.
raverboy
50 pounds a fluctuation? what the hell? Being 100 pounds over weight makes you legally fall under the term "Morbidly obese"...that is the definition of it..to be 100 pounds over your ideal weight. I think people should be walking around at their ideal weight..there isn't a perfect weight people..everyone has their ideal weight that goes with their body type and height. I think 50 pounds is a bit much for a fluctuation.
obviously you didn't catch my irony directed towards sleepyhead.
raverboy
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This is funny. In my experience, that guys who want the skinny women are either very inexperienced or latently homosexual.
If you're just talking about a few pounds, he probably won't even notice. Remember, more weight = bigger knockers. He WILL notice that.
XD omfg that made me laughQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
if he's dating you then he knows what you look like right? :S Or are you in a long distance relationship where you dont see each other very often yeah? if youre noticably chunkier then he will probably notice but wont be shallow enough to say anything or even care that much. If youre like really chunky now then catch it now and dont let yourself get worse :/
Is him sounding like he is mentally challenged a part of the stand up comedy? Anyways, my friend is dating this girl with huge jugs but she is fat and ugly as shit...I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole. I rather have the cute petite brunette with moderate tits. No homosexuality here...I still want pussy. Also, how come everyone makes it sound like if someone doesn't like fat on a girl they must like the really skinny anorexic girls? I mean, there is such a thing as balance...both extremes suck.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
giga... more weight also equals a bigger guy and we don't like that.
raverboy
yeah, i would say it defidently would depend on how much weight. i've got curves and my boyfriend LOVES it. he hates when i diet because he likes having "something to grab onto" but i still always make sure i'm in my healthy weight range. balance is key.
That is cute that you actually believe him.Quote:
Originally Posted by crazieshnurple [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
oh man thats harshQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No way that curvy body type is a good balance. It is another word for a "few extra pounds".Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah I decided I like you OV. Being a dick or not whatever comes out of your mouth is very entertaining and for the most part I agree with youre opinions.
Youre myspace page though is frightening and baffles me in many ways.
my bf was a dick in the same sort of manner when we met. He still is. Him being a dick was the reason I continued to talk to him.
he just finished watching Afterworld :goofy:
and this is why you didn't lose it till you was 24Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Haha, girls like assholes. You are gonna make nice boys cry.Quote:
Originally Posted by miSSleepy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You just now decided that you like me? :annoyed: what is wrong with my myspace? it is very sophisticated and elegant :french:Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by LostNotFound [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Girls are supposed to have curves. I agree with Giga - guys who want curveless girls are really just closeted homosexuals.
it was a love/hate relationshipQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
your vid on myspace creeps the hell outta me
HA! funny. 8/100 guys surveyed that they didnt find short short hair on girls attractive :( I always thought short hair on chicks was hott as hell. When I had it was called a guy constantly and my boyfriend was called queer for dating me. I HATE PEOPLE. but yeah girls can be pretty skinny and have curves. look at me ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
edit: i admit to having small boobs though..
i don't see the issue with not being a stickQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
short hair on a girl who suits it looks great - but not all do.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Personally though, you'd have to have me at gun point before i cut my hair.
Short hair on girls sucks ass. It is like Fabio hair on men.
I don't really update the thing. I am rarely there. The video was shown to me here by Indi and I thought it was cool.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
hey, my hair touches my shoulders, yes it's gotten very long since back in the days when i used to sport the spikes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
raverboy
Id consider that short-medium. I think we're talkin short-short.Quote:
Originally Posted by Illusional [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
spiked hair on chicks automatically makes me think lesbian.
no offense.
I still think its hot.
just hot lesbians.
well i used to have pretty short hair. i had everything from spikes to the buzz cut, and later went to the buzz cut with the bowl action.
now i sport the long haired look... sometimes i put it up in a pony tail. yes, how cute is that??
raverboy
lol piggy tails are cute with short hair. Im addicted to getting my hair styled (getting your hair washed by someone else is erotic o_O) so it was always pretty short but im growin it out for a switch. Just to please males. easy like that..
The girls have no idea. A few pounds won't matter but to be honest he won't be thrilled if you are noticeably chunkier.
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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
exact same thing no? already our minds are becoming oneQuote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
eat itQuote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No we're saying quite different things. I'm saying probably he will care not that he will notice but "wont be shallow enough to care". If it is a significant amount of weight probably he will probably care a lot.
Because they are wired differently I find women tend to be a bit naive about the impact weight gain has on their boyfriend/husband. I'm sorry but that kind of thing matters. It shouldn't I know but it does to just about every guy I know.
And honestly, it matters to us too. Be honest, girls. How would you feel if your man started sporting a spare tire? Who actually wants to grab onto a guy's "love handles"?
Not me.
Meh, the spare tire would be a smaller issue for me than a lot of other things...
Like a smelly wang, like in java's thread, maybe?
Yes, that would be worse. Also, spitting. I hate when men spit, especially when they cough up a bunch of phlegm first.
Eeeewww! God, yes, that is completely disgusting! Makes me wish I was their mama so I could smack 'em up the backside of the head.
Or how about the old ball scratch. That's attractive, right?
Right up there with wiping their nose with their sleeves...
Which vid? Is is one of cdk007's? Cool, if so...Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have no clue re: MySpace, lol.