It is nice. I do everything well and it is appreciated by my sex partners. But you are right, Vashti...sex isn't that important to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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It is nice. I do everything well and it is appreciated by my sex partners. But you are right, Vashti...sex isn't that important to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
By "sex" do you mean intercourse?Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yes, that is correct.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It becomes more important if you lay next to a woman, night after night, who won't give it up.Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Maybe so. Frequently, a woman that does that is also not affectionate in other ways, too. Coldness is much broader than just intercourse issues. And coldness would bother me.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I did have a gf once who would kiss and pet heavily and get naked only to her waist--she was one of the most passionate woman I ever dated. It didn't bother me that she was saving herself for marriage.
As far as I'm concerned if you are going to go that far you may as well go all the way.
This thread is an eye opener for me, i dont mind saying. Youve took this chick out 7 or 8 times and all youve had is a feel of her left tit? And you are happy with this. This woman is a genius.
If sex isnt that important to you, why go through all the hassle of trying to get a woman. You can replace everything else a woman does with other things. Microwaves, housekeepers etc.
After living with a woman for any length of time, the only thing that stops you strangling them, is the fact you cant suck your own dick. Saying all that Cam, i think its time you started to question your sexuality. Have you ever thought about being a homo?
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Only if she ALSO doesn't care about sex. Personally, I'd be questioning what the problem was, but I guess that would depend on how frequently I was seeing the guy. If it were 7 times in a week and a half, I might not be worried (yet).Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
if hes dates were pulic or what not 7-8 times doesnt always mean getting laid. if shes far away and planing once a week to see her id prob expect some heavyness or who know. everyones dif, maybe he wants it to last.
Yes, I do want it to last.Quote:
Originally Posted by oldskool83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For the first few weeks, we went out once a week. Now, we seem to see each other a little more frequently. It is exceedingly "natural" to be with her...like we've known each other for years. When we are together, we are always curled up, touching, kissing, holding hands, arms around each other.
We will have sex sometime soon. I'm not too worried about that.
LOL Me a homo? Not a chance!Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Meanwhile...ex-gf took me to lunch today and asked me (with probing eyes) how I was doing. Oh, and she wore the blouse I purchased for her and the bracelet, too--purchased during our relationship. A signal? Perhaps. And, woman #1 sent a note to say, "Hi, sorry I've been out of contact."
But, I'm not deviating. I'm staying on course with woman #2 but doing so with eyes wide open.... Meanwhile, "Iamaninnocent" thinks that I should consider Butt Piracy and get a maid??? Other people think I should aim directly for a vaginal shot rather than pursue something that might last. Too funny! No wonder the world is so f---ked up.
I appreciate the advice, really I do. I have often followed the LF advice, but I can't think that Butt Piracy is a solution nor do I think that judging progress in a relationship by how soon I can screw a woman is a measure of success. And is woman #2 in charge? Nah. I was the one that said "Let's wait a bit." She's curious about having sex, that's very clear. Not interested in controlling a relationship, but I do find that the combination of being a nice and generous man who is a good lover has generally been a selling point.
Why else is the ex-gf trying to stay in my life in some way, and asking probing questions? At the very least it is because I was nice to her and she wants to maintain a friendship. At the very most it is because she might realize that she misses being with me.
Why do you feel the need to repeat in almost every one of your posts that you are a good lover? :S
Anyway, I think you shouldn't go on dates with your ex girlfriend. And you shouldn't care about the reason for her contacting you or asking you out on dates. You should stay away from her, period. Unless you want to get back together with her? Friendship status is - at least for now - out of bounds, since she clearly still has feelings for you.
I tried to explain this to him. He didn't quite get it.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Doppel does this too, except CAM adds the whole "I have money to spend" bit. It's disgusting. Doppel at least had the courtesy of admitting he was a broke teacher.
CAM thinks he's a "professor" but he teaches at a community college. hahahaha
I agree, totally. You are right.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Actually, I work in the fishing industry. I help people who run trawlers pass their captain exams. I've never had any ambition beyond that--its a great job.Quote:
Originally Posted by KingZ [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But thanks for being a pain in the ass about...everything.
If someone doesnt get pumped in this thread soon, im taking no more part in it. And how the **** does kingz know everyones job and accounts? Is he a russian spy?
And fyi, a real man would never buy a woman a blouse, and remember that when you see her wearing it. Get a grip man.
Don't worry, I've already explained to her that you are losing interest and that I will need to screw her soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, I was wearing the pants that she purchased for me. You would buy a woman a blouse if you were in love with her and on vacation with her, which I was.
Forgive me man. Ive never felt that kind of deep true love that makes me humiliate myself in a womans lingerie department when purchasing said blouse. Maybe one day. I can dream.Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And why is she buying you pants? Shes not your mother.
