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Hi sweetie,

Today i feel like i have finally woke up from a dream. I realized that things go on and i shouldn't just spend all day to think about the past. What has done is already done. I don't know if you will ever forgive me, but I just want to apologize one last time: I’m truly sorry for all the painful memory during our relationship. The time we have spent together will always be my most treasured memory, and I will never forget about it.
I have decided it is a good time for me to move on. If it is fate that brought us together, maybe in the future we may cross path again. You will always be part of me, and please take care of yourself.

Love,

Hi,

I received a message from your bro's gf. lol guess what she said? "**** off" and leave you alone. I will thank you for these 1.75 years of good time and bad times. I know i made a mistake. even thought tonight you are going to call me, but i don't think i will have much to say to you anymore. i hope you can take care of yourself. good bye

hey sweetie,

I just can't stop thinking of you. remember, i will always like who you are, please be careful and take care of yourself.

i ****ing hate you.. dont ever contact me EVER!

Wow... That is exactly how I'm feeling about someone right now :/ I feel your pain. :|

I miss the moments like when the whole universe seemed to swirl around us. The moment when you told me I felt like your wife. How you described our future together. I miss our connection, how you touched me gently. How you wrote poems for me. 3 weeks long. I miss us not being together for 3 months and how we longed for each other.

But...
I don't miss the rest, last 5 months. It was cold, you were insensitive, unfriendly, egocentric, always complaining, didn't do anything on my B-day, you tried to make me feel worth nothing. Just how you feel about yourself.
You made me feel very tired, you were so negative about everything, you took my light to feed yourself.
**** YOU.

I've been trying! To forget that! I'm addicted to you! But I want it! And I need it! I'm addicted to you! Now it's over... can't forget what you said! And I never... wanna do this again! Heartbreaker! Heartbreaker! :(

we're all of the stars... we're fading away... just try not to worry, you'll see us someday... take what you need... and be on your way, and stop, crying your heart out... stop, crying your heart out :(

are you gay and just dont know it yet?

ok i wanted to call u but have this instead.you are never gonna have me in your life again u selfish stupid monkey breath fish dick sun of a biatch . xx miss u

We had a great time together, and I don't regret it at all. I'd like us to try and work. Missing you..

you cried and cried and cried. but you never wanna get back. sigh.

I wish you everything you did to me, backstabbing me ever since, with your gay ass trash talking behind my back.

I hate how I'm the one that always makes you feel better, even when I'm the one you've hurt. I ****ing hate how I can't just cut you out. I hate how you ****ing look at me, cry in my arms, cuddle up to me and then tell me you don't know how you're feeling. I've never known such an emotionally retarded human being. FEEL WITH YOUR ****ING HEART THEN USE YOUR WORDS TO EXPRESS THEM.

I don't even know if what I feel for you is love. I know I want to **** you one more time and the hate myself.

I wish you would let me help you. I'm the type of guy who will NEVER hurt you. Just trust me and talk to me...

I honestly don't know what you're doing, but you're obviously too immature for me and can't handle me if you have to take the cowards way out by choosing someone that you were dating behind my back over me. You cried and said that you were messed up, that you didn't want to lose me, and that you wanted to still be friends, but you stab my back again by cutting contact just because your new date said so. You ****ing blew it completely with me and coming around me isn't gonna solve anything. I'm through with your so called 'independence', which was basically flirting with ANY ****ing thing that moves, and I'm through with you!

A part of me does miss those moments when you were caring, affectionate, loving, and enjoyable to be around and I'd be lying if I said that I didn't want that again from you. But I don't miss the true side of you that were: the lies, deception, shadiness, and downright playing since you're fooling your new guy too by continuing your actions. I pity you, I pity him, and I pity whoever else falls for a snake such as yourself.

Mr. DarkHelmet,

please refrain from such phrases and language in the future.

Yours truly,

Sonrisa

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Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Mr. DarkHelmet,

please refrain from such phrases and language in the future.

