should i pay half, or more?

I mainly posted that because you stated that there are very few shallow women out there. She is a prime example (despite having bad grammar, although that may be the result of a bad online translator). Unfortunately because you admit above that you'd marry just to escape unfavorable circumstances you show that you are (or at least that you're capable of) being shallow as well. Marrying for money is shallow, no matter what the reasons.

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Originally Posted by Incognito [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I mainly posted that because you stated that there are very few shallow women out there. She is a prime example (despite having bad grammar, although that may be the result of a bad online translator). Unfortunately because you admit above that you'd marry just to escape unfavorable circumstances you show that you are (or at least that you're capable of) being shallow as well. Marrying for money is shallow, no matter what the reasons.

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Everyone is capable of being shallow. I merely stated that had my life gone differently I may have made the same choices, since my life never went that way you can't say I really would have because I've never been that person. Had your life gone differently you may have too. There are many shallow women out there, but there are also a lot of women with bleeding hearts that marry into a situation of impending doom.

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Originally Posted by Incognito [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I mainly posted that because you stated that there are very few shallow women out there. She is a prime example (despite having bad grammar, although that may be the result of a bad online translator). Unfortunately because you admit above that you'd marry just to escape unfavorable circumstances you show that you are (or at least that you're capable of) being shallow as well. Marrying for money is shallow, no matter what the reasons.

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Rethinking this (Or maybe I just need a break from housework), I am actually kind of shallow, but not because of money. I heavily judge people, and have very strong opinions. My ex friend seriously works 2 jobs, over 60 hours a week because her husband cannot keep a job. There aren't that many good places to work in Waco, TX, he's managed to get fired from just about all of them. He doesn't clean, he doesn't cook that much, and he doesn't pay for the mortgage. He has a part time job making minimum wage, but wants to stay part time so he can practice his comedy (no one thinks he is funny). And when he does find good work, he spends all his money on the strip club. I think he is scum of the earth and she needs to divorce him. Every reason I dislike him doesn't have to do with his personality, but his value to society, so I guess that fits the definition of shallow... but I accept this. I'm a happily well-adjusted shallow person.

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Originally Posted by sparkle_jello [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

.....It would be hard to label women as shallow, there are a few shallow women out there, ........I see this often, all around me and although I wouldn't marry for money.....

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Everyone is capable of being shallow. I merely stated that had my life gone differently I may have made the same choices, since my life never went that way you can't say I really would have because I've never been that person. Had your life gone differently you may have too. There are many shallow women out there, but there are also a lot of women with bleeding hearts that marry into a situation of impending doom.

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Interesting...

As far as that guy is concerned she needs to insure him for a million bucks and slip some rat poison in his coffee. That would make up for all the years of laziness and incompetence in one fell swoop. :D

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Interesting...

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Someone had brought to my attention all the women in NY and Cali, my view altered a little. I still think though that a the number of women out there that are shallow for this reason is relatively small, but the number is large because we have a big population.