I've taken it up the ass.
It's not that bad.
Soon it'll all pay off.
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I've taken it up the ass.
It's not that bad.
Soon it'll all pay off.
What, were you in prison or something?Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Nope.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She said she wasn't willing to take it if I wasn't.
Technically we're on the same playing field at this point, but I'm lookin' to get the upper hand soon.
What did she do? **** you with a strap on?
Ha, no I'm not offended, no worries. Its your opinion. It simply wasn't clear from your post that you understood the reason for why you feel anal sex is a 'power' thing. Its b/c you've been conditioned to it. Someone or something, at sometime has messed with your head on this. Once you realize this, then you can change your thinking, if you wish.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, IMO its not pleasurable. Not at all like vaginal sex. So, personally I'm with Charlie Boy, I don't see the point.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But I have tried it b/c I like to experiment & I was curious about the hype. Its totally no BFD. All this stuff about it hurting like hell & your insides coming out is BS. It *can* hurt if you force it, so if you don't trust your partner, or are drunk, I totally wouldn't. If your partner is careful, its merely okay.
Just make sure you are both very clean (bathe first). I'd suggest a couple of vaginal orgasms to relax your partner. Then use a condom & lots of plain lube (*not* hot lube) and try. For the guys: go slow. Also, stimulating your partners clit will make sure she gets something out of it.
That's it. No big deal gang. And for those of you who are ambivalent, you are totally not missing anything, esp compared with full-on, hot frontal sex with a loving partner. :D
That...would not be an even playing field since I haven't gotten my dick in there yet. In that situation she would definitely have one up on me.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, we swapped fingers, we've done it a few times though and so far she's said there's no pain.
I was a bit uncomfortable the first time I was on the receiving end, she just kinda FWOOP! Popped that in there and I ceased up, but I can see how someone can get to like it once they learn to take it like a bitch. Especially since we found my prostate. It almost feels like you're gonna pop one when pressure is applied.
I really don't understand the concept of anal orgasm because women don't have a prostate.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
When having anal always go slow because it hurts even if the girl is feeling good.
Oh and Indi, I hope our differences don't put us apart. I like you. ;)
Have you ever had anal sex?Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Can't say I haven't had my curiosities but I'm a firm believer in exit only haha but yeah you never know.
And yeah half-way sex can be great but can be a great let down if it doesn't happen later that night :P Though I really loved pleasing my girl first even if it was quick. Hmm.. now to think of it maybe that's why sometimes I didn't get it later... damn
Sacrifices I tell you.
I can honestly say anal sex doesn't appeal to me at all. I'd prefer to not have a dick that looks like a black mans one.
I'm also with Eco and Charlieboy about anal sex often being a power thing with guys, just based on my own experiences. Every guy who was ever interested in doing this with me was a "dominant" type of guy who was usually into other kinky stuff, like tying me up or slapping me in the face with his ****Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Or maybe I've just dated freaky guys.
EDIT: OMG my 1,000th post! I have to use a Lesa smiley for this occasion.:emot46:
LOL, the face slapping thing is funny! That's a new one. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Anyway, all this talk of kink, etc reminded me of this great commercial. Good idea for parents with boomerang kids:
[ame="http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=h7NRMQtczr4"]YouTube - Ikea humour[/ame]
Oh, and for those who like toys:
[ame="http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=_8mE8Rxk_Rg&NR=1"]YouTube - Banned Ikea Vibrator ad[/ame]
Yeah, that particular guy had some issues. Or maybe this is a fantasy that other men share. I dunno. I let him try it for a bit, but it quickly got boring for me, so I told him to stop it and just **** me already. It cracks me up now that I think about it. I'll indulge in a little kink if it's not going to actually hurt me physically, or if it's not something really disgusting.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Those vids were hilarious. The idea for the first one probably came from that Roman Polanski movie where Emmanuelle Seigner, dressed as a dominatrix, makes her lover crawl around on the floor wearing a pig mask. It was a great scene!Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No pig masks for my boyfriends though. I gotta draw the line somewhere.
Which movie was that, SB?Quote:
Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Anyway, M. Seigner is a beautiful actress, I saw her not too long ago in that french film I mentioned in another thread:
[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Diving_Bell_and_the_Butterfly_(film[/url])
This is a thinking-persons movie, for those interested. Absolutely fantastic, IMO. Shh & Cain should really watch it, esp as its filmed entirely from the patients viewpoint.
