Will she chase me?

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Thanks for the advice guys! I'll leave her be, ignore her and see what happens

And carl- LOL. Damn dude that made my day! But I guess its true?!

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Pretty much... you would be her 'plaything' until she moves onto another guy... breaking your heart in a most disrespectful way.

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Originally Posted by carl1222 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And I don't care that she is only 15 ... she is still toxic.

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15 year olds grow into women... and sometimes these 'phases' are never grown out of. So yeah... have a chance to save one guy from her hurtfulness.. though I pity the future guys she'll hurt along the way...

Damn, Im not much a facebook person or anything like that but the ONE time I go on (last time I went on was like a few weeks ago) theres new updated stuff of her. It sounds stupid but it's a constant reminder to me. I really wanna talk to her, but this time I'm just waiting it off yet I know she dosen't even care. ****.

EDIT: I finally talked to her, I explained that it would have been nice for her to let me know. And that I sat there waiting for her and calling her just to make sure I didn't leave her alone if she did show up. She then yelled at me and told me that Im not her bitch and that she should not have to report her every move to me. Then continued by telling me it's a priveladge to talk to her.......

Yea, I guess I'm a loser.

Ill update when I get something in response

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Damn, Im not much a facebook person or anything like that but the ONE time I go on (last time I went on was like a few weeks ago) theres new updated stuff of her. It sounds stupid but it's a constant reminder to me. I really wanna talk to her, but this time I'm just waiting it off yet I know she dosen't even care. ****.

EDIT: I finally talked to her, I explained that it would have been nice for her to let me know. And that I sat there waiting for her and calling her just to make sure I didn't leave her alone if she did show up. She then yelled at me and told me that Im not her bitch and that she should not have to report her every move to me. Then continued by telling me it's a priveladge to talk to her.......

Yea, I guess I'm a loser.

Ill update when I get something in response

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Jar... she's been brainwashed by a lot of bs that many teenage girls are subject to.... do not take it personally... you seem like a very decent kind of guy.

She wants to be 'her own person' then she can do so on her own. I'd say good riddance...

Knowing this side of her now... aren't you glad you didn't have to put up with the more monstrous form of this if she were your girlfriend? I honestly think you dodged a bullet on this one.

I say... good for you... and forget about her... you can and will do better than her.

Ha, excellent post. I wanna say I am done talking to her and done dealing with her in an extremely powerful way that will leave a mark. Any ideas?

BTW- What do you think of this. We were talking on the phone, she was crying. I told her that I would always be there for her. She paused, I joked and said "What? Am I not good enough" and she said "....not really. You kinda remind me of my X". She said I reminded her of her X in BAD ways (Which honestly..I dont see how, I have done nothing but stood by her side and treated her well". I asked what she was talking about and then covered it up by saying "I don't wanna talk about it". So I offer my help and tell her I am always there for her and get a mental bitchslap right back........I just wanna say good riddance but let her know how much of an ass she has been.

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Damn, Im not much a facebook person or anything like that but the ONE time I go on (last time I went on was like a few weeks ago) theres new updated stuff of her. It sounds stupid but it's a constant reminder to me. I really wanna talk to her, but this time I'm just waiting it off yet I know she dosen't even care. ****.

EDIT: I finally talked to her, I explained that it would have been nice for her to let me know. And that I sat there waiting for her and calling her just to make sure I didn't leave her alone if she did show up. She then yelled at me and told me that Im not her bitch and that she should not have to report her every move to me. Then continued by telling me it's a priveladge to talk to her.......

Yea, I guess I'm a loser.

OK

Ill update when I get something in response

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Jar ... it's time to man up and stop pumping from a dry well. Repeat after me ... no matter what you feel, she is not the girl or worthy of a girl to be with you. She is not a PRIVILEGE, not anywhere close. She is a skanky cock whore girl who is conceited about her attractiveness, and player bait in the first degree.

So let her get played by hotties that don't give a s**t about her. remember ... that is not your problem. You have to get out ... and NOW!

Carl.

