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Very fatigued me isn't quite understanding..Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's how you're choosing to take what I say. I can't help how you think.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You offer insults about others tastes in lifestyle or their gender when you're NOT being anally probed. Next excuse???Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sleep on it. I don't do homework for students, sorry.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And this is why you have no friends. If my friends misunderstand what I say or I keep finding myself taken out of context, I CHANGE MY APPROACH. But yet again, there's nothing wrong with you, is there. It's all everyone else's fault.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Not IRL, I don't. And don't give me some transparency bullshit: most kids are too stupid to count to potato these days. They have no deductive powers whatsoever so don't even mention that shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, sometimes in communication some aren't compatible. You are misinterpreting what I say when almost no one else seems to. It's like when one person can't understand a person's thick foreign accent yet another person can, in fact almost everyone else can.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And there you go insulting all your peers again. ^^^ this is why you have no friends. They really don't want some pretentious twat hanging around them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Do you even know today's kids? I am sure you don't. If you did, you'd agree. Most self-entitled, brat generation in history.
You know, you should be a lawyer. You're very good at tripping up those you drill with rigorous interrogations and get them to say things they don't actually mean. Just stop with this shit. You got me wanting to just kill myself and end it all I dont' ****ing need you make me feel worse. If the idea was to give me some perspective, all you've actually done is infuriating me.
I agree with this^. Some of the most accomplished people I know are also very humble, delightful people. Pretentious = insecure.Quote:
And there you go insulting all your peers again. ^^^ this is why you have no friends. They really don't want some pretentious twat hanging around them.
Yeah, I think I've been bullied, you self-absorbed little twit. Between Kindergarten and 8th grade I went to five different schools, and I was always the smallest kid in the class. Between 8th and 9th grade I had a huge growth spurt and came up... average.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was always the smallest kid in a new school, and I liked weird shit like classical music and science fiction. I was always far smarter than my classmates (but lazy) and loved to read, so I'd get shit done then hide my latest novel behind a textbook and read in class... I got busted in 2nd grade for reading Stranger in a Strange Land.
I eventually learned that the best way to avoid it was to pick the biggest kid in a new class, and fight him. Even if I didn't win, they left me alone after that. That's actually how I met my best (male) friend - he was the tallest kid in my new 5th grade classroom.
The problem is that bad stuff dont happens to some people. Thats why they find simple problems real life breakers cause thats worst what happened to them. When infact with positive attitute most of these problems would be gone cause they in the head or simply doable. Its almost like a kid crying for candy that he cannot get cause thats the biggest disapointmen in his life.
I HAVE a child of today's generation. 14yo, polite, well mannered, gets on well with both sexes, academically high achieving. Pretty much everything which you say doesn't exist.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't have what it takes to be a lawyer, but I am good at arguing with a bullshitter.....you contradict yourself constantly - I only argue what you have said previously against what you say now.
And it's not my fault if you want to kill yourself. I'm only asking you to answer for what you've written. If you can't answer for your obnoxious opinions, then perhaps you shouldn't be issuing them.
I remember a very special young boy that joined an online school I've been attending for a few years. He was only 18, extremely intelligent and sensitive, struggling to find his place in this world like so many people. While some of his papers and interventions on the forum were absolutely brilliant, simply surpassing much older studetns that had been studying those subjects for years or all their life, some observations were a little bit immature and cynical, only natural since he was only 18, but secretly everybody loved him and enjoyed having him there. One day a teacher made a presentation on a subject of common interest for the school centred around his personality, gifts and some of his limitations. She had the best intentions, no doubt, and a profound admiration for him like all the others, maybe even greater since she had discovered him and invited him to the school but a few days later, he stopped attending the course unfortunately. I still think of him sometimes and miss him sharing some of his extraordinary ideas and even his funny cynical observations. I followed him on facebook a couple of years later but he was reluctant to speak with me for a while since I had been made part involuntarily of the moment when maybe he felt he had been fully exposed and without his permission.
While I agree with basylandthyme with choosing a topic on some of the difficulties that some of us have been through, I don't think that it should have been addressed to you, LR or any other person in particular.
