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Does, anyone know how you can prevent certain people from answering your post?
Meaning me?? wow...I remember Illusional, Zekk, and I were the only faithful users in this forum, and now I'm about to get kicked out...sad, sad. can't believe it. don't worry, I'll leave this post
Jay-tea,
What do you think I can do to gain her trust back, or to make her feel comfortable with me. I don't want her to think I'm this heartless male that doesn't care about her. But, she has this image of me that I don't know if it's possible to change her mind.
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If you are patient enough, you will get the result you want ;)
You see, women change their minds 99.9% of the time. If you just show your sincerity about this whole thing, in time, you'll see that love can change ANYTHING :french:
A few points:
* Be sensitive- In small ways, show her you care. But DO NOT overdo it. When you try to talk to her and she seems uninterested or annoyed, cut it out but say (for instance), "Guess you're busy. I hope everything's fine. I'll just keep in touch again tomorrow." On the other hand, if she shows interest, keep it going...but be very careful NOT to focus on yourself. Remember, you're trying to win her heart...not your own.
* Be honest- Say only what you mean and mean what you say
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* Be patient - Don't be discouraged even if she seems to turn away...'coz believe me, it will just be at first. Understand that she probably has her own hurts and confusions about what had happened. So just stay on track no matter what.
* Be consistent - When you say you care, let your actions speak for you...always
Remember, there are only two factors that can mend or improve the situation: YOU and TIME.
May you use both to your advantage ;)
Thanks...I'd better write this down :)
Let me know what haapens next... :baby:
good luck ;)
I sure will, but I haven't talked or seen her in a some time now and I think it would be best for me to talk to her when I see her next and we have time to ourselves.
ok
i wish you the best ;)
i would still make out with a lot of my female friends... raverboy
Have you ever?
:bored: NAAYYYYY FORGET IT IT WAS JUST FOR FUN.. DONT CALL BACK UR FRIEND IF U DO IT WILL HURT U BOTH LATER ..
I don't think I will call her. I think she had a chance and I tried. I have let go. But what do you mean it will hurt us both?
But, at the same time, what about you? I could say the same thing about your guy and you. Why don't you forget him? All of a sudden it feels different doesn't it. And perhaps yours was "just for fun" too? Huh?
No. You pretty much have to be physically attracted to each other (or think about chocolate all the while) in order for the kiss to last that long.
Whether physical attraction alone warrants starting a relationship is an entirely different story, however.
I don't know. I'm not sure if you read the whole thing, but I had posted where she told me she got a boyfriend and when I asked her if he was cute she was like..."uhhh...he treats me nice." I mean, she couldn't even say he was cute. Then she goes, "Hot guys, they treat you like crap!"
Like I've said, she always thought I was conceited and a lot of times when I would go out with a girl I would get complimented on my looks instead of the girl, or get picked up (she knows about that) and I've noticed the girls to get very irritated with that. So, I might be wrong but I have always wondered if she felt uncomfortable with me because of stuff like that although she is very beautiful. If that is the case, that would be SOOOO STUPID and I would be so mad at her!!!
Dude, did she tell you she wasn't attracted to you ?
Well, I don't know how much you've read, but I explain everything in my posts.
She has told me that I have "very beautiful eyes," and that I "look like a Cavlin Klein model," and one time, as we are friends, she told me that she met some guy at a party that was good-looking and then she said, "But he was not as beautiful as you"
But when I asked her if she likes me as more than a friend this is what she replied:
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"....... no, i don't like you and i'm sorry i blew you off. but i
know you are never serious about things, and, as you said, wouldn't really care either way so i just didn't even address it.
i've got a headache so i'm going to go bury my head in a pillow and cry, or just smash it to pieces w/ a hammer. i havn't decided yet. you have a good night."
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She has not told me that she phisically doesn't like me, although this letter might suggest that.
You really need to read the whole thing shafkore to get what's the situation.
Hello??? Is Pesh still around?? :detective
It's been a while:bored: ...but I'm back :french: missed this site:sad2:
How are you??:baby:
Hope you're doin' so much better than the last time I was here.:)
ok...i havnt read through all the posts on here...they are kinda long...
but to answer the first post, yes you can french kiss a friend that you are not physically attracted to...ive done it...
1) the friend was still pretty...but REALLY not my type..basically just important that the person is the right gender...
2) you emotionally are hung up on someone else (rebound)
3) your friend has feelings for you
4) you two get alone time
ok maybe its not so much the physcial attraction...as it is possible to get it on with a friend that you don't like, I would have shagged my friend if I'd have had the oppertunity, while I was on the rebound. It turns out she had a crush on me for years, and Ive never been interested, but we ended up making out for a weekend when she came to visit me, about a month after I got dumped...I really didnt enjoy any of it, because I had ruined a friendship and I just wanted to be withsomeone else....AND after ruining all that, the weekend visit was still PG-13
hmm my situation is somewhat like yours. I have a friend whom i've been making out with for the past few weeks. I started developing feeling for her and did confessed it but she told me only sees me as a friend. When we hung out with each other, she would say thigns like "I like you alot" and "you're fun to be with, i like hanging out with you" which led me to believe that she does have feeling for me.... but when i asked her where this is heading she'd say "We're buddies" and told me not to think about her and that i should go out with other girls. I went on explaining to her that its really hard being friedn with someone you have feeling for and asked "if we made out then there should be some feeling involve right?"
she replied "yeah making out with you makes me have feelings for you" and continued saying that she only wants friendship.
