Do guys flirt with girls they find unattractive?

I never flirt, unless I'm interested.

I don't like to mislead men into thinking 'more' and in flirting I think you can mislead people.

I also don't need to flirt, in order to feel 'desirable' or to make someone feel 'desirable'.

I don't need people to verify my 'desirableness', I know I am :)....pmsl

I don't really

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Originally Posted by hardparty [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm really curious about this.

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Yes. The most common scenario is I want your friend and I'm using you.

Its not harm if we do it carefully otherwise it could be a bitter experience for both.

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Originally Posted by lahnnabell [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Flirting is how I make my money. I'm a waitress and it behooves me to indulge the men that come into the restaurant. These two guys came in last night and proceeded to get glass after glass of wine. I smile a lot and am just generally a very boisterous person. One of them started trying to salsa with me, and I gave in a little bit, but quickly went back to work and laughed it off. One of them was explicit about calling me sexy and telling me that I better write my phone number on his receipt.

Another older gentleman came in a while back and I could tell that he was interested. I let him hold my hand while we interacted and I made sure to be very attentive. He left a 110% tip and his phone number. :) Flirting pays. Literally.

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Its common to get attract with opposite sex. Its better to proceed based on the response from other side. In restaurant your job is make customer happy and you are doing in safe way. But I'm sure sometimes you would have faced troubles also.

I flirt alot, but its all pretty platonic, i dont want to bed every person i flirt with.

edit: and there is(imo) a difference between flirting and leading someobody on.

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Originally Posted by Tomy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Its common to get attract with opposite sex. Its better to proceed based on the response from other side. In restaurant your job is make customer happy and you are doing in safe way. But I'm sure sometimes you would have faced troubles also.

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I haven't faced any trouble, no. I make it very clear to my customers that there is a limit. Direct eye contact helps with this. The men know I'm serious when I can look them in the eye and tell them they've had enough wine and we're moving to water. I don't come off to people as a flimsy little girl that doesn't know any better. My flirting involves intelligent banter, mild self-deprecation, and lots of smiling.

If I were to look down a lot, refuse eye contact, constantly fidget or play with my hair that sends off the signal that I'm not comfortable and/or can be easily taken advantage of. As the waitress, it is my job to stay in control of the situation. Only the really stupid men will venture to mess with me.

Guys dont really talk to girls that are unattractive...just being honest here

"attractive" is a very relative term. After 3 drinks and a month of no sex, I find grapefruits and trees attractive.

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I know that as a girl, i'd never ever flirt with some ugly guy no matter how nice that guy was

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I'm totally the opposite. I'll flirt with the elephant man, if he smiled at me.

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Originally Posted by warriormaiden [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm totally the opposite. I'll flirt with the elephant man, if he smiled at me.

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The first post in this thread is a strange question isn't it? "Unattractive" is ambiguous. It could indicate either physically unattractive, or an unpleasant person. Distinctly different things. I would never flirt with someone who was the latter.

Well I guess the votes are unanimous! Ugly people stick with your kind, and Attractive stick with your kind. The neutral looking can have a pizza party and make fun of both extremes. HOORAY!

lol

Try to give people a chance. I know physical attractiveness matters to some degree...but as half of someone's face isn't missing...i think inner beauty can overpower outer beauty as long as the appearance is tolerable. It's okay though, once everyone reaches over 50 the scores are pretty even cuz then we'll all be ugly muahahaha. That's right gentleman, the hot little vixen you might marry, her boobs may be sweeping your kitchen floor someday Muahahahahaha. And Ladies , the Brad Pitt look alike....well you've seen the neck of a rooster haven't you HAHAHAHAHA.

im being silly. I know you all are just talking about random flirting. :-D