Well I don't know how it is down south y'all, but up here, going to the feed store is a big to-do. It's necessarily "Black tie", but it is "semi-formal" and considered one of the biggest outtings of the year.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
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Well I don't know how it is down south y'all, but up here, going to the feed store is a big to-do. It's necessarily "Black tie", but it is "semi-formal" and considered one of the biggest outtings of the year.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
HAHA....yeah....it's not such a big deal here.....LOL...that was funny. I'm just not anticipating the looks that I'm going to get....seriously...everybody that goes to the feed store is in jeans or shorts......I don't know that they even KNOW what a skirt is :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
Alright...I'm leaving now...gotta go find something "semi-formal" to wear and get ready....so you don't think I should try calling one more time before I show up? (can you tell I'm worried about just showing up there?)
Nah, just go. Remember: confidence, with the air of "shyness", if that makes sense.
Good luck; make sure to let me know how it goes. I'll try checking in later tonight.
I just thought of something else.....what do I do if he avoids me when I go up to his work? Do I let him just avoid me? Or do I search him out and talk to him? This is crazy....I feel like I need to be writing a script...and then if he avoids me, I can just give it to somebody to give to him!!! LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
I personally know several parents who use marijuana and are doing a fine job at raising their children. One of them is a single mother who works as a medical assistant and is paying off a mortage on her home.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
Also, what is an "ex-addict"? I've heard from addicts "once an addict, always an addict" meaning that you can stop using, but you must never pick up again because you are hooked. If this is why you dont want to associate with him then I understand because he is a trigger for you.
Dont assume that he drives high just because he smokes weed. Many people drink alchohol but dont drive drunk. ;)
Obviously these so called "parents" are really just selfish sperm and egg donors....no parent in their right mind would smoke weed and say that it wasn't hurting their child....that's ludacris!Quote:
Originally Posted by carpflounder
And yes, I am an "ex-addict"....I've been clean and sober for nearly 4 years...I have no triggers...my daughter is the most important thing in my life, and I'd never jeopardize that because of a drug....even if it was in front of me...I wouldn't touch it.
I'm not assuming that he drives high....but the other night when I saw signs that he might be high, he was driving......
I would try finding him; tell a coworker of his that you'd like to talk to him if he won't come out. Tell him "It's important, but not an emergency, and I'd really like to talk to him...now."Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
::sighs:: Ok....sounds fair enough....I'm nervous though....I think I'm going to go throw up before I go there....Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
Wow, I htought I got nervous before a date :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
Good luck, take some ginger ale to sip on for the ride over...and saltines. Hey, it works for pregnant women.
HAHAHA...yeah I remember, it worked for me when I was pregnant too.......but yes....I DO get very nervous....I let the anticipation get to me, and then I go into a full blown anxiety attack.....I'm fine once I talk to him though.......but even now...my hands are shaking just thinking about what the HELL I'm going to say!Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
Try not to think of exactly what to say. Just have a good idea of the main points what want to get across. And take something nice to eat and drink.
Eye of the Tiger Baby!!
I'm getting pumped for you. Can you video tape it? :D
I have to roll now, good luck!
Something is telling me that with all the input and thought that's gone into this, I SHOULD videotape it....LOL.....I'm a horrible public speaker....I always stumble over my words....but somehow, I always manage to sound SO good when it's one on one...I think the nervousness and adrenaline get me pumped...and things just flow.....just hope that's the case for me today......just send good vibes my way...Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
I think the only thing I'm NOT prepared for is for him to say,"I don't want to be with you anymore".......::curls up in the fetal position:: :horror:
So let me get this straight..you say that your not shallow..but then you make some blanket statement like that. If you declare that every parent who uses marijuana, is hurting there child, then explain your reasons.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeblina
Yo! I'm logging on before I have to crash. did you see him? did it go ok? If you didn't video tape it, I need to know.
Here's my cell: 267-847-****. Oh, and Shh!, you can call it and just talk dirty to me :D
Bahahahaha! You did NOT tell her to wear a dress when going to a barn, for chrissakes! What kind of Amish boy are you, anyway?
