Why are you asking women questions? Don't you know that they know nothing? Not even about themselves.
Why are you asking women questions? Don't you know that they know nothing? Not even about themselves.
Hey Indi, I love derailed threads, don't worry! ;) I enjoyed reading all the comments.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You're right in everything you've said. This girl was just a friend I wanted to spend New Years' Eve with and we both agreed that no love would sprout from that.
However, she had the brilliant idea of taking her child daughter along and, by the time we arrived at our destination, I was pretty much forced to play daddy role since she insisted that her daughter couldn't be alone for much time. We travelled all night (with me driving) and I was without sleep, but they both were complaining I wasn't being participative.
She then mentioned she wanted to bring a girl friend who she claimed was attracted to me and, while we were making out, I joked about a threesome. That's when it all started. We had a hard fight and I decided we would be coming back because we were behaving like a married couple and the point of the trip was to have fun and not worry about silly things. She then claimed I made herself look like a fool and the daughter had her expectations frustrated, and called me egotistical, but we came back nonetheless.
I took her back home, it was a 3-hour-long drive in the middle of the night, shut off the air conditioner in the car when her daughter complained about how cold it was, well, I know my attitude wasn't the best but I still did what I should've, which was to take her back safely. When we arrived she decided it was time to insult me and called me a snoring and farting fat pig (ironic since she's a smoker and her hair had a horrible smell... my car was in a pestilent state afterwards), said that she only kissed me in the first place because she was drunk the night we hung out (no matter, she still did what she wanted to), and that I was the worst guy she'd ever slept with (as if she was anything great in bed!!! riiiight... :P ). I returned the favour but that's not important.
She does have issues with sex IMO. She said she went without sex for 6 years.
This all happened in front of her little girl? Ugh. Run for the hills. She's freakin' nuts.
I already have! :lol: Travelling with her was the biggest mistake of my life. I didn't feel the "connection", she wasn't a good talk partner and not a good **** buddy by any means since she was below-average looking and totally out of sync with what I like in a woman (physically speaking)... In short, the idea was to just have fun and some sex and we both were well aware of that, but things didn't go as planned.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wasn't so pissed off with what happened as I was with what ensued afterwards... I crashed my car and had to spend New Years Eve with my twisted family... :(
Come on Arrow, you know better than to get yourself involved with a gal w/a kid unless you are really in deep.
She's obviously an irresponsible parent, but that doesn't excuse you. A kid is still a kid and ALL adults should do what's best for them. Sometimes its all the more important when the parents suck. I'm glad you drove them home safe, it was the right thing to do, but even better would to not have gotten into that situation in the first place.
Hindsights 20/20...Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This wasn't hindsight. This is "I told you so." I think Arrow mentioned this gal before?
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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Damn.. maybe time for new glasses?
This girl is a new one.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Before the trip she was like "I can't go without her, she can't stay away from me", then after the kid pranked her she went to "I'm pissed off at my daughter, I'll leave her with her dad and we go without her", and finally "my daughter's so excited that we'll spend New Year's Eve at the beach! let's go!". You get the idea. :lol:
I wasn't fond of taking the little girl with us but I changed my mind after phoning a mutual friend who said the kid wouldn't create problems... I should not have listened as I have no experience with kids and, quite frankly, all the child did there was getting in the way... When we fought she went to the other bedroom and shielded herself with the kid, exactly the same way a wife does when she's pissed off at her husband! That's what made me realise the trip was a mistake. And, in the end, she was suggesting that we stayed there even on bad terms, only because the kid wanted to stay.
It was quite frustrating to hear all of her insults when she was the one who phoned me all week asking me how were the plans. Anyway, I learned my lesson and I hope to steer clear from her.
Arrow, perhaps I wasn't clear in my last post: I am saying to stay clear of ALL women with kids until you are sure you are considering a serious relationship with them. Its just too cruel to the children.
Are you really that desperate that you need to stoop to ****ing single moms for easy sex? I wasn't under that impression, Arrow.
I got your advice right, don't worry. :) It's just that I found out about the kid later. I felt very uncomfortable around the kid, too.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She sounds like a miserable excuse for a mother. Who shields themselves with a child? No one with half a brain. Please do not lump mothers in this category. There is something very wrong with that woman.
BUT.Quote:
Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How many women actually would do all that stuff if there weren't the term slut?
In conclusion, imho, its not what you do, but what keeps you doing certain things. If you don't sleep with many men just because you are afraid of being a slt, you are a slut.
I don't think so. The word "slut" refers to a behavior, not a thought.
Thoughts are also behavior.
I think you meant action.
Okay, if you prefer. I consider thoughts and actions to be separate entities.
Yes. But in current context, it is about behavior.
What's the male equivalent of slut? is there even one?
If a man has multiple partners is that seen in a negative light by other men? Anyway I don't like the term and though I've used it in the past I've always regretted it. I think you could write a book on the connotations of the word, at the end of the day however a lot of male double standards coming into play in its use. Yet a lot of women instead of fighting male hypocracy embrace it with typical female bitchiness.
I think a lot of people have a casual approach to sex, that doesn't make them bad people. As long as it doesn't affect anybody else, they're not in a relationship and they're careful to look after their health I really wouldn't judge them.
Now that I think about it, I associate the term slut with somebody with no discretion. I'm a believer in 'what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom' I'm also not a fan of guys that kiss and tell. When I've used the term about women in the past it's tended to be because every detail of their sex life is public knowledge.
Isn't slutty just another word for promiscuous? That's how I've defined it anyway.
And yes, there is a male equivalent of slut. Sluttiness knows no gender.
No, it does. Because men are better than women.
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Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then you are clearly in the wrong sexual orientation... Go over to the 'dark side' so that your adoration of the male gender will make more sense. ;)
Women are better than men because we have breasts, and they are prettier than hairy testicles.
And you wonder why there are guys on here who shave there testicles?Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It doesn't matter. The only testicles that are attractive are the ones on baby boys, and even then, only their mothers think they are cute.
Testicles must have some kind of appeal for women... saw a guy on a porno once, and for the life of me, I could not see his testicles... It was just his dick... and I felt really let down. :P There was nothing there to balance out the whole thing or seemingly set the tempo... Ugly or not, you still expect to see them!
It feels pretty good when a girl puts them in her mouth and sucks on them gently too.
Haha Cain!
That was perfectly timed.
Truer words have never been spoken.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah, no matter how hard you are already, it just makes you get that little bit harder
That's the most incestuous, perverted thing I have ever heard.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That is the icing on the cake when giving oral. It's all a part of my technique!
Hehe....am I the only girl who loves doing that? I wonder if the LF ladies are gonna pick up for me? :D
haha. i did that for the first time not too long ago, and i think my bf was really pleasantly surprised because he wasn't expecting it. ;)
That's because you are a dumb kid.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Does that mean you find my testicles attractive? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No. you aren't my baby.
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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hell yeah...;)
Guys are very easy to please... why on Earth would you complicate things by not giving oral?
Life is just better when you do... better for the guy, and better for you. It's a win-win situation. :D
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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wish I met some of you girls. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
why isn't there a thread about guys eating p****? lol
'Cause apparently there's nothing controversial about us suckin' cunt juices.
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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Most women don't want to stop men from doing it... and most men don't mind providing the service.
Does seem to be quite unfair on the whole oral sex issue.. doesn't it, generally speaking?