Yours truly,

Sonrisa

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Oh you bad bad dude :)

It was always true, just not mutual.

resiting the urge to message you, but i'm probably going to fail anyways.
just want to say hi, you messaged me the other day and it was a bit weird talking to you. i don't want it to be weird.

hey sweetie,
you have broken my heart, and I miss you sooo much, I feel so empty and no one has been able to fill that hole, but I will tell you this, even tho I love you with all my being... Im loving you a little less with each passing day and Im finally realizing you were not the one and we were never meant to be, things will never be like they were but sometimes I get weak and I wish you would call just to hey...
take care baby, you know I love you, too bad life went against us. I wish the best.
btw... someone without a doubt will take your place.

Hey babe,

For the 100th time, please put the toilet seat down!

Hi Princess,
Hope you're happy and doing well. Just wanna say don't talk to me again if you have no feelings for me. I'd rather you never contact me again than give me false hope for the future. You will always be very special to me. That however don't mean I cannot do without you. Maybe we don't need each other. I just wanted to be there for you. But now I can't. So please don't look for me when you're feeling down. It always pains me to see you in pain but I don't want to be around for you to lean on my shoulders again if we're not meant for each other. I want to be there for the girl who will love me and who I will want to spend the rest of my life with. And in time you will be a distant memory. I will hope you are happy but I won't need to know.

Hi, just think you should know that your too soft and can't see what's best for you! Your ex leaves you saying she's 'not ready for a serious relationship' then over a year later starts texting you again when your in a serious relationship with me saying that she stills loves you and the only reason she split with you is because her mum forced her to! if she still loved you she would of found a way to let you know straight away not a year later!! she even knows where you work and knows your always working so she's got no excuse. I know she's screwed with your head and you really love her and she broke your heart trust me i'm feeling your pain right now but can't you see something's not adding up?? If you do get with her, and I honestly hope you think about this seriously because she'll just break your heart again and by then I wont be here, I hope that you are treated like I treated you and not like a mug like she did before. Trust me I've heard about her and she doesn't deserve you your too kind hearted and give in to people far too easily. I miss you so much but I know that it just wasn't meant to be. Enjoy the relationship where you have to avoid her mum all the time, can't help but look forward to finding out it hasn't worked out and by then I'm long gone living the life you wish you had :) love you xx

In the future, if you don't want to hurt someone then you shouldn't lie to them. Lies hurt... I guess we were both wrong about you.

I can't tell if messaging you last night was a mistake. I feel stupid for being so weak, even dumber when you said you were going to come over but didn't. I don't understand what's going on in your head, how you think about me. You cry in my arms and hope I'll make you feel better, and I do. But what's in it for me? What do I get out of this? Simply seeing you is not a prize, I'm realizing it only makes me feel shittier as the days pass. I can't wait for you to leave. You use me, I don't think you mean to, but I've always been there for you but when are you there for me? It's just who you are, you use your job as a convenient excuse to hide from people. I don't want to see you tonight.

Too many broken pieces to glue them...

Hey princess, found your prince yet? You know what I'm beginning to like my life without you. And I thought I needed you! lol you were right I was being childish for giving you that note. And I agree you waiting for your prince isn't childish at all. Hope you'll like his castles. And hope you will live happily ever after. Oh by the way can you please return my t-shirt you stole when you moved out. Fyi I got that from my first gf. Thanks! :)

HEY MONKEY BREATH ,BRUSHED YOUR TEETH 2DAy?im glad i dont have to put up with your fish dick ,egg smelling armpits ,sweaty hair back ,****ed up toes with those nails that look like you just came out of a potato farm field .i hope you have a nice life fishyy. oh yeah everytime u hug me i had to hold my breath and your rotten teeth stink wen i was kissing u . xx tek care baby

For letting me think you changed
for standing me up
for making me wait
for letting me buy new clothes just to impress your sorry ass
for bringing me up to tear me down
for never really telling me how you feel after 13 years
for leaving me for a young blond thing, then another
for saying "it must be lonely" for me
for making me think we had another chance at love
then throwing it all away...guess i will never be good enough in your eyes
guess i once again have to repair my broken self, you are great at breaking thngs
get a new job
thanks for not responding back to after i gave you so much of myself
thanks a whole lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you never forget your first love. especially when the highs were near perfection and you found everything you wanted in another person. the bar is set so high that it's unfathomable that you will ever find someone as special, to share more than your heart, your body and your soul. it's excruciating to grieve for someone that is still alive, but forced to move on like they're dead. every waking moment you just want to reach out and hope that they will respond in kind, to know that they are hurting as much as you and wish to rewind time when you weren't a sad pathetic version of yourself. You brought the best out of me, and I want that person to live again, he was amazing. I really liked that guy.