Just my thoughts on this and hopefully no one will take my opinion or this thread personally.
Yeah Valixy, bad move on my part. I thought he may have an epiphany.....but then Indi started talking about this feeding his dark side (paraphrasing) and I don't know what that means.....
We never said our problems or past issues were as bad as what others go through but our point here is that everyone goes through crap. And btw losing my aunt was the hardest thing that my family had to ever go through. She was 36 years old, beautiful with two children and we watched her suffer in pain and slip away from us bit by bit. And we are still not over it-probably never will be and probably all need counselling so I dont appreciate you saying "we dont have real problems".Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My point is and the same point B&T is trying to make is-you can either dwell on it or try to be happy. I could be bitter, twisted, angry, unhappy, start drinking heavily to cope with the pain, give up work due to depression and have a baby so I can get the dole etc or I can try to make the most of what I do have and heal in a constructive positive way (which is what I am doing) and we are hoping LR will understand that everyone has to deal with stuff-that is life but he needs to overcome his issues in order to be happy and make the most of his life.
I agree with this. I have a cousin who was spoilt rotten all her life, never had to work for anything. Anyway she always makes a mountain out of a molehill-everything is a big drama with her and its annoying. Im just like "ya some people have real problems"... but thats what happens when your life is "perfect" for 18 years and then you have to face the big bad world.Quote:
Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lots of new generation is like that - they newer really lived yet find life dificult. Their parents dont understand WTH is wrong with them cause they dont see these problems as even worth mentioning. So when life been too easy or problems was never faced, youngsters lack characteristics what rought life teaches - courage, faith, ability to take decisions, selfbelief. Things that become rare in modern age. Basicaly way how to end this to find your parh in life, be willing to develop yourself as a personality, do it for yourself, realise miracles dont exist its 90% hard work. Leave home(or comfort zone) for few years, learn to take care of yourself, just stop being vegetable.
Rocky said it pretty well
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_Vg4uyYwEk
That's tragic. I am sure others here, myself included, could share stories just as tragic. Yes, everyone goes through crap. That's a very good point that bears further reflection on what actually is the point of life, don't you think?Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I suppose I choose to think I really don't have problems. I'm not going to judge your particular issue, Michelle, but I will suggest many people who whinge about their lives lack perspective about how bad life really can be elsewhere in the world. There are worse things than death surrounded by loved ones. I wish you well in your counselling. Perhaps you might consider some service to others in need to give you some perspective.
lol I find that funny Indi and I think you completely missed the point. I am not whinging or feeling sorry for myself. I have already pointed out how positive I am, that I appreciate what I have and am grateful to be surrounded by such wonderful people. I don't take anything for granted anymore and that was the whole point of my story here. I am not going for counselling. I dont feel like I need it right now as I am healing everyday and feel stronger but I may need it one day and dont see anything wrong with getting help if I feel I need someone to talk to.
The whole point of this thread is to show LR that we all have gone through some difficult times and we are still happy people. That is all. Ya sure there are a ton of people in the world who have an autistic child, most people have lost someone they love, most people have at least one addict in their family or someone who died of an illness etc. That doesn't mean that we are never allowed to be hurt or upset about these things just because there are people starving in the third world and their lives are harder then ours. That way of thinking kinda baffles me to be honest.
Everybody goes through difficult times and in order to heal-most people need some support. Why do you think this forum is here in the first place? People come on here all the time for support and we dont say "get over it-theres kids dying in africa"
Well, I'm glad you are healing. You suggested counselling in your post, btw, saying you'd likely all need it. As for the rest, the point is: perspective and where you choose to place your focus. I disagree about the point of this thread and whether it's helping LR, but we'll have to agree to disagree.
It doesn't help having basil scrutinize me every ****ing second. That helps no one.
