OMG, it still sounds awful
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OMG, it still sounds awful
Get over it Sonrisa,anyway I will probably have a daughter,knowing my luck... And will be pissed off whole my life . Girls are so difficult to raise ...
hahaha well, I hope I can get it without need to pay one day... I'm not that ugly...Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Robot you seem like a darling kid. Even if you're aren't a hot stud treat a girl right and you won't have a problem. But you do have to practice your game.
From what you described PP, your "swinger's club" is just a co-ed brothel. A brothel is just a glorious name for a marginally classy whore house. A whore house is a house full of whores.
You friend's boyfriend is a co-ed, marginally classy, whore.
Honestly, it just seems like a way for people to mask insecurities and avoid their inability to commit or have compassion. Basically a club for individuals who are second class, emotionally speaking.
Hahaha I think everybody got a bit confused about who am I talking. The person that goes to a Swinger's club is a friend of my boyfriend lol . And this friend's girlfriend doesn't know nothing about it and is the one who accepted the fact that he cheated on her and gave her some STD ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Cbrider [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I got you right at first :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Speaking of STDs, I know of "someone" who when she has had sex with someone who wasn't a virgin has had them take STD tests, does everyone do that?
I won't have unprotected sex with someone who hasn't been tested and I've been like that for since college. Nobody wants cooties.Quote:
Originally Posted by the_robot [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
YES ROBOT YOU SHOULD DO THAT. No, everyone doesn't which is EXACTLY how and why it spreads.
Hmm and btw, the STD I'm talking about is HPV virus , and actually I always thought that some guys are carriers of this virus and can spread it even if they didn't have any sexual partners before... If I'm right, he didn't have to admit that he cheated on her but ohmm well... :P
I think it reasonable, but I just was curious about it being "normal" because maybe I'd be considered a weirdo for that too...Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That shit is everywhere...Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So a virgin could carry an STD and not even know about it? Damn, I think I may have to get me tested some day and I'm afraid of needles :'(Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If you're a carrier, there is a way for your future partner to avoid getting this virus if she doesn't have it already. She needs to get tested for HPV virus first, if test results show that she doesn't have it, she can get vaccines. However,those vaccines are pretty expensive (few houndreds of euros). Test itself costs 100 euros or something. As far as I know girls till 16 or 17 in UK and Germany can get the test and vaccine for free. The test must be done if a girl already had sex before.Quote:
Originally Posted by the_robot [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Ask every non virgin you encounter to take a test. And don't get pissy when you're asked too.
Better paying a few hundred € than getting a bad present for the rest of the life...Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd have to get tested to be sure, even though I doubt I carry anything.. but just in case.
I will, if I ever need to, which seems very unlikely for now.Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The Dr told me I had an STD once...I was freakin out...turns out I just had a bacterial infection...a few antibiotics and I was good...it wasn't sexually transmitted...he also told me I had cancer one time and I didn't...I don't go see him anymore.
You are sure he wasn't trying to provoke you a heart attack?Quote:
Originally Posted by dewilliams2 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That vaccine is pretty controversial. There are some safety concerns. Some doctors aren't vaccinating their daughters, which tells me a lot.
Yeah I've heard about 14yo or something girl in UK that died because of this vaccine. Well all vaccines are bad in someway, still I would prefer to take HPV vaccine than Swine Flu one :) But then again, I don't have flying free 600 or 700 euros to spend it on vaccine hehehehe . but then again,my bf is STD's free, and as far as I know, I'm too. And if I ever have to have cancer, I will have, with vaccine or without. My two grandmothers died of cancer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yet, another reason why i'll never pay for sex... there are always social functions and gullible people who are willing to give it to you for free.
raverboy
Whether from the bathhouses of the 1970s or humankind's relatively recent disdain for open sexuality, it's a real shame that swinging has earned such a bad name. In part, so many worry that swinging ruins the quality of marriages and the integrity of their vows, yet research [url=http://www.ejhs.org/volume3/swing/body.htm]clearly indicates the opposite[/url].Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's really up to the individual couple to decide if swinging works for them. It's a very powerful decision to trade away exclusive intimacy for increased pleasure. That said, I'll be willing to bet that it would work for more couples than those who realize it.