hey, all i wanted from you was to take my beaten up soul and nurture it. All you did was tell me countless tales of your ex's and your sexual conquers until i blew up and couldnt stop blowing up at you. You told me to get over it. You love me and thats that. But you hurt me so much that you needed to take every day and tell me that you need me more than ever. I am not as strong as I portray myself to be. You were my first love and you stomped on my heart and then you were surprised why I was so mad at you. And now we're apart and I am the one who is supposed to crawl back begging you to take me back. I wont do that. You hurt me so much. And because you didnt take me in your arms and protect me, I hurt you back. I dont know if Ill be able to open up my heart to anyone again, because I havent before you. How dare you do this to me. And you say I am the one at fault. I am in the darkest time of my life right now and you call me to complain about how much you hurt and how busy you are. I cant handle this anymore. I love you so much and your pride and your desire to be "the man" hurts me even more. I am done texting you, I am done begging you to show me how much you love me. I cant take your word that "you've never loved before and that compared to others, this is a lot from you". I want to be someone's one and only and ACTUALLY FEEL IT. Nobody has made me cry this much ever :(

thanks. bye

ps i realized that what i wrote may have been one of the first times i wrote something honest. I sent it to him. Ill see what he say...probably nothing good

Hey i know it probably hurts to the point were you just want to die but guess what .time is a great healer.i felt the same pain with my first love.i never called him again from the day i dumped him.i was in so much pain but that was 5 years ago and i dont have that pain no more.just focus on you and dont take him back . u kno what they say going back to an ex is like reading a book all over agen ,you know what the ending is gonna be .gd luck x

OMG! My ex is on-line now on yahoo. He haven't been on-line for months!!! I'm in shock.
Yesterday he sent me 2 texts messages and today he is on-line on yahoo. I don't know what to do.

Dear Ex of Mine

I'm proud of you. I told you you needed to grow up with or without me, and you've finally started. No more failure to launch. No more missing the starting gun in life. You have a MAN's job! That's fantastic.
I want you to know that it's not because I didn't love you, my love for you just changed. It was never because you weren't good enough, you're so true of heart and sweet, I almost wonder if you were too good. My life has been tainted by a lot of terrible things that I would never want you to see.

You're on girlfriend number two since we split up, and I really hope she's the best. She seems really attuned to your needs, and the way you want to live life. She's not going in the opposite direction the way I was, she seems to have a similar life plan, so maybe it'll be perfect, and I really hope it is.

I want to thank you, wholeheartedly, for sharing your lovely family with me, whom I miss so much. When I gave you up, I lost them too, which is a regret of mine for sure. I also want to thank you for being there through the biggest tragedy of my whole life, for realizing that after losing the only person who meant more to me than you did, that no one could mean so much for a very long time.

Seriously, thank you so so much. I wish you all the best. I'm still sorry that after all those years we weren't meant to be, but you'll be happier now.

PS. Keep the boat, lol.

I'm not sorry for saying what I said. I'm sorry for the way things unfolded afterwards. I miss you, and I really hope you're doing well. Hopefully in the future you'll forgive me and we can be friends.

ive moved on.. you breaking up with me is the greatest thing to ever happen to me...

I still wish I'd told you what I was thinking, I still wish I hadn't bottled it up, I still wish things had been different, I am still struggling without you, but every time I see you, you seem a little bit less great in my eyes, a little bit less handsome, a little bit less fun, a little bit less like the guy I fell in love with.

I can't believe you put me through 2 months of lies and bullshit. I'm glad that we're over, I wasn't happy most of the time anyways. And as for that email I wrote you the day that you told me you needed space, I don't expect a reply, please take ALL THE SPACE YOU ****ING NEED.