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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If he's subtle, genuine, a nice guy who dresses well and has bucket loads of confidence what girl won't buy it?
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Vasti not necessarilyQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If he's subtle, genuine, a nice guy who dresses well and has bucket loads of confidence what girl won't buy it?
One that is taken? Or a lesbian? Or hates men? I don't know who wouldn't, but I know *I* prefer genuine guys with confidence.Quote:
Originally Posted by derm [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Can you expand on that a little bit? I don't quite understand what you meant.Quote:
but remember that emotionally healthy girls might not buy it.
Well, why would an emotionally healthy girl want a guy thatacts like she wasn't good enough for him? Healthy people want to meet their equal.
Exactly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, the first impression I want to make is one of dishonesty.
Greeeeat.
Vashti - I do not act like the girl isn't good enough for me. I act in a respectful and gentleman like fashion at all times. I DO respect females. I am not one of those guys that say oh this btch this and this btch that. But if a girl starts putting me down and acting like she is SUPERIOR to me, or going on an ego trip which is unreasonable and sometimes downright rude, I get a problem with that.
Example 1:
me - So lets get some coffee sometime
her- Thanks I appreciate it but I'm taken.
or - I'm really sorry but I'm not interested in dating
me - oh ok that's fine, lets study for the exam together then I need a study partner anyway.
however, if the girl gives me an attitude ...
me- so i usually eat lunch in weinstein dining hall at 12;15...feel free to join me anytime.
her- *giggle* I'm always busy. *giggle*
or - I don't know about that I don't usually eat..lunch...u know....i actually never eat. and im always busy.
you KNOW which girls im talking about...
Why waste your time caring about it?
It's already been said before but just be more friendly than usual towards people you like. Flirt with them and see what happens.
What i like to do is test the persons inner space. Something like placing your hand next to theirs , or brush your leg by theirs and watch the persons reaction.
If the person retracts their hand or moves away from you suddenly, they may feel
unconfortable with you invading their inner space. But.... if the person doesn't
move, they are at least comfortable with you being close to them.
It's not a sure sign someone likes you, but usually if people are attracted to eachother, they wouldn't mind being close to one-another.
I concur..Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LETS HEAR SOME UPDATES DONT LEAVE US HANGING lol