Not attracted to fiancé anymore

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Originally Posted by CherryBlossom [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I didn't mean to say that. Of course 'we' should do something about it. I was just asking how to tell I'm not satisfied without hurting him. Anyways, thanks everyone for your time! I'll stick with my fiancé even if I don't find him attractive. He's nice and loves me. I'll masturbate the rest of my life and I'm good to go.

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No you won't. At some point you will realize that even though you are married, it's still your life and you can't live the rest of your life without being satisfied. You will most likely cheat on him simply because you will not want to spend the rest of your life in partial celibacy. You will then feel really guilty and look for ways to make it up to him. When you believe you sufficiently "made up" for it you will do it again and again until it becomes part of your routine. At some point your partner will find out and most likely the relationship will end in throes of resentment and bitterness.


It doesn't have to be this way.

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Originally Posted by CherryBlossom [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I didn't mean to say that. Of course 'we' should do something about it. I was just asking how to tell I'm not satisfied without hurting him. Anyways, thanks everyone for your time! I'll stick with my fiancé even if I don't find him attractive. He's nice and loves me. I'll masturbate the rest of my life and I'm good to go.

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LOL. Translation:

"I found a good guy who's better than I am. I'm afraid if I'm honest with him he will dump me & I will never do better."

Nice & loves me = he makes more money than I do.

This is an example of: Smart Woman, Dumb Man :lol:

I think this all started as soon as you started talking to these "hot guys" you mention. You kept in mind the "WHat If" and did not bother to think about your fiance.
Its normal and happens a lot. From this point I don't think you love your fiance anymore but rather want the chance to pursue the "what if" thought.
My advise is to break up with the guy before he gets hurt.

How old are you by the way or a age range.

You're going to destroy his perspective on women if you tag him along, poisoning his future relationships. Grow a backbone and tell him.