thats my fear!!! Of course i dont want to drive him away, but I want him to be considerate of how i feel too...I am supposed to be his significant other...and things are supposed to be discussed...not brought up after the fact.
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thats my fear!!! Of course i dont want to drive him away, but I want him to be considerate of how i feel too...I am supposed to be his significant other...and things are supposed to be discussed...not brought up after the fact.
Perhaps it was a spontaneous act. You don't always have to book the time and stuff to make photo's. Perhaps when he was there she mentioned it and they just went for it. I do understand how you feel. In combination with the other topic it really comes over really stressful for you.
but you have to realize that now he has 2 girls to choose from, and if you don't make him happy, he can always run to her. keep that in the back of your mind. i think it would be best if you have a close relationship with the other woman and raise your kids together. and also try putting yourself in the other girl's shoes, her baby was just born, she has hardly healed and you are giving them both hell.
thats what I am trying to do and that was the agreement, but her actions are showing me that her words were meaningless.
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Originally Posted by annoyed23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think you're expecting a lot out of a guy that impregnated two women within four months of each other.
well think of it this way... i'm sure that he might be torn between the two of you because he has to split his free time in half more or less.
and the previous girl, whether she likes you or not... i haven't got the slightest clue, but i wouldn't be too surprised if she didn't.
in the mean time, just deal with it because whichever he chooses, it's his decision because both of these kids are his children.
raverboy
Why should she want to put YOU in her family photo? You are the woman that is keeping this man (and I use that word lightly) from her family, just as she is keeping him from you and your family.
Your guy sounds like a pig. Personally, I think you should both get rid of him.