I think that occasionally happens, maybe only to the truly wealthy but otherwise I don't see where you come off labeling others' problems as so easy. I don't know your life story but I am sure you still have no grounds to tell someone else their problem(s) don't amount to anything. If you were a psychologist, would you tell a client "Your problems don't matter. NEXT!"?Quote:
Originally Posted by pcmaster [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Probably because you've got lots of money and sending her to some privileged school with a bunch of brat suburban kids. It's real easy to fit in when your parents have money and you go to school with other rich kids.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I believe life really starts when you face bigger shit that you could imagine or believe to happen with you and deal with it. Life is huge gift and when you are young you have more than you realize. Only problem is you never know who you are until you lose who you are. When you have to fight for things you want in your life or fight just to keep them then you realize what they are worth. Once you have dream that you think of every day and giving your best to achieve it thats when you get real taste of life - when you find your path in life. Then every day have a huge purpoise cause it brings you closer to your goal that you want so bad. Put the dream in your heart and every action, every heartbeat will bring you closer to achieve it. Because every thing that you do will have a little more love in it cause it comes from heart. From burning desire to sucseed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Question yourself what are you gona do and most importantly how are you gona do it.
You know, personal "fights" don't always have to manifest themselves in things to stop conversations dead with: "Ohh yeah, my parents died. So in answer to your question, no, this steak is not good." Otherwise, every depressed personal or anyone with a mental disorder should be slapped in the head and told to get back to work and stop being a stupid loony.
So you have the personal fight? Whats the conflict inside of you? Did your parents died? What do you mean with this "steak"?
I didn't say myself. I am just pointing out that death and disease aren't the only things in life that are causes of struggle.
Actually, I've always thought that death was a relatively minor problem. In the sense it's relatively uncomplicated... certainly the dead person has no stake in the problem. The fact I miss my passed on loved ones isn't a concern of theirs anymore, is it?
Oh, and for those with religious beliefs, well, then I really don't have much to worry about if there *is* an afterlife, do I?
Yes,yes, very metaphysical...But by that logic, everything is a minor problem.
And it IS! Really, except for my son or my longterm health... I have no problems. Neither do you, LR. Life is actually, pretty f-ing good.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Haven't you heard the saying: if a problem is solvable -- fix it--then stop worrying about it. If it isn't, don't worry about it, b/c you can't do anything anyway.
Your problem of getting a GF is totally solvable.
Death is good cause it shows us how short is life, how valuable is time. Even more when you been on the edge between life and death by yourself you realize how great it is to be alive and even if there is paradise its the mortal life that matters because everything is importand, everything have a impact on this planet.
If you want to say something then say it ! Dont cirlce around !Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think your biggest problem is the lack of will and determination. You want this world to meet you with open hands and do everything for you so you can reap the fruits.
It have to come from inside of you. The help of others should help just enought barely to get there - about 1% of help can come from outside. The rest 99% of efford and will must come from yourself.
Maybe it is. But as for feeling like a freak, worthless, stupid, burnt out..not sure...Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hence the call for therapy.
Getting you a GF won't help you in that regard... in fact it'll almost certainly continue, and then you'll eventually lose her because she'll get sick of your shit. So make that appointment.
It would definitely help. I'd be the happiest guy around.
Its because you are freaky. Just love yourself for who you are. And you dont have worth because you didnt gave yourself any. Didnt done much to have worth. And you are stupid because you dont do much things that makes you think or makes you smart. And you are burnt out because your thoughts alone is consuming. Negative thoughts lead to negative actions.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Right, reading and going to school are very stupid things to do...Taking drugs, now THERE is a cerebral activity, right?
Yes it is stupid things to do. Because its the minimum. Education is the smallest whats expected from you. Is that what you want from life? The minimum? Then why are you putting minimum efford in it?Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You should be willing to give your best every single time. If you cant go to best school then get the best grades. But you need actual discipline to be able get high grades.
Oh, so I'm stupid because I do those things? I read for leisure; a lot of kids in this country don't. But I guess that makes me some kind of fantastic moron. I should have been aborted then, right?
So what I read books too - is thats what makes be better than others? Its great that you can read and use your skill.
But is reading are what you are all about? Could you pick up girl in liblary, talk pasionatly with her about the books and with doing so attract her?
Again - your problem is not in things that you do - its how you do them. Seems like you just dont wana live.
What is the meaning of the life?
What is the one thing that you really, really want from this life?
And how are you gona achieve it?