thanks pisces25...hope soQuote:
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thanks pisces25...hope soQuote:
Originally Posted by pisces25 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i am taking 3 days leave now coz tonite we both gonna meet. i am trying hard to accept his decision. i really don't feel he want it anymore. sigh...it still pain. my heart feel cold and sharp pain. hope i will be better next week to work. it really affect me alot.
kamazaki, you don't hv to work? you know....how i wish my bf is like you...trying hard for the loved ones and want her so much
thanks girl ...oh you meeting him to settle things? i wish you all the best girl, i have tried everything in my power to get her back but more harder i tried the more harder she hurts ..so i guess leaving her back to her family is the only way i have. Btw yea im working now in the office typing in my stupid cubical and hoping for a brighter day everydayQuote:
Originally Posted by Simple Life [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i think he wants to end it after the short break. i can't think much...headache...at least you can still work. i just can't concentrate. hope the day will be better for all the broken heart people here...Quote:
Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
maybe because it almost 2 months now and you have no idea how i acted before that, almost jump off her apartment beg to her kiss her feet and list of crappy embarrassing stuff i pull of to get her back. I know its going to be very painful even now i do thinking on not living anymore goshh. If you still have family around this is the time to look for them and let them help you with this grieving mode thing, unlike me i got no one else anymore...Quote:
Originally Posted by Simple Life [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you fukin lying cuntbag..... not only do you string me along for two months.. you create a second facebook profile and change your status..... wow.. thats probably the coldest thing ive ever seen anyone do.
hmm sorry to hear your case dh..i thought mine was worse..Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I mean seriously... all you had to say was "I dont want to be with you." simple as that.. Your new boyfriend looks like hes a serial rapist... If you get married and have kids they will all probably look like they wil have down syndrome..
wow what you did is so ****ed up on so many levels.. WOW
Today is the first day I didn't wake up missing you. I think this new opportunity that has arisen - even though its not a sure thing yet - has given me a huge boost of confidence, and reinforced to me that I am a great catch whether you think so or not. Everyone said you were insane for dumping me, and now I believe that too. I don't know why it has taken 5 weeks for me to feel this way. As great as you are, I don't think it will be easy for you to replace me. Of course you'll do it with *somebody*, but I no longer feel threatened by that idea.
gosh ive been wanting to feel like you do tremolo but why is it taking so long to heal from this killing pain feeling? i got not much time left..
Sometimes it can take a long time to get to that point. With one person, it took me six months - with another, just one week. You just have to work to get your thoughts off the other person and do things that make you feel good, and things that make you feel good about yourself. I also think that, after a break up, it's a great time to be adventurous and take risks.Quote:
Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just after my ex dumped me, someone sent me an email encouraging me to apply for something. I said, 'I couldn't possibly do that!' But then I thought - well, he thinks I can do it, and so what if it doesn't pan out? Despite my fear of being rejected again, I sent in my application and now I've been shortlisted (or maybe long-listed) for the thing. It doesn't even matter to me whether I end up winning it or not - I feel empowered simply being considered for it.
My point is - instead of wallowing in sadness, and reinforcing what you imagine your ex's negative conceptions of you are, it's good to focus on the positive, and surround yourself with people who think the best of you. It's also incredibly healing to try things you haven't done before, and do things you've always been wanting to do, because it will give you a huge sense of accomplishment - and that will override your feelings of rejection.
If you have to, just think to yourself - I'm going to do this thing, and do it well, and that will show him/her. I had a brief fantasy, before I sent my application, where I thought - 'What if, on the off chance, I get it? He'll almost definitely end up hearing about it, and then he'll see how well I'm doing, and perhaps he'll kick himself for letting me go.' It looks now like that is a distinct - if remote - possibility.
Why do you say that?Quote:
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the pain inside me is killing me slowly and soon it will consume every juice of life in me.....Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
join the club dude... im on Lexapro and STILL feel like dyingQuote:
Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I totally understand, because I've been there before, but you need to snap out of that mindset. Get off the computer, put on your headphones, and go for a run. Go somewhere in your city and do something interesting. Take a book and go read somewhere. Buy some cheap materials and paint something. Cut up some magazines and newspapers and make a collage. Make a mixed tape. Just busy yourself with whatever so you don't keep ruminating on your pain and on the stupid person who hurt you. I say this out of love, because it's the only way you're going to feel better. Physically do something unrelated to your ex, and pretty soon your mind will follow...Quote:
Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
since me and her like the same thing so I have to find a new stuff to do, but the harder I tried the more difficult it become for meQuote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What is it you like to do, and what is it that becomes harder for you?