It's called Bitter Moon. Really good movie about a very ****ed up relationship. It also starred Peter Coyote and Hugh Grant (before he became famous.) And she is indeed gorgeous in that film.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was trying to find a vid of the scene, but no luck.
I do not like anal sex at all. It felt like I took a shit and it's trying to come back inside me. It felt very uncomfortable and I get no stimulation there. So no my bf and I not doin that anymore. You know what I heard though, that males' anus are more sensitive than females'
Those were awesome.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Granted Ikea is a swedish company this kind of advertising is a little more common place there.
He's not using me. There are a lot of girls (his own age) that are into him.
yea....I think that is the problem.Quote:
Originally Posted by xO Lanna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd like to slap a girl in the face with my dick
So? What does that have to do with anything, except say that he's possibly afraid of dealing with a mature woman who might challenge his, er, unusual tastes?Quote:
Originally Posted by xO Lanna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Eventually, he will get tired of you. At your age, you don't have much to offer him emotionally, socially, intellectually. That's not a comment on your future, so don't be offended, its just the fact of where you are in life.
I'm hoping, however, that you tire of him first. I know you don't want to think of yourself as being used, hun, but from where I sit (I know quite a bit about teachers, in case you don't know) there really isn't much else to explain things. Its either that, or he's *very* immature, which is very disturbing in a high school teacher.
I say good luck to the guy. He's not that much older is he? He's in his 20s, right?
Contrary to the myth older women like to propagate, not all guys go for young women because they're intimidated by their more mature counterparts. Some guys just like young flesh.
And I agree this is exactly whats going on. I think this guy is nearly 30, CB and Lanna was his high school student until last year. I knew a teacher who used to do his students. Lost his job, eventually.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh well, 'play and pay' will apply, I guess. :P
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Originally Posted by xO Lanna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Your bf IS my age. I can guarantee if I dated him and found out he'd been screwing an 18 yr old former student, I'd dump him immediatly. I'd figure there was something wrong with him on some level.
Can't blame the guy in any way. Lana is hot I'd hit that too
I think Lana should have 1/2way sex with this tard, get out of bed & then just keep on walking.
To give him blue balls like a mother****er?Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was meaning to emphasize the 'keep on walking' part, actually.
I think Lana said he was 30, but I could be wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And the "myth" that CB is talking about is not about older men feeling intimidated by their contemporaries, it's about older men going for younger women because they don't want the pressures of settling down just yet, and settling down is what a woman in her thirties tends to want. So I don't think it's a myth.
The young flesh is just a perk.
I wouldn't underestimate the power of the perk Starbuck.
Edit: damn that was a good pun.
I think a lot of these older guys are attracted to the perk, but I don't underestimate that they are likewise uncomfortable with the expectations (most) women their age will have for them. Younger girls will tolerate a helluva lot more crap than older women would.
In the end, I consider it a weeding-out process. I mean, do (grown up) women really even want the kind of guy that does this?
I'm getting to that stage myself. Girls my age are just starting to look for serious commitment. As in marriage commitment. One of the really nice things about dating Kristen (who was 19 when we started going out) aside from her perkiness, was that time wasn't an issue.
Now I don't want to marry for at least another five years. So dating younger girls makes sense, otherwise I'm just wasting the time of women looking for something I'm just not ready to give. Mind you I'm talking 21-23.
And nor should you settle down, CB. You're around 25 right? I don't know alot of guys here who would want to settle at 25. I didn't want to when I was that age either. I think some others have said this already but overall, you seem to have a pretty positive outlook on relationships compared to some others on this board. It bears repeating.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But there are guys who go into their thirties and still date girls who are 23 and younger (like Lana's boyfriend). They're the ones who seem to have more of a chronic commitment-phobia. Either that or they like the ego-stroking of constantly being the much more experienced half of the relationship.
I could date a 20-something guy if I wanted to. I'm young enough looking. Hell, he'd probably not even know the diff I told him I was 30. And women like perky flesh, too. But in the long run, I know that it wouldn't be any kind of lasting relationship for me. And it would get boring as **** to always be the "right" one in every argument because I had experience on my side.
Not that a commitment is something I desperately want. Sometimes I'm not even sure I want to get married, but that's another issue entirely. Perhaps I should start my own thread for that. :P
I think CB is as old as me.
I got a few years on you Fras. I'm turning 26 in a month and a half
Must've been thinking of someone else then.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Eh, after 21 it's all the same anyway.
If anything, difference may only lie in whether a person is in their 20's as opposed to 30's or 40's.