Masturbation.

Were you holding up a copy of hustler when you had your pie?

Hustler? You think I'm made of money?...it was a Sears catalogue, OK?

lol.. Yes photos of those girdles are rather titalating... whops I mean titillating. O.o Say, do you suppose the pie became insecure because it felt it's berry goodness wasn't enough when in reality you needed visual stimuli? Things that make you go hmmmm...

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

lol.. Yes photos of those girdles are rather titalating... whops I mean titillating. O.o Say, do you suppose the pie became insecure because it felt it's berry goodness wasn't enough when in reality you needed visual stimuli? Things that make you go hmmmm...

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Lol this is getting funny now I understand why wakeup is legendary. But in this masturbation treat wakeup really shines^^

I'll give you legendary in my own mind, maybe. LR makes a good straightman. :D

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'll give you legendary in my own mind, maybe.

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I just barely refrained from saying that.

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Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I just barely refrained from saying that.

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Feel free :D We all know by now that if I don't agree.. I'll let ya know. lolzz

I gotta say I don't think I've ever seen so many heated debates on this forum since michelle joined hahaha

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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Only broads get pissed at this; a guy would think, "She masturbates? Niiice."

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Not every guy thinks that way and not every "broad" gets pissed off IMO

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

^^^ not all guys would think that... what about tassy's bf who didn't want her to use a vibrator?

I agree that its insecurity and I think it's worse with the younger people who think that they should be enough to satisfy any sexual urges and when they find out they're not, it screws with their ego. Thing is that masturbation has nothing to do with them and is something that all animals (human or not) take part in.

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Thanks for remembering :) I didnt and dont have an issue with him or I masturbating, we both however had an issue with the each others type of "tools" wanting to be used to assist, I respected his feelings on the matter and didnt get a vibrator but that didnt stop me from masturbating, he chose to lie and disrespect my feelings on the matter and btw he didnt always use his choice of "tool" for masturbation. I honestly dont know why he did what he did as often as he did, sometimes it was used while masturbating sure but other times he didnt even masturbate at all. Who knows, but i agree there is nothing wrong with masturbation.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Ya sometimes you just want a quick fix without the long sex session. I dont understand people who go mental if their bf has a wank in the shower. I know a girl who dumped her bf over that lol i just said to her "are you ****ing mad in the head or what" hahaha

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I would love to catch my man in the shower (my ex now) i would ask if i could join in.

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It's at least 99%, princess. I can tell from your posts that you have absolutely no idea how much men think about sex. It's a lot. Really a lot. Have you ever noticed that there is an awful lot of porn on the internet? Guess why. And before the internet went mainstream, there was already a lot of porn. In the old days, 25% of video store rentals were porn. And before that, magazines like Playboy and Penthouse sold really well.

Is porn unhealthy? With men thinking about sex all the time, where are they going to get it? From their wives and girlfriends? Yeah, sometimes. But most women aren't up for sex every damn day, and even if they were, there are several days each month where it's less likely to happen anyway, if either person is squeamish. So porn smooths out that significant imbalance between supply and demand.

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I am sure that it was stated in the very first post that this thread not become about PORN, but here it is!!!
Michelle did not say all or most men dont watch it she simply said that not every man does it and btw you actually agreed with her in your reply "99%" thats not ALL men!
There are women who do other things when that time of the month comes around and there are also times when the man (some men not all) are not feeling up to sex when their partner is wanting to.
This site is about everyone giving their opinions and experiences, no one should be claiming to know everything about every woman or man, cos the fact is no one anywhere knows it all.

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Originally Posted by tassy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Not every guy thinks that way and not every "broad" gets pissed off IMO

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Only gaywads think that. Chicks doing themselves is supposed to be HOT. And sure, but there are a good number of broads who do get pissed off.

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'll give you legendary in my own mind, maybe. LR makes a good straightman. :D

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I feel like you're jabbing at me, but I can't quite figure out HOW...

I only watch porn for educational purposes.. I tell my wife, it's new stuff to try in the bedroom... Okay I'm lying sometimes it's just for fun, like doing it with someone new lol.. She does it too its normal. And Michelle i would have to say ALL men have or at some point watched porn.

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Originally Posted by rob1984 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I only watch porn for educational purposes.. I tell my wife, it's new stuff to try in the bedroom... Okay I'm lying sometimes it's just for fun, like doing it with someone new lol.. She does it too its normal. And Michelle i would have to say ALL men have or at some point watched porn.

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Goodness me Rob you HAVE to say ALL men????? What do you have some sort of way of knowing what ALL men do and have done???? Please let us all know what your secret is so then none of us will ever again be made a fool of by lies about anything.

Oh and if you really do "know ALL men" shouldnt you have been able to preempt and maybe prevent the things that happened between you and your wife????

I never said anything about that Rob. Yes all men probably have watched it at some point. but Some have no real interest in it and only watch it out of curiosity a couple of times.

And I think we are talking about addiction here wakeup.

I have never heard a woman complain saying "oh he watches it every now and again if I want to get an early night and hes bored" or "he watches porn when I have my period" all the woman iv heard complain say things like "hes over 200 videos on his phone, he locks himself in the bathroom for hours, we haven't had sex for a month, when we do have sex he seems distracted and not into it, he cant get it up properly with me and cant cum without it"

Most the woman who complain have good reason to ^^^

I watch porn, where do I fit into this scenario? hahaha

what do you mean? Which scenario?

