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I think she's one of those girls who's looking for a quick n easy night. I'm not that type of guy unfortunately.
So do you think then I should just cut all ties and remove her number and friends list from facebook? Bad thing now is I have to see her every day on the bus.
No I wouldn't. If you do, you are showing you are bothered.Quote:
Originally Posted by medic_man [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If she wants friends, just keep her as a far distant friend. The type you know, but you don't go out of your way for.
I'm unsure as to why she'd want to send 'exciting' texts to a guy she considers just a friend.
Sounds like a bit of a slapper to me, lol
Well she told me that shes not a slapper and that she prefers to know guys as friends first and then wait and see what happens.
trust me, if she was hot for you, she would NOT have said that. She might not have had sex with you right away, but she wouldn't risk sending you to the friend zone.Quote:
Originally Posted by medic_man [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yea thats fair enough
Ok people, I thought i'd dig this conversation back up because something kicked off last night. This girl came round to my place last night to help me with some studying. She started helping me with my studying but then we got sidetracked into talking why a relationship wouldn't work between us and why we are glad that we are friends. It's because I'm in the military and she can't cope with the worries especially the current situation in Afghanistan.
We then ended up laying on the floor together and we just had a serious chat together when we then started getting intimate. We then ended up having sex together and now it's starting to get complicated. She's scared that she doesn't want to hurt me but she has developed feelings for me but wouldnt tell me. I then drove her back home and when I got back home we had a general chat over the phone before i went to bed. I just don't understand this situation myself anymore. Please explain it to me.How can just being friends turn into this?