No sex after getting married...

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly, so you lose all your inhibitions (I guess this is more a problem for women, for whom what is going on inside their heads is at least as important as what is going on with their bodies). You also get to know exactly what your partner likes or dislikes, so (for the man) he gets to feel like an "expert". It's a bit of a boost to ones self-esteem, I guess, to know that you can please your partner when someone else would have to learn how to do it.

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Originally Posted by vashti

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly,

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Um...this is an argument for why married sex is worse. :D

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Originally Posted by vashti

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly, so you lose all your inhibitions (I guess this is more a problem for women, for whom what is going on inside their heads is at least as important as what is going on with their bodies). You also get to know exactly what your partner likes or dislikes, so (for the man) he gets to feel like an "expert". It's a bit of a boost to ones self-esteem, I guess, to know that you can please your partner when someone else would have to learn how to do it.

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so...like...isn't that the same as relationship sex? when you've had sex with the same girl for a while? say 6 months? a year? 2 years?

i thought you were saying there's something particular about having sex after marriage...like maybe the commitment factor makes it more something or blah blah blah...

but you gotta figure...marriage/relationship sex also runs the risk of getting predictable and boring at times...or less passionate...less spontaneous...

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Originally Posted by toohot4pants

but you gotta figure...marriage/relationship sex also runs the risk of getting predictable and boring at times...or less passionate...less spontaneous...

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Only if you let it.

Another benefit to married sex is that after you have your family, the woman can go off the pill (sex drive killer) and the husband can have a vasectomy. Also, women tend to hit their sexual peak in their 30s, an age when they are often married.

Makes sense to me! :)

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Originally Posted by vashti

Another benefit to married sex is that after you have your family, the woman can go off the pill (sex drive killer) and the husband can have a vasectomy. Also, women tend to hit their sexual peak in their 30s, an age when they are often married.

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Aint nobody clippin anything on me. :nerd:

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Originally Posted by TAVS

Aint nobody clippin anything on me. :nerd:

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Chicken!

Really, it's no big deal. My husband had a vasectomy before he met me, had it reversed, and had it done again after I had my kids. The reversal WAS a big deal, but even still, he coached his baseball team two days later.

How much does it cost?

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Originally Posted by Tone

How much does it cost?

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a lot less than raising a child. :D

LoL good call. :D