The only time it should be an issue is when it affects your relationship and your partner.

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Originally Posted by tassy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oh and if you really do "know ALL men" shouldnt you have been able to preempt and maybe prevent the things that happened between you and your wife????

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Tassy i have no idea where masterbation and a guy going after my wife are the same thing. I will say it again.. All men who masterbate will use porn.

That is not true Rob lol. If you think you "need" porn to wank-that is addiction.

I love how you continually attempt to impose your will on other people regarding this.

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Originally Posted by ashley89 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I watch porn, where do I fit into this scenario? hahaha

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According to Michelle, you are apparently both a dude and a porn addict, because no normal people watch porn.

I never said that Vince. And HIA I simply said what Rob said about ALL is not true.

Just because you don't agree with my opinion-does not mean I am not allowed to have one.

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

According to Michelle, you are apparently both a dude and a porn addict, because no normal people watch porn.

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HAHAHA damn, guess I need to re-evaluate my life at this point!

so funny how smackie specifically said she didn't want this to turn into a debate about porn addiction but that's immediately what happened. classic

I don't think it's abnormal to watch porn and masturbate. sometimes it's not as easy to fantasize things in your head and people want something visual to help them... nothing wrong with that. I do believe girls who get upset and worked up over it are insecure, they assume just because their boyfriend isn't having sex with them at that ONE moment it means they aren't attracted to them anymore. it's ridiculous. you can be in a loving, committed relationship with someone and still get attracted or turned on by something/someone else, it doesn't mean the guy is going to act on it. if you think all guys who are in relationships don't look at other girls or think they're pretty you're living in a fantasy world. as long as he isn't going out and doing something with them, it shouldn't matter. it's asinine to think that just because a guy looks at porn to masturbate he's an addict. I watch it a few times per week and use it to masturbate, and I by no means consider myself a porn addict.

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Originally Posted by ashley89 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't think it's abnormal to watch porn and masturbate. sometimes it's not as easy to fantasize things in your head and people want something visual to help them... nothing wrong with that. I do believe girls who get upset and worked up over it are insecure, they assume just because their boyfriend isn't having sex with them at that ONE moment it means they aren't attracted to them anymore. it's ridiculous. you can be in a loving, committed relationship with someone and still get attracted or turned on by something/someone else, it doesn't mean the guy is going to act on it. if you think all guys who are in relationships don't look at other girls or think they're pretty you're living in a fantasy world. as long as he isn't going out and doing something with them, it shouldn't matter. it's asinine to think that just because a guy looks at porn to masturbate he's an addict. I watch it a few times per week and use it to masturbate, and I by no means consider myself a porn addict.

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Here! Here!

agree with ashley.... and I still stand that ALL men watch porn, or have alot at some point in their relationship... Tassy. you bringing up my wife getting taken advantage of has nothing to do with masterbating..just proves I was right and you had nothing to say. Tassy and Michelle are too insecure to give an opinion. everyone should just skip their post

even though most porn is disgusting beyond belief, it is pretty much true.

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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Here! Here!

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thank you thank you! ;]

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I never said anything about that Rob. Yes all men probably have watched it at some point. but Some have no real interest in it and only watch it out of curiosity a couple of times.

And I think we are talking about addiction here wakeup.

I have never heard a woman complain saying "oh he watches it every now and again if I want to get an early night and hes bored" or "he watches porn when I have my period" all the woman iv heard complain say things like "hes over 200 videos on his phone, he locks himself in the bathroom for hours, we haven't had sex for a month, when we do have sex he seems distracted and not into it, he cant get it up properly with me and cant cum without it"

Most the woman who complain have good reason to ^^^

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I think you'd do well to re-read the opening post.

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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Please no going off about porn addiction. This is just about an average habit.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And I think we are talking about addiction here wakeup.

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lololololol

LOL.. that's funny

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Originally Posted by rob1984 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

agree with ashley.... and I still stand that ALL men watch porn, or have alot at some point in their relationship... Tassy. you bringing up my wife getting taken advantage of has nothing to do with masterbating..just proves I was right and you had nothing to say. Tassy and Michelle are too insecure to give an opinion. everyone should just skip their post

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Laughing my arse off!!!!!!! Only those who are unable to consider that others have their own opinions and that if they differ from our own that that does not then make them wrong, would write something like this :) thanks for this post :)

Oh and by the way if your poor wife was taken advantage of, does that then mean you took advantage of the other woman that you had an affair with? Oh no that wouldnt be the case cos you are never wrong!!! And your wife wasnt kissing up to another man was she it was all his fault cos she wouldnt have chosen to do wrong by you, you know it all about everything!!!! What a joke!!! Great idea about skipping my posts, as i only value and respect people who admit when they too are or can be wrong, not know it all's. Bye xx

There is no such thing as masturbating too much. Which begs the question of the negative side effects of porn addiction and if it should ever even be labeled that.

Actually, there kinda is. At 22, I get incredibly bored and frustrated when I don't get off. Which happens pretty frequently, and porn fails to excite me.