WTF is wrong with you??? now you want to be facebook friends on your second account.......... You are a psycho
"block", and this time you know you need to do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah.... i dont know wtf her deal is.. lets hope this new girl isnt a psycho
You're already asking too much, most girls are psycho.Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Let the flaming begin.
well said...Quote:
Originally Posted by Cerby [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Good day today, Woke up after a vivid dream about you yet again ! I guess thats because subconsciously my mind is missing you, But deep down i have nothing but hatred towards what you did to me. I am proud of my self for being resilient in all of this, I am proud that i was able to collect up all of the cards, Letters and other items you gave me through out the last two years, And pop them into a bag before dropping them at your doorstep, It took a lot of courage for me to dispose of those, And especially to step foot on the property in which 3 weeks ago i was more then welcome to, And the property in which the girl i loved lived in. What happened to you ? What happened to the girl who one month ago was the most special person in my life ? You changed so quickly, And yet i can't see why ? I am not a bad person, I have never dis respected you, I have never cheated on you, I have never hurt you, I have done nothing but support, Trust and give you my all, Yes i made a few mistakes a couple of months back, But i was going through such a rough patch in life, I needed you and you was not there.
I also phoned up my service provider after your stunt on monday, And had my number changed so that you could not contact me anymore, I've also blocked you on facebook along with some of your friends seeing as you decided to put on a show on the phone in front of them making me out to be the b******d when you where the one who broke up with me, Played mind games with me, Messed my head up so much, Why did you do that ? I though you could at least respect the fact that if you are going to break up with me, Then i am going to need space and time to move on. Not for you to contact me after 2 weeks of NC and screw with my mind again.
I will find someone so amazing, And i will give them absolutely everything a girl wants in a relationship, And i will be so happy with them !
I came home from the gym today to find an FTD box on my doorstep. For a moment, I thought you were having second thoughts - that this was some kind of response to the email I sent you.
I went a twinge of a disappointment when I realized the flowers were from somebody else.
I can't believe you're still happy with your decision. You are so disappointing.
lol.... u shouldnt have felt anything about him :)Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
At least you got flowers!Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
They are really pretty too! But yeah, I had hoped they were from him.
we both like to race and most of our friends are close to us and everytime I tried to hang out with them the more story I heard about her or ppl asking me about how is she bla2, tell me this is not getting harder ?? looks like I need to find a new bunch of friends with different interest thou....Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think some new friends and a new interest would do you a world of good. It's hard to move on when you're still tied to the past...Quote:
Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hello everyone,
I've recently found this forum, and I am glad there are people here supporting each while experiencing heartbreak and separation.
The girl of my dreams, girlfriend of over a year and a half, and someone who I planned a future with broke up with me.
Our story was long and complicated, and I am actually in the process of writing a dramatic short story covering our crazy relationship from the beginning to the end. Writing has helped me greatly, and has kept me busy these past few gut wrenching days.
I'm currently on day 4 of no contact, which I initiated the day after she dumped me. No appetite, insomnia, and the works.
Not a half hour goes by without checking my phone to see if maybe she has tried to contact me. In all honesty, I doubt I would even reply, but for some weird reason I would like to know that she is thinking about me and is hurting just like I am.
Or maybe I just need to know that she is okay. She has told me on numerous occasions that she would not know how to function without me in her life.
I am terribly confused.
leaving me in the dark alone ...want me to turn darkside? if i ever do i wont look back anymore...and i will lost forever ..
I still feel that way, and it's been 5 weeks since my ex dumped me. It gets easier, though... I hope you begin to feel better soon, Renwo. Sorry you lost the girl you love.Quote:
Originally Posted by Renwo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i barely alive now, is this the peak moment of breaking up ? i wonder how are you been doing now? are you in pain too? or doing great ? how can you just walk away from me since you know i got no one else to go to, to talk to, to love to...im all alone here and in pain, i dont know how long i can survive like this...i tried seek for the light to shine my life again but its not there...nowhere to be found. Please help me i need help here
i feel like im home here...warm and cozy with lots of caring people ...finally i know where i belong..
Once they hit that point of realizing how big of a step backward they took by dropping you for someone else..... that's when the fun begins for you ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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OR..... How's about all you guys take a much-needed vacation down here to Hawaii and we can all drink and whine about exes in person. Ha.
Can i come?Quote:
Originally Posted by flynhayn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The post did say all you guys, so unless you're an alien species hiding from the government or something, I'm pretty sure you were invited.Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah im not doing well right now... i was told to stop taking the lexapro but Im freaking out righ tnow
Bugger .. tha't's me out then :(Quote:
Originally Posted by flynhayn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]