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The main thing I'm (personally) finding a little unusual about it is the whole hygene thing, with sharing sex toys. I probably wouldn't let another guy use my fleshlight, MAYBE if he wore a condom with it tho XD... though I suppose its technically a moot point if you can sterilize it by boiling. Just one of those things that isnt necessarily rationally based, but not necessarily prudery.

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Put this up and THEN saw the above post - definitely see where you're coming from, and its great that your mom isnt in denial as you put it, its just unusual for most people here.

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Originally Posted by Tiay [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I wont go into detail because you *coughprudescough* would no doubt be shocked even further.

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We're not prudes, we're just clean and against something so close to incest

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Originally Posted by Tiay [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

why? seriously, why is it disgusting? It's not like we swap it back and forth all the time. It certainly seems healthier than those mothers/daughters who are in complete denial about the fact that they're both sexual beings. :shrug:

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Umm are you kidding? Just because you're both sexual beings doesn't make sharing sex toys with your mom OK

Since you're failing to realize why most people are in consensus about this let me be a little more explicit. Your fathers dick has been up that same hole as your mothers sex toy. Your mom could have been using that toy while ****ing your father. And it's easily very possible that you used the same toy maybe just several days later

If thinking that is gross makes me a prude, then I'm ****ing happy to be a prude

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

We're not prudes, we're just clean and against something so close to incest

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it's not even remotely close to incest.

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Umm are you kidding? Just because you're both sexual beings doesn't make sharing sex toys with your mom OK

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how did one toy become plural, btw?
hmm.. *rubs chin* how about sharing sex games? In fact, how about going through a mock round of the game to learn the rules..? How about talking about boys? Yes, me and my mom are practically breeding together. Oh wait, that doesn't work.
It's not gross because the level of our relationship which that stuff takes place on really is one more of girl-friend-ship than relation. Though, btw, mention of my father is banished, cos I don't wish to know about that.

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Since you're failing to realize why most people are in consensus about this let me be a little more explicit. Your fathers dick has been up that same hole as your mothers sex toy. Your mom could have been using that toy while ****ing your father. And it's easily very possible that you used the same toy maybe just several days later

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nope, none of that is possible. Let me explain.

first of all, my mom doesn't like anal and it isn't an anal toy anyway, so, no, the first thing isn't possible.

I also happened to store the vibe i'd say a few weeks before I even used it, so, it's not possible that I used it several days later. And I don't see how that makes a difference. Do you have some set time frame after which it becomes okay?

and this is, btw, why I mentioned, right in my initial post, that you can clean it with freaking boiling water, just to clear that up in case anyone jumped to some idiotic conclusions. You're making out like we're chatting about it all the time and swapping it back and forth. We swapped it all of once.

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If thinking that is gross makes me a prude, then I'm ****ing happy to be a prude

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sure you are, suit yourself. you don't know what you're missing :)

That's so wrong it's a turn on.

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

That's so wrong it's a turn on.

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I was wondering if this was only an American aversion. I guess not. Maybe it's common in Ireland?

haha no I'd say just about everyone except Tiay, her mom, and the Jerry Springer crowd would be averse to the idea of a daughter and her mother sharing the same sex toy.

I didn't say I wasn't averse, I just said that i admit if there is sterilization there probably isn't a practical issue. I try not to judge.

omg girl you need to go out and buy your own toys.

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WTF, Tiay? You share SEX TOYS with your MOM?

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I thought this strange too... until I thought about current sex partners.

How many of you made your current partner wash first w/boiling water & bleach? I bet the sex toy was cleaner, lol.

Good point, Indi, but imagine sharing sex partners with your mom.

I wouldn't borrow underwear from my mom, even if it had been bleached. I'm too repressed. Or something.

It is strange to me I'll admit, but when you boil it all down...yeah, if it's clean, and they're not using it together, I don't see much that can be said.

I used my dad's porn to jerk off to.

I doubt he ever cleaned them off after getting yankin' on his dick.

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I thought this strange too... until I thought about current sex partners.

How many of you made your current partner wash first w/boiling water & bleach? I bet the sex toy was cleaner, lol.

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That's not the point Indi lol. That's like an apples and oranges comparison, mom's toy and clean vs NON-family member and unclean

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Good point, Indi, but imagine sharing sex partners with your mom.

I wouldn't borrow underwear from my mom, even if it had been bleached. I'm too repressed. Or something.

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Yeah I've had to borrow underwear from friends and my dad before. Never liked doing it cause I like having my own pair but sometimes you gotta unless you want your sack bouncing around all day which I honestly wouldn't mind but society probably would

I have no objection to your sack bouncing. Let 'em go, baby! Let 'em go!

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Good point, Indi, but imagine sharing sex partners with your mom.

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My point was merely for contrast... ;)

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I wouldn't borrow underwear from my mom, even if it had been bleached. I'm too repressed. Or something.

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There are vending machines in Japan where one can buy used underwear. Just a thought. I wonder how the 'used sex toy' market on EBay does? :surprised

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There are vending machines in Japan where one can buy used underwear.

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That is the weirdest thing I've heard in a long, long time.

I heard they vend vodka in machines in Russia

hm, giga, i'm afraid we have kinda shared underwear. Rest assured it was either washed or unworn from the store.

You hippie.

I wish I could share my penis with my girlfriend, right about now.

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I heard they vend vodka in machines in Russia

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I'm trying to wrap my brain around this one.

So... vodka is to Russians as used underwear is to Japanese?

That would make Russians drunks and Japanese... what, again?

Uh. Okay... :D

I wasn't making a connection between the two. Just stating a fun fact to know and tell

Haha... remember I said that I'd recommended the fleshlight to two of my friends? One of them is still in high school and wouldn't want to use his parents' credit card, or have the box go to his house (they open his mail). So he paid me to order his selection online and give it to him the next time we meet up.

Toys are awesome and you don't only use them if the 'sex' is boring. You use them because you're a freak and you like variety. Using a toy is like being able to have sex with someone else without the cheating. I'm with the only man that has ever truly sexually satisfied me and we have done all kinds of craziness. There is still a lot to try. And 'regular' sex is still awesome also, but like someone said in a post I read earlier, "freakier times call for freakier measures".

Back to the true topic at hand, I personally like softer, more realistic toys. Hard plastics suck. If you're in America, go to dubya dubya dubya dot adamevetoys dot com. Sorry, haven't posted enough to be allowed to make links yet. There are many reviews on items and they have a lot of great sales. Also, if you get a toy then you must get the best lube cause nothing sucks more than a dry toy. I personally like ID Millenium Silicone based lube. It is not a cheap lube and will not get sticky or wear out quick. It only takes a few drops and you're good to go. Many porn stars recommend that and Wet. Adam and Eve carries both. I have been happy with every product that I have purchased from them.


And, Yes the real thing is the ultimate satisfaction. Think about it this way, You eat hamburgers for a month and then Friday night you get the thickest, juiciest, tastiest steak ever. Would you appreciate that steak as much if you hadn't had something different?


Where is everyone from anyway? I thought Europeans were more sexually open than Americans? The few times that I've seen where people are from, it's in Western Europe.