Ok, got it. Ill call her a cocky skank whore and close the deal

BTW, she did give me the chance to be her friend but she is all flirty when we hang out. I wanna still hang out with her but that would just be torture to me. I just hope I don't look immature for breaking off the friendship because we can't go out, but she has her downsides too and as you said that is the monstrous side. So, is she still a 1st degree player? I mean, she did say we could be friends..Agh, Im looking at the weather. This week would be awesome to hang out with her, but I just gotta move on?? Now help me get her out of my head.

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Ok, got it. Ill call her a cocky skank whore and close the deal

BTW, she did give me the chance to be her friend but she is all flirty when we hang out. I wanna still hang out with her but that would just be torture to me. I just hope I don't look immature for breaking off the friendship because we can't go out, but she has her downsides too and as you said that is the monstrous side. So, is she still a 1st degree player? I mean, she did say we could be friends..Agh, Im looking at the weather. This week would be awesome to hang out with her, but I just gotta move on?? Now help me get her out of my head.

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Let us know how that all works out.. And maybe tell her all the things that you don't like about her? Why not.. Well really, it depends on what you say.
Something that would leave a mark would be good.. But i don't really have any ideas at the moment since is 3AM.. Maybe add some 'big' words like conceited and vain.. that she probably doesn't know the meanings of.. haha :D

I sent her a message saying we cannot continue to be friends when she gets mad at me for trying to help her. I said I was sick of being compared to her EX boyfriend and being called names for trying to help her.

She sent me a dumbass :'( face hours later and I said "Was that an attempt to make me look dramatic".

I talked to her for a bit, and she just lied so much it was funny. She said she still wanted to hang out with me and that she really wants to be my friend, I made her feel like shit and i got about 15 "Im sorry"'s out of her, lol. I know she didnt mean it. I said "Ok, lets hang out tomorrow after school". She then said "No, because I hate when those kids yell stuff at you, so lets hang out tomorrow night maybe". Kids who think they are hot shit yell at me because they are friends with a kid that went out with this girl. So I said "alright....well don't use my personal issue's as an excuse to not hang out with me" and the last message I got was "Well I just like night better".

LOL

It's up to you what you want to do... but she is rather controlling. She's more hassle than what she's worth... and thinks way too highly of herself. Wouldn't you want a friend that doesn't require this much work? Talking with friends should be easy and mostly drama-free... not a constant struggle...

Now I'm just thinking about what to say. Probably something along those lines.

Talked to her, she acts like she cares now. "But, don't you get mad at what they call you?" And she dosent get that I dont care because they are futureless ****s that will be working for me some day. I am kinda messing with her now, she goes "Fine, tomorrow we can hang out" and I said "No, I can't now. I've made other plans". Wow, im a dick but hey there wasn't much of a reaction from her....Is that good or bad?

... Dude, you need to just let this go.

In all honesty, getting a rise out of her or not.. you're just coming off as kind of pathetic. She's told you she's not interested in you, you know this probably won't go anywhere, so just stop talking to her and let it be.

But, I talked to her telling her I was gonna break it off but then she started talking to me again.

This is the kind of situation that makes me wanna throw a ****ing rock at someones face. Know what I mean?

But, I get what your saying.

For now on, new rule. She has to initiate conversation first. I'm done with this Bullshit.

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

But, I talked to her telling her I was gonna break it off but then she started talking to me again.

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That's because she still wants to keep playing games with you --- keep 'control' of you.

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

For now on, new rule. She has to initiate conversation first.

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No new rules... nothing... just leave her alone. You can't get her back, you can't make her feel bad... because she doesn't matter anymore --- you're not playing her games anymore... remember?

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm done with this Bullshit.

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You're only done when you stop giving her ammo... when you stop talking with her... How can she play these head games with you when you won't even talk to her?

Alright alright, as you can tell I dont like change. I have adjusted myself to talking to her and now I'm trying to stop talking to her. If she does happen to call me tuesday to walk her home, I dunno. i guess I just don't answer.

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

But, I talked to her telling her I was gonna break it off but then she started talking to me again.

This is the kind of situation that makes me wanna throw a ****ing rock at someones face. Know what I mean?

But, I get what your saying.

For now on, new rule. She has to initiate conversation first. I'm done with this Bullshit.

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How about new rule-- you stop talking to her completely?

You do realize the reason she's probably continuing to talk to you is because she doesn't want the attention you give her to stop right? She's not going to date you.. but she'll continue to use you.