So what do you guy think... is there still a chance for me to get with her or should i move on?
She does not have any reboudning problem. We're still making out that why it doesn't hurt that much. What do you think i should do?
Ithink your attracted to him!
Dude you posted a link of yourself twice! Who cares! Personally I think you look like a frickin goon but, oh well.
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In fact she has told me before that I have "very beautiful eyes," and that I look like a "Calvin Klein model." One time she was telling me that she had gone to a party and had met some really nice guy and she had alot of fun and that he had beautiful eyes...and she then said, "But he wasn't as beautiful as you"
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Has anyone ever told you you are the most beautiful girl they have ever seen, and I'm not talking about your mother or your boyfriend, or just one person? Has a gay guy ever told you you are so beautiful that you turn him on? Have you ever been told that you are too beautiful to look down? Well, I have...Just today a woman told me that I was "one of the cutest guys she's ever seen...
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Like I've said, she always thought I was conceited and a lot of times when I would go out with a girl I would get complimented on my looks instead of the girl, or get picked up (she knows about that) and I've noticed the girls to get very irritated with that.
Seriously man all you're talking about is how you're "so good looking." Even if you don't come out and say that, you're obviously implying that. I think you need to get your head out of your ass.
Who cares if he's cute? Were you fishing for a, "He's not as cute as you" compliment again? Maybe he's not a wuss like you so he can get the girl.Quote:
I got to talk to her recently and she told me she got a boyfriend. So I asked her, "So, is he cute?" And she goes, "Ummnnn, he treats me nice." She couldn't even say he was cute. Then, she goes "Hot guys they treat you like crap"
In a nutshell this thread should be titled, "Girls say I'm beautiful, so why can't I get this one?" Even though the girls that have told you that probably are over 40, wear glasses, and probably weren't wearing them at the time.
Nope. Maybe next time you should take him up on his offer. Cause you apparantley suck at girls.Quote:
Has a gay guy ever told you you are so beautiful that you turn him on?
DUCKYWUCKY, nice who gives a **** smilely face.. How did you do that?
Ok, DickyWicky,
I think you should get a shrink and make your mom pay for it - you are an angry man who needs extensive professional help, so I'm not taking it personal...LOL.
I'm glad you got it out of your system - you might have strangled your cat or something if you hadn't.
I have a principle: Don't hate the haters - they hate themselves enough!
Cheers! :)
damn, talk about anger management! Your next in line peshkunta.
I mean, he may be angry but at least he is honest with himself. For not taking it so personally... you sure are defensive.
Hey there, Plain Jane!
Not even gonna waste my time...
Cheers! :)
LOL Plain Jane? That's orginal..
DickyWicky? Plain Jane? I don't even wanna know how long it took you to come up with those clever nicknames. We need to re-evaluate your testosterone levels.
Oh and I wasn't speaking out of anger, it was out of frustration from reading this ghey thread. It was the fact that I heard the same assclown ramble on and on. That individual being yourself.
I know you're not going to say nothing back because what can you? You got owned and you know it. Just know in the future that looks get you so far.
Peace y0!
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What I know is, you have serious problems - and I urge you to get help...LOL.
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Hi Pesh! Glad to know you're still around...
Guys! guys! What's all the ?"@#%$*& about? :sad2:
Pesh, I'm really sorry, I feel responsible for all this. If you all notice, this post had last been visited like about 3 mos. ago and I was the one who wrote in again coz I just wanted to know how Pesh was doing. :bored:
Nyway, peace ya' all ok?:baby:
Hey Jay-tea,
Great to hear from you!
No, it's not your fault there are people with no self-esteem. I couldn't care less - I can't believe I wasted my time replying to their stupid posts.
I'm doing great...new experiences and more fun.
You know I got to see that girl that I posted about. Now I treat her just like any other girl. And not on purpose, but because I just can't figure her out and I don't wanna try. I think she likes me - every time after I talk to her she seems really hyper and happy. One time she was talking how "full of myself" I am and I kinda got annoyed that she said that and I asked why she is saying that when it's not true. And I asked her if I had done anything to her to hurt her that she is always sarcastic with me. And she said that I haven't hurt her, but just the way she said it looked to me like she wasn't telling the truth - you had to be there to see it - I can't explain it what gave me that impression.
I don't know. I don't care anymore. My feelings for her have burnt out and faded. I don't feel about her like I used to.
What is going on with you..How's your situation?
Take care Jay-tea.
Thanks Pesh :baby:
I'm glad you're over it.
If you want to know how I'm doing, you can check out my latest post. That's what's bugging me at the moment. :annoyed:
But in general, I'm ok. I'm continually learning from life. Like we all are ;)
Glad to hear from you too:)
Take care and hey, stay cool :baby: