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This silence is killing me. I know I asked for it, but now you look right through me and I have no idea what you're thinking. I've realized that while I'm upset with you now for what you've done, this will be better for me in the end. It was bad timing and I couldn't have the best of you in the relationship because where you were coming from. I understand that and it's not your fault. You really are losing more out of this than me! You've thrown away a man that loved you greater than anyone else ever could (and would have forever damned the cost). A man that made you laugh harder than anyone else ever did. A man who's conversation and spontaneity would have never let your interest run dry and allow you to get bored. A man who has proven himself to be a wonderful father, and would have grown to be an even better one raising all our children together.
I have no doubt you will end up with someone who treats you well, but I also know you'll settle for safe and boring. You'll probably end up with someone half the man as me! And in my heart I'll know you settled for less than I could ever offer and I'm positive that deep down you will too.
Why on earth did you have to post on one of my best friends facebook wall? Is it to just get a rise out of me? I "Liked" your comment. Get out of my head, damn you.
why are you such a bitch?
yea bitch why you such a bitch!
Hey? What was your name again? I haven't thought about you at all this week, and I hope you come crawling back just so I get get the last laugh.
I was miserable when I was with you, and I'm happy without you. The new girl in your place is 10 times the girl you are and I see it for what it is.
I don't miss you, I don't miss us, and I'm glad you're gone.
If you really loved me you wouldn't have left me. But I'm not bitter about it anymore. I think I've come out a little wiser and stronger. I need to live my life and you need to live your life, without each other. I have nothing more to say except GOODBYE.
You know what - **** you. Just because you didn't realize my value doesn't mean other people don't. Not everyone is as oblivious, as shallow, and as self-absorbed as you are.
I'm done feeling bad that you rejected me. It really is your loss, and I hope that reality hits you hard in the next few months.
Don't come whining to me when your next girlfriend doesn't measure up.
Tremolo, go look in the mirror, see the bautiful person you are, both inside and out, and purge yourself of this ex. He didn't deserve you, and if anything, he has done you a favor.
Let someone who truly appreciates you come along, and be happy. You're gorgeous, and don't let anyone bring you down like he has. Strength comes from within.
You're so right. Thank you, Cerby. You're absolutely right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cerby [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Her name is sudita.....zudita....sidita.....Anyway she is Nepalese and I think she is CUTE. Well I'm probably not going to make a move on her for diverse reasons, but it's really good to see what is out there. Someday will be the day I won't look back and cry anymore.
YOU have become the ugliest bitch i known on my entire life list...so sayonara bitch!
I am so sorry. I know this doesn't change anything but I have had clarity on one of the biggest things that drove us to fight and drove us apart. I have always been so careless with my relationships and mostly that was because I had put in my all to get burned by the ones that didn't deserve it along the way. I guess I became jaded somewhat subconsciously and even though I was trying to be a good boyfriend to you, I still took you for granted in many ways and you saw this as pushing you away. In reality it was just rookie mistakes on how to maintain a successful relationship with a woman I actually loved. I had much to learn in the ways of love.
Before you came along I prayed to God that I could just find someone who is good looking, intelligent, and just a little crazy but mostly about me. I was so lonely and left empty by the string of relationships where I could care less if my partner stayed or not. I told myself the next woman I was with would be my wife, and you came along. I never gave you the truest respect you needed and that I needed to bestow on you to ensure your hand in marriage. In a way, you could say that I lost sight of the big picture from time to time. When I would try to refocus there was damage done and it got harder and harder. Yes we had amazing times that masked over this and you eventually recognized this. I really wanted to give you 100% of me and I think you ended up getting more like 85%.
I know the biggest part of why we finished were outside influences, but other than that, I'm not saying I"m completely to blame for the demise of what we had and I know you've agreed that I wasn't, but had I learned to love you better and look past the subtleties that seemed to cause offense, I think we would have had a much smoother ride and things may have not turned out like they did. In a way though I am blessed. I am blessed to have found such a beautiful love in you. I am blessed that I have been forced to see the error of my ways. I am blessed that the next opportunity I get to love, I will be able to give my all and truly be the best man I can offer to be.
I pray to God for a second chance. If the circumstances ever fell in line and you were the one, that would please me more than I think I could ever express to you. More than likely that second chance will lie with someone else, but please know that I'll always love you for creating this virtue in me to be outstanding for that special woman.
so you dump me and go out with this TOOL? seriously... man now i feel real shitty.. i really ****ing hate you
yup i hate you too bitch...lying scum wasted my 4 years of life for nothing !
Good to see you have been working on the drinking problem then .... sigh
Fuk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!
Did I miss a development here?Quote:
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yeah he found out his ex cheated on him...Quote:
Originally Posted by Cerby [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i came back from hell as free man, and a charming virgin girl is in love with me now how lucky i am now bitch! i cant wait to see u getting back for what you did to me ......
So you've found out I've moved on and found someone else. I didn't realize this is what it took for you to show you actually do care, or at least pretend to because you know now that I'm gone.
Please stop calling me and asking me how I'm doing and if I want to hang out, its not appropriate anymore. I may someday want to be your friend, but for now I've got many other things on the go. I might still have feelings for you, but I promise you they're almost gone.
Oh wait, I'm going to tell her this when she calls me next.
That's how it works girl. Those guys would never satisfy with a girl that other better guys envy cause we are pretty, smart, educated, love genuinely and honest... They want some bitches who is low to their level to match with them? Let them be, my guy friends are laughing at my ex's new gf and they asked me how come that I fell for that guy and love him, and said his new gf is uglay. It's okay even if they come crawling back.... oh wait, they should never be as they have no chance to fycking return.Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That is sort of the perspective I have on this now. I mean, I would never say my ex was a 'low' person. He was really great in a lot of ways, and I still think so, but I think now that we were mismatched. Although he is smart and attractive and highly educated, and a really nice, good, honest person, I think he wasn't able to appreciate a lot of things about me because they were beyond his understanding, or just didn't fit into what he was comfortable with.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinnabella [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I met two men at a wine bar last night, and after we'd been talking for awhile, the one said he thought I probably broke a lot of hearts. When I told them I'd just had mine badly broken - and that this was by no means the first time - the other said he thought I probably intimidated a lot of guys, because they wouldn't know quite what to do with me. I never really thought about it before, but I would guess that, in certain ways, my ex must have felt that way. He didn't really understand, or even seem to want to understand, half the things I was into. He was pretty content sitting in front of the tv watching baseball all day long, or playing grab ass with his dogs. He didn't really ever want to communicate or to express himself in any way, and he didn't seem to want to do those either of those things with me. I think he would have been content with a much more simple person who didn't require anything from him, and I think at some point, I became too much for him to handle because I wanted more out of him and out of our relationship. My best friend says he wants 'arm candy', and simply that. I think she's probably right.
I can't really fault my ex for that, but I do fault him for the cold and callous way he broke up with me. And I'm still hurt he was able to forget about me so quickly, as if I'd never even existed in his life. That is some real bullshit.
I remember seeing a random photo online showing a guy at a basketball game sitting next to a very beautiful woman. He had a very disinterested look on his face (maybe basketball wasn't his thing?) and the caption read something about how he was now bored of a relationship he would have killed for six months ago. I think there's some truth to that. My ex and I started dating in October and in late November I remember my friend's bratty kids were telling her that she was too good for me. When she told me that I felt that it was kind of true and I had truly hit the gold mine with her. But over time and many ups and downs and back and forths in the relationship I eventually didn't view her as any better than me at all. At one short lived point, I no longer cared how attractive or intelligent she was because I couldn't express any of my own feelings for fear of an ensuing argument. That would change and I would see value in her again but by then the dynamics of the relationship had changed just slightly. It was easy just to kind of accept that we were happy with each other and still fantastic for each other in a lot of ways but the constant effort of trying to make it the best for both of us was lost in some previous battles on both sides.
I don't agree with the way they ended it with us as you're probably right that we became too much of a challenge for them in the end. I think my girl wanted to have someone much less attractive who would blow constant hot air up her ass and not deal with someone who challenged her back. Your guy didn't want to have to work so hard for something he felt entitled to.
Some people just don't appreciate what they have till it's gone. We must be strong and live for ourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was beyond painful when he treated me cold and ignore me too, but one thing I realise was that I couldn't treat to him the way he did to me. I was longing to him and I always thought he was a great man, he showed me such a great guy and I thought I lost something great,I thought he was great because of his personality... Until I heard from his ex wife about his sneaky lying person/ a cheater when they were together... I was beyond hurtful, since then I lost all of my respect for him, I started to feel disgust of him. And started to consider him Low.
But sometimes I would hope that she lie, but why would she? She said I should feel lucky to be off without him. I was very upset knowing the Man I adored was not good as I thought, maybe he didn't cheat on me but knowing it, I can't be sure that he won't do the same to me as with his ex.
But before the cheating could happen, it became too much for him and he decided to quit anyway. Maybe someone who isn't physical attractive will try to satisfy instead of requiring them?!! He liked to be a king with his ex gf, who I saw looked older and not good looking that was with him before me but maybe very obeying. Lolll. He likes weak girls cause he's insecure.
I think someday you will be heal, I'm pretty much heal, and maybe we will meet someone better. Who deserve us. Just stand up, dress up, be sexy and let them see what they had lost, they were busy collecting stones, that's why they can't see something good in front of their eyes. Let them regret their decisions.
I completely agree, Cinnabella. Thank you :) I'm sure we'll find the right guy for both of us... and I'm so sorry yours turned out to be a lying, cheating bastard. You deserve so much better.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinnabella [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hey, are you really happy? By what I remember, you looked so pathetic because you looked unhealthy like in drugs, I saw your happy lovey dovey pics before I blocked your Fb and twitter. Are you really a cheater and a lying snake like your ex told me? I still hope no, I fell for your personality, don't make me feel like a fool for trusted you, you know I thought you were a good man and that was the reason that I loved you so deeply, if I wanted the good looking, I returned to my ex already.
