http://www.loveforum.net/threads/79527-Best-friend-or-boyfriend
I think this is a good example of what Im talking about and we have seen it here numerous times. It just proves time and time again that men and women should not be best friends.
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http://www.loveforum.net/threads/79527-Best-friend-or-boyfriend
I think this is a good example of what Im talking about and we have seen it here numerous times. It just proves time and time again that men and women should not be best friends.
Of course there's endless bad scenarios. I'm not focused on endless scenarios, I'm focused on the most realistic among them that happen most frequently.Quote:
Originally Posted by pcmaster
Trust can be hopelessly blind and foolish. This chick isn't just entitled to it because she has the title "girlfriend" - that mentality gives her free reign to use, abuse, and take advantage of you however she wants, whenever she wants. Your actions dictate your trustworthiness. Leaving yourself to be desired and lusted for in the presence of someone who clearly wants to hook up with you while you are in a relationship and blowing off and yelling at your significant other for voicing his concern is the polar opposite of an action that shows trustworthiness, not to mention disrespectful as fukk.
I really like dick ^^ when hes being serious :) other than that hes just confusing as hell lol (joke)
I think all the girls like serious dicks. But his jokes are real funny.
OP, your girlfriend is a selfish fool. If she really cared about you, she wouldn't tolerate her clingy fake friend. Explain to her one more time why you aren't happy with the current situation and ask her to tell the other guy to take a hike. And if she won't do that, break up with her. Don't back down, stand up for the relationship that you want. If she can't let go of her fake friend, you're not going to be happy with her anyway. There are plenty of other women out there.
She needs to understand that her "friend" isn't her friend, he's just some guy who wants to have sex with her. Either she is too stupid to understand that, or she enjoys the attention of having a backup boyfriend around, like a spare tire in the trunk. If this other guy had any self-respect, he would move on, too. I watched a friend go through this last year. His girlfriend had a super-clingy fake friend who gave off a really strong, possessive stalker vibe. She even invited this "friend" to parties that her boyfriend (my friend) threw, so I got to see this clingy fake friend in action. He wasn't even my problem, but his weasel-like behavior made me feeling like punching him in the face. Eventually, my friend broke off the relationship because he got tired of tolerating that creep constantly meddling.
That's very progressive of you, must make your bf ecstatic :smug:Quote:
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Lol. RightQuote:
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