I am a coward and I hate myself

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Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Where are you from, Arrow?

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I'll answer in PM.

I'm not sure what the therapist was getting at by giving you such a huge goal to go after. I'd tone it down a bit and maybe ask ONE girl per day for a couple weeks for their phone number. The first few might be scary, but once you get the momentum going it will get easier and easier. And just call the ones that give you their number without seeming too put off by it. (you just have to take notes and remember which ones those are!)

Also, JOIN some clubs, stuff your interested in so you'll have some stuff to talk about.

When you improve any aspect of yourself, be it skills or abilities, you just push the envelope a little bit each time.

And I agree with all the other posters that said "STAY OUTTA CLUBS"

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Don't go to a club alone. Your therapist is giving you poor advice, club is a bad place to meet women believe it or not. They walk in there with a brick wall up already, if anything it is a bigger challenge to pick a women up at a club than an isle in Walmart. In a club they expect you to hit on them, so you start at negative points.

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what!?! i always make friends at a club!

I've never gone to a clubbing alone, and yeah it would feel a bit strange since the more people you go with the more fun it usually is.

But if I would the first thing I would do would be to go to the bar, get a drink and people-watch from a balcony railing until getting more into the mood (or more drunk...I never get drunk though, bloody annoying) and seeing if anything happens, and go from there.

Dancing alone would require quite a bit of confidence first-

Clubs are always loud and a visual overload...I have never been one for them. One top of that you deal with guys like this a lot.

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In addition I dance like a sheet of plywood...........until I'm drunk ;)

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Originally Posted by Indignant [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

what!?! i always make friends at a club!

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That's probably because you are a girl slut. How can one make friends with one another in such enviornment anyway, loud music etc, you can't even talk. Maybe you are just confused about what friends are.

fukin yagerbombs i shower in that shit!