I'm sorry, but this logic is the dumbest thing I have ever encountered, and I am not a dumb guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by phys251 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If it works so well, then why does it turn into a lifestyle? Does it make the act of cheating "okay" because your SO is ignorant enough to want to do it too? I believe it makes them both out to be blind ignorant fools. Call it what it is... it's a bunch of non-commited adults acting like horny children and trying to find a way to justify it.
I think swinging is WAY better than cheating. There's no lying involved. I hate lying. Hate it! The fact that Pettit's bf's friend is doing this is appalling because he's lying to his girlfriend, not because he's experimenting sexually.
It's dumb when people play that game. Murdering my neighbors dog by decapitating him and eating his brains is WAY better than doing that to my neighbor...Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wether you're lying about it or not is it's own issue. But my beef is the fact that 2 people who gave vowels to each other, who are united feel the need to sleep with other people. This goes beyond "experimenting sexually" to downright nonsense. I'm sorry, but there is seriously something not right about sticking your junk in another married woman and watching your wife get railed by someones husband. Where is the commitment and respect being displayed? These people are not right in the head.
Well, personally, I agree that married people should be committed to one another. I am and I expect the same level of commitment from my husband, but clearly a lot of the population is incapable of this level of commitment. So many people cheat on their spouses and it's disgusting. If they want to have sex with other people, be open about it and do it as a couple. At least there's no deception involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by dono01 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Chill out, dono. If my points are incorrect, feel free to address them. FYI, you will have better success if you stop using all those strawmen.Quote:
Originally Posted by dono01 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This is one of the major reasons why I think a LOT more couples should try out swinging. Hell, half of all married people will cheat at least once. Half! How can this not be a dead giveaway that the current system is not working?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hmm... The guyQuote:
Originally Posted by phys251 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I qm tqlking qbout IS CHEATING in swingers club... His gf even don't know about it, if she would she would kill him... It's disgusting... I don't know what is worse, to cheat there or with some random girls...
If two people agree to do it and think it's a good thing for their relationship then go on... There is enough pervertion in this world, so this is just another one... But personally for me it's just simply disgusting... Not just physically, but also emotionally... I treat my body as my treasure... I don't want 200 other people ,that have no meaning to me, have my treasure...
lol..damn PP! i think he's just saying there are people out there who like this lifestyle and works for them. We can't really force people to live some other type of life especially if they're happy with it. Right? Also, yes i get that your b/f's friend cheated and that sucks but it happens a lot out. Anyway, the guy has a valid point about swingers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And I just say that Swinger's Clubs disgust me, I can have my opīnion or not? :) I said people can do what they want but personally I would rather die then go there :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Asip4u [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah i guess everyone is entitled to their opinion.Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Of course :) I could puke on top of that t oput my 'amen' on it but it's impossible virtually :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Asip4u [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yeah I had a similar metaphor with a temple... but I don't want people in lol. The treasure is better. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's not swinging; that's cheating. For someone to act that way is to pervert the very purpose of swinging: expanding one's sexual options while increasing communication and trust, not decreasing it. That it happened in a swingers club is irrelevant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To each their own. Though I believe that more people would enjoy swinging than they admit, it's not for everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Safe sex is just good sense for everyone. Testing can only detect the cooties we *know* about. Remember that HIV was only discovered in 1983...
That seems a bit extreme to me. I'm pretty sure a visit to a swinger's club would be more interesting than death, if that was my choice. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Petit Papillon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yea I'd most definitely go to a swingers club before dieing...I mean it isn't like you have to swing...just hang out in the corner and try not to sit in anything sticky or touch anything.
Really ,no... It's like, sometimes I think, if I was pushed by material situation to become a prostitute, would I do it? I think no, cause I would probably be suicidal after.The same with swinger's. Of course I could go there, but I would never have sex with some strangers. HELL ****ing NO. First, it might be unhleathy,second it really disgust me,mostly psychologically. For some people sex is just sex,an act, but for me , I need to connect emotions to it. Otherwise I would feel like the worst person ever. Think what you want,but I'm not a fan of having sex with strangers or one night stands. Other people can do what they want but I will never.
And since I won't be pushed to a situation where I will have to choose between swinger's and death,I say death :)
^^^ or you could give ME money and i'll force myself to sleep with you.
raverboy