Actually, forget that last post. Ive just googled what a blouse is, and its not what i thought it was. But its still pretty gay.
If you haven't noticed searock, there's a common theme in topics. Someone got dumped, jilted or betrayed, yet most of the OP's insist that they had amazing sex and an incredible connection with their ex (therefore not understanding why they got shit canned).Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Amazing sex is completely in the mind of the beholder. Pretty much EVERYONE thinks they're great lovers, but find it odd when they get cheated on or left behind. When I was single, most women I dated said their previous boyfriend/husband were terrible in bed (do you really think all of those men thought they were terrible?).
If Cam thinks he's good in bed and has amazing sex, that's his reality. The fact that he repeats it over and over in his posts is important to his story telling I guess. You've even said yourself about your current relationship that you have great sex more than once.
I said it more than once (twice to be precise) because I wanted to make it clear to the readers from the beginning that if we have relationship problems, it's not because the sex isn't good, for both of us. Also, it is relevant for the comparison with the unhealthy sex life he had with his ex. I've read many threads in which a woman talks about her relationship problems, and the men responding always ask if the sex is good or not. After all, it is an important part of a relationship, especially for men, so I just wanted to get it out of the way. I hope it didn't sound as CAM's constant boasting sounds..!
Anyway, I don't get why you guys (men) think that if a woman dumps you it has to have something to do with the sex. Most of the times it's because of emotional problems. Good or bad sex, to a woman, has mostly to do with the emotional connection during sex, not the "being good lovers" stuff. A guy can be very capable in bed, but unwilling, or incapable, to share deep intimacy or emotional connection. It may feel physically good, but as soon as it's over it was no more than using a sex toy or something. Not good sex for a woman (unless it's a FWB situation or a one night stand or something)! On the other hand, inexperience can even be sweet and lovely, as long as there is a sincere effort to please and a strong emotional bond (I speak from experience). (I am not referring to CAM, it's a general observation).
In long term relationships, some women start buying clothes for their men. I agree with you, I've never enjoyed trying on clothes for gf's...but, it is nice that she cared.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think the post makes good points. You are right--my intent is not bragging. It is just part of a story.Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think my comments are pretty tame compared with the body part threads on LF that go on and on about length, size, whatever....
I liked this post!Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You buy bras and panties in the lingerie section, blouses in women's wear just to let you know just in case you do find yourself smitten with a (nice?) lady. Anyways buying clothes for their guy is what women do. It's one of the things they do to take over the relationship, and before you know it you don't have to make a decision anymore because you got married.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That could be the case, but I take a different approach. He could be repeating it not for the sake of everyone else, but for his own sake. Maybe he's trying to convince himself that he's great in bed, to avoid the idea that maybe he's just awful.Quote:
Originally Posted by haxan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh, please. You love talking about yourself here.Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Here, look at this one:
You fucking tool.Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM
Hahahahahaha. I didn't know grown men still spell it like "cum". Moron!Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM
if the quote didn't say CAM, those quotes could be yours "Z"Quote:
Originally Posted by KingZ [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sometimes one needs to consider the context in which comments are made. Sometimes one feels unable to shape a relationship or affect a dying relationship. So, comments are really a function of an insecurity or inability to take charge of other aspects of one's life or relationships with others. I've always thought LF is a place where many people do just that--that is, try to grapple with aspects of their lives.
Did Cam pump kingz's bird or something. Jeez that dude ****ing hates him, hahaha. Brilliant stuff.
Ha, what? I've never talked about my dick size on LF, nor have I ever said "cum". It's way too trashy for my tastes, but I guess one shouldn't expect much from a dude on a fishing trawler. I think that sort of trash makes more sense coming out of you, actually. Goes with the GED and the Christianity thing really well.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hm. I actually can't decide if it's funnier that CAM is a trashy sailor or if CAM is a trashy community college teacher.
Exactly. Your insecurity and inability.Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM
Are you the type a guy that would sit and laugh while another guy was murdered on the subway? Just curious.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah, because thats the same as this. facepalmQuote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just checking...I figured that you were that type.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
KingZ and iamaninnocentman are brothers, I think.
lol, i cant speak for kingz, but im white caucasian. Dont know why you would think that.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She means "brothers," as in siblings. I take it that English is not your native language, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I bet he's whiter than you are (even though he pretends to be Arab).Quote:
Originally Posted by iamaninnocentma [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Interesting. Made me chuckle a bit :)Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's funny. You pretending to have a big dick and be good in bed makes me chuckle a bit, too!Quote:
Originally Posted by CAM [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, why do you remove your earlier post about running, getting tan, and being a bloodthirsty Arab ready and willing to blow up people? Maybe you thought poking fun at me would be more "acceptable" to your non-Arab audience here? I thought your earlier post pretty much explained you as a person.Quote:
Originally Posted by KingZ [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]