Turn the tables on him; stick him in the weiner with a tack and cut up his thigh. Then run a bath for him and tell him everything's gonna be okay.
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Turn the tables on him; stick him in the weiner with a tack and cut up his thigh. Then run a bath for him and tell him everything's gonna be okay.
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I'm not so sure about this. I doubt that these same women burn themselves on hot stovetops and return a few minutes later to to the same thing. That would be unintelligent. In hostage situations this same scenario can play out too and in a much shorter timeframe. I seriously doubt this has to do with intelligence. It probably has more to do with the victim's self esteem and will vs the aggressor's will and dominance.Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I also did a quick check online through Google and I only found a few articles about the correlation between intelligence and abuse in women. They were written by individuals instead of medical institutions, so I didn't read them.
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yeah, i tried to do the same thing and didn't come across anything useful either. i guess we'll just have to agree to disagree haha. i definitely agree with you on the self-esteem bit, but in today's day and age where domestic violence is openly chastised (at least in the USA) and a woman decides to habitually go back to her abusive husband, i seriously believe there is a lack of intelligence there. but i do see where you are coming from. i guess my belief is that a woman who is intelligent would figure out a way to get out of that situation, and would be more aware of the type of manipulation going on. people who choose to limit their awareness in these situations are choosing to act unintelligently.
I definitely see your point, but I remember a similar argument in the 50s or 60s that people actions are dictated by either environment or heredity. It is clear that in this day and age it is both. I suspect that many women who put up with constant abuse are a product of poor upbringing where either they themselves were treated as less and came to believe it over time, or where they saw their own mother treated poorly and thought it was the norm. If the most intelligent person is raised in an environment where certain things are deemed as "normal" the person may not question those things. Incest is obviously not normal, but where it is practiced the people who grew up around it may not question it because it has been a constant in their environment all their life. They could be doing calculus and banging their sister without giving i a second thought.
Racism is another one of these learned behaviors that comes about due to one's surroundings. No one is born hating someone else based on physical appearance, nor is racism a indicator of intelligence.
lol, i digressQuote:
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:) Not trying to argue, just debating using the limited knowledge that I have.
yeah and doing a fine job too haha ;)Quote:
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If that's what he did to you the first time I am sure he'll do more and worse things next time. I wouldn't let him have the chance. This is scary.
A person who truly loves you would not hurt you against your will.
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First off, I wanna say I don't think the OP is a troll- tho what I say might make the OP go off at me, and it's not my intention to judge, accuse or lecture the OP in any way.
You must have a lot of feelings for the guy who has done this to you to think that perhaps it was a one off and that your first thought isn't to dump him or report it. I know that a lot of people think they that things won't happen again and that things are too good to leave. I also know that *one-off incidents* are never one off, or accidents. Perhaps he apologised after. Perhaps the scars have healed and you have forgotten about it. That's fair enough.
But if I were in your position, I wouldn't see him ever again. I would be concerned about my bodily safety, and the safety of friends, family or anyone else I knew who may decide to trust him without knowing that your incident ever happened with him. I know that sounds dramatic, but it's often the case that someone who's done something terrible has done it before with someone else. I'd like to think that if someone was dodgy, that someone who knew me would warn me of him before anything were to happen to me, and I really think you would have appreciated someone warning you as well.
What you do is up to you. Of course, I would think you're foolish to stay with him, only based on this incident. I love my thighs very much, and the rest of my body. But whatever you do, I wish you health.
P.S. to tolerate this stuff isn't about being stupid or immature. It's about the emmotional conditioning. If you want to *save, change or mother* a guy, then you'll accept that he has issues when dating him, because you'll think that your love with make him grow and change and improve, and maybe even love you back. Some girls even end up liking the abuse they get for some reason. Obviously you don't. That at least is a positive. You deserve kind, safe, healthy love, from a kind, safe and healthy man.