boyfriend of almost 5 years..proposing?!!!:)

Carry on then.

I want to get married so its official, Gf and bf is so highschool. I am not in it for the party or ring..ring could be plastic for all i care and we can go to city hall. My boyfriend is just the type that wouldn't mind getting married but don't care either. I remember we were going out almost a year..he said something how marriage is dumb its piece of paper ..and i said "well why are we going out if not serious then"..boyfriend says "well you can want to be with someone because you love them, doesn't always have to end in marriage"..but then he would start saying our 5th year we will be engaged and to just have patience randomly. So shall see....hope he doesn't change it because he knows i am expecting it now :(

How about *gasp* you ask him, instead of waiting for him to not change his mind?!

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I want to get married so its official, Gf and bf is so highschool. I am not in it for the party or ring..ring could be plastic for all i care and we can go to city hall. My boyfriend is just the type that wouldn't mind getting married but don't care either. I remember we were going out almost a year..he said something how marriage is dumb its piece of paper ..and i said "well why are we going out if not serious then"..boyfriend says "well you can want to be with someone because you love them, doesn't always have to end in marriage"..but then he would start saying our 5th year we will be engaged and to just have patience randomly. So shall see....hope he doesn't change it because he knows i am expecting it now :(

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So, you still haven't sat down and had a discussion with a view to getting it all sorted out once and for all.

Funny how those that want it badly have a hard time getting it, and then there are those like myself that don't want it, have been proposed to more than once.