Post here instead of contacting your ex!

I really wish people would stop telling me we'll get back together. It isn't helpful but the weird thing is that it's been my guy friends. (One in particular that went through the same thing that you are going through about 2 years ago with his now gf (they were together for almost 4 years when the broke up...now they are back together and have been for 2 years)) I want to move on and date other people but when I get to the point that I feel ok with things and start the process of dating someone else someone well say something like "you guys will get back together" and it throws me for a loop. Then I'm back to thinking about the good times and missing you and wondering what you're doing. Going on 4 months now and I'm still as much in love with you as I was 5 months ago when we were together. Damn it... f you...seriously.

PS. Deleting my facebook has been so damn freeing because now you can't just check in on me without contacting me, but I can still reactivate it on occassions and check on you...so I'm still in the know but you aren't. It's so great. I'm slowly but surely purging myself from your life, I just wish other people would a)tell you you are being a fing moron and that you are meant to be with me or b)that they would stop giving me a sense of hope that may not actually be there.

I just can't wait for the moment where you realise the grass is not greener at all on the other side and it will hit you big time what you gave up. :)

Feels really, really good to have arrived at this point instead of always thinking about what *I* lost. I still hit a few lows everyday where I do think that, but finally, most of the time I instead know I'll find somebody else who I might just like even more. And even though he doesn't now, my ex will eventually get to that point where he'll think Dammit, I gave up quite something with her. Nice to be able to see this as his loss instead of as only mine. :)

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Originally Posted by flynhayn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

OR..... How's about all you guys take a much-needed vacation down here to Hawaii and we can all drink and whine about exes in person. Ha.

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Now *that* sounds good.

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Originally Posted by Layna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I just can't wait for the moment where you realise the grass is not greener at all on the other side and it will hit you big time what you gave up. :)

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Preach it, sister.

tell me when and ill definetly go to Hawaii, or australia, or a cave somewhere so i can cry in the corner lol

gosh I wish can join too

where are you from? Too lazy to look it up... ill buy you a ticket, Im sure HG, tremelo, and other will chip in.

Sometimes you really are a self centered dick....i hope you grow out of that.

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where are you from? Too lazy to look it up... ill buy you a ticket, Im sure HG, tremelo, and other will chip in.

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im from Malaysia dude and the ticket aint cheap + the airport taxes are killing too but if you guys are planning for end of the year i might be able to join ya all..

If we plan for *next* year, I could do it. No salary until January...

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If we plan for *next* year, I could do it. No salary until January...

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Next year is good. Just started on my last 4 units of my Masters so tied up for the rest of this year but will need a holiday after that and hopefully by that time DH will be over his ex :)

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Next year is good. Just started on my last 4 units of my Masters so tied up for the rest of this year but will need a holiday after that and hopefully by that time DH will be over his ex :)

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hahahhahaha i hope so.....

Then we can have some proper fun! Everybody - no more heartbreaks before then.

im serious...im down to go

kristin as much as i want to hate you i just cant..... i just want you OUT OF MY BRAIN

I will go. I'll be in California then, and have never been to Hawaii. I think it's time!

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kristin as much as i want to hate you i just cant..... i just want you OUT OF MY BRAIN

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You should hate her. She was a bitch to you.

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You should hate her. She was a bitch to you.

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i know... i should.. is that a bad thing?

You're probably just too nice.

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You're probably just too nice.

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not probably.. its a fact... i do hate her for what she did but i dont hate her.. if that makes sense.

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not probably.. its a fact... i do hate her for what she did but i dont hate her.. if that makes sense.

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im with this feelings now dude and i dont know how to elaborate at all..

shit this crappy feelings is hitting me again today, being strong is not easy thou because the stupid fking pain is poking my heart .....

palm trees... nice weather.... drinks on a beach.... hawaii sounds like a damn good idea

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palm trees... nice weather.... drinks on a beach.... hawaii sounds like a damn good idea

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I'll be around whenever you guys are ready ;)

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I'll be around whenever you guys are ready ;)

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I was in Hawaii when I first joined the site and started posting about my recent relationship f*ck up. Should of taken you up on this offer, haha.

lol just don't set it up for oct. I'm going to the holloween horror nights in orlando.

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lol just don't set it up for oct. I'm going to the holloween horror nights in orlando.

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I'll see you there, ha. I live here.

Nice. me and a huge group of friends are going down rented a villa for about 2 weeks making it a huge thing haunted casino 1930's/40's theme its gonna awesome. The best thing about it my ex won't be there

i just want you to die.

I thought that was towards me for about a minute til I realized what thread I was in rofl

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I thought that was towards me for about a minute til I realized what thread I was in rofl

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nah i like you danny...

I'm in a nice fat one of those nice dazes from not being able to sleep. So my mind is playing a few fun tricks with me lol

im at home now wandering what to do, in front of my pc listening to rise against ! friends all hang out with their girlfriend, family....why tf im so unlucky to be alone?????

So you get in touch and tell me you don't like the letter I sent you, because I seem so cold and distant, and it upsets you because of our 'history'. Well Boo f**king Hoo.

You walked out, and now you have everything you wanted.

Bye.

Hey there, hope you are going ok and have made an appointment to see your physiatrist and are working on sorting out your problem

It's school holidays so you have a couple of weeks to take a breather and work on yourself, take care of yourself and I wish you a speedy recovery

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Originally Posted by kamazaki [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

im from Malaysia dude and the ticket aint cheap + the airport taxes are killing too but if you guys are planning for end of the year i might be able to join ya all..

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But the flag you are using isn't the Malaysian flag. Is it? I think that's Mali.

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But the flag you are using isn't the Malaysian flag. Is it? I think that's Mali.

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yea might need to change that later wrongly put it during registering my self here...

Well here I am at the airport without you. I knew this day was going to be hard and it feels like im making no headway with getting over you. I know this may of been a rebound relationship for you after your divorce but didnt you see that I truely loved you. I know your divorce has hurt you inside. I wish you could of just pushed through your past and see the light I was trying to give you. Now that were apart I dont know what to do. I want you back but I feel its pointless. I want so badley to get over you!! I deserve someone thats happy. Your right when you said you were damaged. I wanted you to be happy but couldnt stick it out with me.....well at least I tried. Good luck living with your pitty. You passed up someone that could make you very happy. And that person is about to be sitting next to an empty airplane seat...why? Cuz you wernt strong enough for me.

hey to my ex, stay outta my bedroom, clean up your mess you left in my house last night and get your biz out of my home...ah hell im gonna have to really tell her this lol.

i realllly hate you...yet i cant stop thinking about you...................