is he just trying to make me jealous? or what?

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

So did you ever get the trees pruned?

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HELL no. Told her to call her "back up man" to trim the ****ing things.

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Originally Posted by chelsee

this is a great place to come to when you have a problem. i feel much better now. maybe, i should just kick my own ass.

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what else do you want us to say? You asked what you should do and I said talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. if he cares he will stop what he's doing. He may not even realize this is bothering you. Some guys need a kick in the as sometimes. Otherwise if your not willing to talk to him about it then move on!

All kidding, aside, Angel, just be straight-forward and tell him it bothers you. He doesn't even have to know why and you don't have to explain why. That it bothers you is all that matters. If he ISN'T a jerk, he say something like, "Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize. I was just (whatever)," and quit doing it. If he doesn't, or worse, argues with you about it, THAT'S how you tell he's a jerk.

LOL Hayward, you mean "chelsee" right?? She's the one with the problem, not angel!

Adjust those bifocals! ;D

Maybe he gave her a pet name? ;)

rosebud, i'm kidding i need to laugh about this and i wish he was gay and wanted to look like her.

lol gay guys are the Best!

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Originally Posted by Tone

LOL Hayward, you mean "chelsee" right?? She's the one with the problem, not angel!

Adjust those bifocals! ;D

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Dah! Between the screen names, nicknames and occasional real names, I haven't a clue sometimes who the hell I'm talking to. But, yeah, Chelsee. Angel's got a whole other set of problems.

LoL I love you, Hayward.

Sorry, Hayward - I think your former girlfriend handled the tree trimming just right. I suggest that tactic to anyone who can't get their man to do something around the house, only I would hire them to come do it. Loss of income seems to motivate men and saves women from having to nag.

And I wouldn't care if you invited a woman over to make you dinner because then I wouldn't have to. ;)

So if a woman had a "headache", the man could just hire some hooker to come over that night??

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Originally Posted by chelsee

ok, my bf and I hang out at this club quite a bit. the same chic works there pretty much every nite. I would say she is o.k. looking, anyways my bf is always complementing her about her hair and other shit. which at first it didn't really bother me that much. but now the chic is like doesn't he ever compliment you about the way you look? and I was like no he doesn't and I don't really give a shit. anyways i was about ready to kick this girls ass. so why is he complementing her? does he like her or is he trying to make me jealous?

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A little bit of both Im afraid. He probably would love to have both of you. This is just how guys are wired. All hetero males want the girl on girl action. He is sending you subliminal messages that this chick turns him on. Instead of kicking the girl's ass, why not kick his? Question is, what are you going to do about it? If my bf did this to me, well, lets just say he wouldnt be my bf anymore.

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Originally Posted by shh!

Sorry, Hayward - I think your former girlfriend handled the tree trimming just right. I suggest that tactic to anyone who can't get their man to do something around the house, only I would hire them to come do it. Loss of income seems to motivate men and saves women from having to nag.

And I wouldn't care if you invited a woman over to make you dinner because then I wouldn't have to. ;)

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To each their own. I do things my own way at my own pace and anyone trying to manipulate me to match their way or pace just pisses me off. I wouldn't have minded this episode so much if she hadn't been ****ing the guy, too.

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

So if a woman had a "headache", the man could just hire some hooker to come over that night??

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Now tell me: what woman in her right mind would have a headache with YOU around darling? ;)

hehe

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To each their own. I do things my own way at my own pace and anyone trying to manipulate me to match their way or pace just pisses me off. I wouldn't have minded this episode so much if she hadn't been ****ing the guy, too.

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The fact that she was f*cking him made the situation inappropriate, I agree. She should have hired a gardener.