Why did you break someone's heart who loved you dearly to a million pieces? It was broken, even if your ex didn't say the truth, the fact that you have another gf would make me hate you enough to never want to talk to you again. I was right, I'm still the best thing that happen to you. Good luck to you, seriously I hope you will get the King treatment from the new girl as she doesn't have the look she must have the Sweet then, though I wouldn't say her ugly but not attractive either, look like woman that had kids. Be happy and try to eat more, i can't understand why you looked so sick even though you have new gf, a freedom to do anything as u want now.
Oh I gotta meet the man you hate the most, who keep saying that you are so stupid and crazy and probably will regret. He kept convincing me since we broke up, he wanted to meet me but I keep ignoring his suggest because I was longing to you, and more importantly i needed time to heal, but I have no reason to feel longing to you anymore. He knew all of my flaws but still consider me as a great catch because as he said, I didn't only have the look but I'm a good girl as well despite my flaws. At the least he wants to meet even If I would only consider him as a friend only. It's been 8 months since we broke up, I'm happy being with myself now, I can make myself happy and enjoying my life. It comes to the point that I would be fully ready for new relationship :). Were you?
Also, I have so many new friends who are Handsome and Young, and they would ask me why did I fall for you in the first place, I only smile :)... Oh well you don't care anyway.
You deserve better too, as I remember you were very hurt too, and probably still, but put in mind that he doesn't deserve it if he could turn his back on you and left you being hurt like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You sound like a good girl, and with attractiveness you willbe a great catch to many guys, I'm sure you will meet him on the way.
Someday the table will turn .
I just miss you so much. I learned so much while I was with you. I can't stand being without you. Everything reminds me of you. I probably think about you 100% of the time, 90% if I try and keep my self occupied. It has been over a month and I still can't get over you ):
No one gets hurt. I've done nothing wrong.
I miss your love, your touch, your smell, your kiss, but not your personality.
Now there's nothing to say, cause there's no words, and we're not talking anyhow...
Day 3 of NC and really missing you. Must be because it is cold and I want to snuggle! Or just needing one of your smiles. Wish there was a way we could make this work but at least I know we gave it our best shot. Hope you are doing ok.
gosh i feel a bit of release after being admitted, counting days now to heal much better. You have destroyed me by sleeping with my friend and lied to me about your family sacrifice shit but why the fck you still keep our picture in your stupid laptop??? im missing something or u just ****ing crazier then i am? Its ok now i dont bother anymore i just want to move on and find new friends and hope to start a new life somewhere ...hope you will get back on what you did to me....
2 months of no contact was ruined. I absoluely do not understand you at all. You keep the same flight and fly back with me...you knew i was gonna be on that plane. You sit down and begin to talk about how bad you felt while we went talking and to tell me that you miss me everyday. then the next day you text me out of the blue. With all that I ask you out for lunch and you cant even call me back. Ive seriously had it. I dont even know why I put myself through the hurt of still caring for you. I friggin hate being the type of person that cares to much. I should of brushed you off a long time ago. I figured you were different but I guess your just like every other stuck up girl i know. I feel horrible that i let you put me back to square one again. Go ahead and keep your wall up. I told you I cared about you and your feelings while you were going throught this ruff point of your life. Its not my fault you wont let me care. This sucks....I was finally starting to feel better. Now since youve told me all that on the plane I want you back even more when you wont let me and I cant. Please let there be someone else out there that will stick with it during the ruff times and not run away. Maybe this new found anger i have with you will make it easier for me to leave you alone and help me move on.
Why am I thinking of you?
so your new boyfriend is that much of a pussy he cant fight his own battles... WOW you chose a real winner this time you ****ing skanky whore
I think I'm getting to you. You barely looked at me today when I asked you to help take our dog to the emergency vet clinic. Barely said two words to me the first 15 minutes of the car ride. I don't know what to think anymore. What does it mean when you can barely look at me...but you admit you still love me? You even admit you are still on the fence about everything. You are never going to find peace until you talk it through...maybe a hundred times with someone. You are infuriating and I wish I didn't love you still or that I didn't want to jump your bones right there in that vet's office. I'm trying to prove to you that I'm moving on...but it's so damn hard to show you that when I'm still clearly so f**ing in love with you. But the good news is that I was only slightly sad about it for about 20 minutes after you left. Now I'm okay again. So I guess that's progress. I don't know though...I feel like this is going to go on forever. Hell...maybe I should go talk to someone.
PS. The date went well on Friday, but I don't think it's meant to be. He just didn't seem like my type..oh well...live and learn i guess.
I don't know what exactly your motive was. Perhaps it was because I expressed to you how amazing of a man I thought you were at one time. But, you were never really into me. My intuitions were right the whole time. You can bet your ass I will never doubt them again!
I loved you more than you loved me. Your rebound is not going to last!!! You can't simply go from a six year relationship to a new guy and forget about me. You hurt me more than you will ever know. I am not going to be your fall back guy. We talked about kids, looked at rings, did everything together. You are the most selfish person I know and I know this isn't you. The grass is not greener.