BAMF??? Haters who will hate? You've really lost me now.
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BAMF??? Haters who will hate? You've really lost me now.
Bad Ass Mother ****er.
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Yup, that's the ticket.
Oh dear....I thought we were having success.Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Now he's obsessing about some sort of metrosexual makeover, thinking it's going to be the big difference in his life. Still blaming his appearance instead of his attitude.
Lol, I didn't mean to suggest metrosexual..on the other hand, if it gets girls...and I'll have muscles to kick any guy's ass who thinks it's gay.
Oh, Hon...Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol, that's real vague. Whatcha thinking, basil?
thinking 'facepalm'
lol care to explain why?
A bus-boy has next to no interaction with the public. Why would you want a job where you're virtually invisible? It this part of your social anxiety, that is forces you to pick a job where you know you'll not have to talk to the public or make eye contact?
(serious question)
Because only meatheads talk about kicking the ass of another guy. LR, the thing you've really got going for you is that you're NOT a meathead.
I worked with a guy who used to talk like that.....and the girls in the staffroom (all educated, early 20's women) would exchange glances and eyerolls.
Actually, at my busser job, there was a TON: I got lots of tips from the servers because I was pre-bussing tables and getting refills for guests. And naturally the guests like to add comments/interact, or at least since it was Disneyland they really like employees to be individual and not faceless.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks. I never wanted to be a meathead; only been in two fights, not particularly eager to go find any more either. My remark was more about the fact that, for my corrections major, I want to bulk up and learn fighting techniques. That way, in the prisons or outside, I'll be able to defend myself. I've a low temper and get aggressive somewhat easily, so maybe I might end up abusing those abilities (not on the job, though).Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well at Disney yes.. everyone is expected to act a certain way with the guests. Is your application for bussing at Disney again or is this just at a regular restaurant where you wouldn't be expected to interact with the guests?
Cheesecake Factory? I THINK same would apply because their busser standards also mean refills and you know how restaurant patrons get: they like to talk to anybody assisting them. So I expect if hired that the same thing would happen. I would only think bussers have lesser interaction in fast food where their only responsibility is cleaning up after patrons who don't have the decency to clean their own messes.
Then you really ought to go get some counseling. You will NOT pass the psych eval in your current state.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, I dunno. I know that any restaurant I've been in, the servers serve and the bussers only come in after the guests have left, clean up and then re-set the table for the next guest.
Anyway, getting out there and working is the main thing. Interacting and learning to socialize can't happen until you've made your miracle-makeover so I dunno wtf I'm even talking about social interaction. What was I thinking. duh. :)
Sure I will. I'll be a different guy by then.Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The low temper and aggressiveness is a personality flaw. You'll be more attractive if you learn to control your temper and calm a situation with words instead of using fists. Using fists is the meathead method. Educated men use their words....or they walk away.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Non-violent resistance isn't always good. Some guys deserve to be taught that if they run their mouths or do bad shit that they're gonna get it. Violence can be an effective deterrent.
But if I've got more money than these guys and a way hotter chick, then I won't need to kick their asses.
Keep tellin' yourself that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You don't have to believe it. I just know it will be true and that's good enough for me. The only thing is, I wish I woulda done it sooner..Imagine if I'd done this sort of thing years ago. I'm a few years closer towards death and only now might I start living. Very sad.
You won't be a different guy unless you take steps to become a different guy. You won't do so, so you won't be different, Q.E.D.
It's obvious. Your belief otherwise is self-deluding, and will not ultimately be productive.
What is Q.E.D.? Anyway, I am doing things to become different; I find myself stopping myself from being judgmental on the streets and out there in the real world. I also plan to get a USB external drive, asking a friend of mine who's hip what I should listen to and downloading it onto the external drive (sparing my internal HD for my real music), and I am going to be such a yuppie when all is said and done..Gonna blend right in.
Trying to be special is folly; mediocrity is impossible to surmount so might as well enjoy a hedonistic mediocrity!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Q.E.D.
.... and .....
Here we go again.
I am telling ya guys and girls; your advice to me will not have been for nothing! This makeover and BAM! Happy, productive member of society living a life geeks would kill for.
*snerk* Sure thing, Cupcake.
Lmfao, "snerk"? LOL....
You know what I read when I read your shit now... Think of Lucy from Charlie Brown when she's suppose to be listening/talking to her teacher and all we hear from the teacher is a trumpet wah wah, wahing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Like I tell everyone that that comes here and tells us they're gf/bf said this.. well i tell them that they should believe his/her actions and stop listening to his/her words without subtance.
And here was me thinking that you had no meathead qualities. My bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Watch, once I get the money, you'll be reading posts from a totally different guy. I'd stake money on it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm done. Really.
I don't get it. I finally start working towards being better and confident...and now I get all this hate?
No hate, at least not from me. Just disappointment. You're not working towards anything, you're making superficial changes to your appearance because you don't want to do the things you need to actually grow and be successful. You think that getting a GF is some magic elixir that will change you.
Hell, you made a brief effort and had some small successes and when that didn't give you instant gratification, you gave up on it.
Well, if you noticed, I also included how I am working on not being judgmental. As a point in fact, I said I was going to listen to everyone's music and be more open minded, earlier.
Baby steps, LR. Keep doing your thing. Work from the edges into the core. I have faith in you, kiddo.
Thanks, Indi. I've felt a lot better this week since trying it out..but 1/4 of the times I'm so impatient as to really getting started!
Doing something pretty cool tomorrow: going to a restaurant serving Middle-Eastern food, from all across the Levant. And not solo, either! Going with an old friend who lives pretty far.
*I* noticed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
BTW, You'll still hear crap music - it's all about being tactful ;) I give a fellow your age a lift to work when it's raining. I know for a fact that he listens to old school rock....but he says nothing about me playing Indie music in the car. And for what it's worth, I don't like everything I hear even in my favourite genre.