Its just so hard to do that. I tried today with some success only to ask her hat was wrong when she was all sad looking. I just still feel like I have a chance but I really don't and I don't think she will even care if I stop

Sorry for a double post, but I wanted to know. Today we talked, and I walked her home. She was being so comfortable with me. Hitting me in the arm, staring at me in class and pretty much observing what I was doing. Yes, Observing. She then brought up how I acted in class (Which wasn't bad) but she noticed I was a bit out of it today just chilling back and listening to music. So, after that we were walking home and we came to a fork in the road. There were 2 ways. The short way, and the long way. I began walking the short way (The way we normally go) and she said "No wait!" and then pulled me toward the long route. She was acting all hyper with stupid little jokes. And this is the part that weirded me out. Or confused me. I noticed there was alot of eye contact on her part, staring at me ALOT when she talked to me and as I looked back and tried to make eye contact aswell she broke the eye...contact. yea lol. That went on for a bit and she is still saying we are only friends. Now, you guys told me to get away from her but now I think I am actually getting somewhere. Cause thats never happened before.

It really still sounds like you're looking for something that's not there and reading into every little thing she does.

Seriously, it really seems like she knew she was going to lose your attention and didn't want to lose her ego stroker.. I'd be sincerely surprised if this went anywhere, especially the way you want it.

Today she grabbed me and emotionally curb stomped me. yea. Today I was like "Well, shes been flirty lately, now I can finally see how this will end" So, we walked and the bad mood came on. Getting mad at everything I said, we were walking on a path and she said, lets go this way! So I walked that way and noticed she continued straight, so I asked her what her deal was and she just said "Oh, I changed my mind". She then said how funny it would be if I got jumped by kids that yelled shit at me and how she would step off to the side and watch. Then explained to me that I was the only friend she had, and she said how pathetic it was. I said "Why am I so bad?" and she replied with "Look at you". She wouldnt sit next to me on the bench and told me to sit at the opposite one so we wouldnt make eye contact and so she wouldnt have to look at me. BUT she still wants to hang out so I can help her buy her car. Whatever. She lost her last friend. She still wants me to walk her home.....buut

Ok.. she's looney... on to the next friend...

LOL, You might aswell say I am crazy too for hanging around her. lol

Well, I took your guys advice and stopped talking to her. Then I got more and more texts and calls from her the past few nights. I never answer the calls and when texting I make sure the convo is short. Its usually at night so I say "Im gonna go to sleep, cya". Today she made new friends....All of them being boys. She wanted to call me to tell me about it so I lied and said I was out so I couldn't call her. She told me how they all gave her compliments on her looks. Now really, what am I supposed to say to say? I just said "Thats cool, glad you had fun" and explained to her that I don't have feelings for her anymore (Which is partially true, more guy competition so to speak, and I'm just tired of all the bullshit. Face it, if someone wanted to talked to you it wouldn't be a hassle. End of story) and told her that since she is making other friends I won't really be the main person to talk to anymore. She responded "No! I still wanna talk to you" and it ended there. So I guess there isn't much else to do but continue the causual small talk and slowy break ties with her. :sinister:

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Originally Posted by JarOPennies [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well, I took your guys advice and stopped talking to her. Then I got more and more texts and calls from her the past few nights. I never answer the calls and when texting I make sure the convo is short. Its usually at night so I say "Im gonna go to sleep, cya". Today she made new friends....All of them being boys. She wanted to call me to tell me about it so I lied and said I was out so I couldn't call her. She told me how they all gave her compliments on her looks. Now really, what am I supposed to say to say? I just said "Thats cool, glad you had fun" and explained to her that I don't have feelings for her anymore (Which is partially true, more guy competition so to speak, and I'm just tired of all the bullshit. Face it, if someone wanted to talked to you it wouldn't be a hassle. End of story) and told her that since she is making other friends I won't really be the main person to talk to anymore. She responded "No! I still wanna talk to you" and it ended there. So I guess there isn't much else to do but continue the causual small talk and slowy break ties with her. :sinister:

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Took you a while to realise she was playing with you're emotions.. Atleast you did realise.. Now she can't walk all over you..
I usually keep contact with exes though.. :) But in this case I dunno what I would do..