Went through too much crap, shh!...And honestly, not rushing to be with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship...Been there, done that.Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
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Went through too much crap, shh!...And honestly, not rushing to be with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship...Been there, done that.Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
Smart guy! But the girl that let you get away must be kicking herself...
I think when it's right you know and you follow your gut. The rest is the reality we create for ourselves. As a gentleman you might step aside sooner rather than later. It's nobodys fault, in fact it's good to know yourself, so trust your instincts and be kind and let her go. Don't break her heart.
Yea, saw her at a mall few weeks back but was too uncomfortable talking to her after not speaking for such a long time.
Reverb,
Most times people have to go through something negative to learn their lesson and see the clear picture and sometimes there are those who can see it clearly the first time around. I'm not sure how many relationships you've been in but if you truly cannot see past this and you're going through with it anyways, you could only end up hurting her. Some people can do it because that's how they've always seen things, while others it takes time, and then there are those who cannot stop being idiotic no matter what.
Seriously, I can't stand that skinny skinny crap... I saw Hilary Duff on the MTV award thingy (was lame btw) last night and wow she looks HIDEOUS now that she looks like a walking skeleton.. I have on clue how these people can look at themselves and think that it's attractive...Quote:
Originally Posted by Asip4u
Because they're ****in' idiots.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tone
People claim anorexia and bulemia is a "disease".
Bullshit.
They're just stupid.
But 5'2" and 155 pounds is a bit more than a bit more than average!! :horror:
I work with a woman with a nice figure and she told me she's 5'4 3/4" and weighs 116. She's not thin at all.
I agree Fras.. how they can look themselves in the mirror and honestly think they are attractive is beyond me.
Rob, yeah she might be more than average but it's still not THAT bad... like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. like hiking, biking, go for walks everynight, etc etc.
Think of it this way. If there was somethin wrong with the girl it would be either 2 things right:
1 - Good body. Bad personality. Not fixable. You can't change who someone is.
2 - Bad body. Good personality. Fixable. I wouldn't throw away a good thing (from what you describe) cause of 20/30 pounds overweight...
Like I said just plan some more healthy activities.. if you're lucky she'll really like it and get hooked on getting into shape. Again, if you slept with her and made out already it can't be that bad...
Totally agree with you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tone
we haven't heard from reverb. i think he's probably over it now.
Oh LoL... I thought it was Rob who was the guy who posted this... my bad.
What they tell you and what they actually weigh are two different things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26
Besides, actual weight according to height doesn't tell you anything. You forget that these 5'4" 100 lb chicks have no fat OR muscle on their body. A person at 5'2" could be maybe just a bit 'chubby' but still carry a lot of muscle weight.
So who knows? She might not be that bad at all.
Let's see a pic of her.
Blur out her face if you have to, we just wanna see her body.
There are two things you can be sure will always be lied about: men lie about their height, and women lie about their weight.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26
So you're saying she weighs even LESS than 116? :) Then that makes the 155 even worse!!
This woman at my work weighs 145 and she's 5'3...she looks almost perfect...a lot of guys like that in a woman...nobody is talking about obesity here...you're obviously too picky.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26
If she is nearly 5'5" and claims she weighs 116, she is either skinny as a rail or lying through her teeth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26
lol. yup.
And if he says shes not thin....and shes 116....then what the heck exactly is thin? Do guys honestly like anorexic looking girls?Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
If you are into a person mentally then often their looks can grow on you, I know that has happened to me in the past, may be if you wait awhile you will begin to love her physically because you love her mentally.
also , iv known girls that were the same height and one of them was 110 and LOOKED bigger than the one that was 120 . Guess what , Bone structure can also affect the way they look , so this girl just had bigger bones , thats all .
theres also the places where the body fat goes , some girls are thin and have big breasts/big ass , thats because most of their fat goes there , if those thin girls with big breasts would have a diff place where the fat goes , like her thights and their stomach , they would look way fatter with smaller tits.