One who likes dresses?Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
C;mon I said "sundress", not a cocktail dress with stilettos!!
Uh-oh, was I wrong ;)
Well sh*t Shh!, you weren't around, we could've used you maybe. I tried my best. I put myself in his shoes/boots and tried to think what he would have liked. :(
Oh man, now I feel bad. Hope it went well. Let's hope the silence of jeblina is just her getting busy.
Not to make you paranoid, but when I logged on, I saw Jeblina's name listed as one who was signed on, but now she is gone. She is probably burning her dress.
:-D
Oh man..... :sad2:
jeblina...I tried, I really did. Maybe we'll figure out a Plan B? Or better yet, ask Shh! or Ellynn.... :(
Poor Lloyd... you meant well...
Man I had no idea this was such an interesting thread!!! Hope all goes down well. Either way, I'm sure Jeblina will have no problem finding a new man when she's ready.....she's hot. :)
Damnit TAVS, you're missing the point! We (me and Jeblina) worked so hard on this today; Jesus, it would have worked out so well if I were her significant other....Quote:
Originally Posted by TAVS
Fvck; I'm shot. I need to crash, I hope we find out tomorrow; I hope I can sleep and don't wake up every 20 mins. to lgo onto this via my cell.
Christ, LF.com owns me. :(
Lloyd is so cheap and easy! He is attempting to turn Jebelina into his real, live porn fantasy.
hahahaha
....to take the place of my "Shh! porn fantasy".....Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
Hmmm.....another "my first Threesome" thread?
Good Morning! Well.....?
Any threesomes involving me are going to have to happen in your imagination only, Lloyd. I am very selfish in the sack. But feel free to continue searching for a willing third party, assuming Jeblina is up for it.
:-D
And I see she's not responded yet. You see what you did? ;)
Mmmm shh!...
I think you have your willing third party, Lloyd. Hi, Tone!
yuk.
No offense Tone.
He's got GREAT shoulders, Lloyd...
and this from another thread:Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
[QUOTE=shh!] I am selfish with my sappy memories.
:-D[/QUOTE
Hmmm.....I'm getting a clearer picture of Shh!
Hay guys!!
Only teenage girls are completely self-less, because they are too dumb to know any better.
besides, I am not selfish with you!
That's ok, I'm very giving in the sack; we'll be compatable ;)
Where do I fit in, Lloyd!?
>:D
You don't. Trust me you don't.
*puppy face*
Well....heading over to his work yesterday, I was feeling very confident....I just had a feeling that things were going to go well....So I get there, and the first thing I notice is that he's shaved his head! (he KNOWS that I loved his hair...that a$$....but no big deal really...it'll grow out)....so I'm shocked and I start talking to him....and he's acting like nothing is wrong, and nothing has happened. So I tell him,"I know that things got a little messed up the other night, and I'd just like the chance to sit down with you and talk about it." He says, "Sure, no problem...I'll come see you at the barn after work......if that's okay...if you want me to?'' So I said," Absolutely, that would be great....I've missed seeing you." So, that seemed good....but it was a little akward....I couldn't tell if he wanted a kiss or didn't.....and so I didn't get a kiss :(....strange....Quote:
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
So I went to the barn and did my chores.....and 6:45 rolls around (he gets off work at 6), and I'm about ready to leave, so I call him (planning to tell him that I'm leaving and that I'll take him to dinner tomorrow night)....he answers and tells me that he's talking to his daughter's mother, and that he'll be there in a few mins.
So I wait a while......then I hear his truck drive by on the road (going to drop off hay to his mom's horses nextdoor), and a few mins later, I hear it drive by the other way...without stopping! SO I wait a few mins, and then call him phone...no answer....so I wait a few more mins, call again...and his MOM answers (how the hell did she get his phone anyway?!?!). I ask if he's there...and she tells me he's in the shower...so I ask her to have him call me when he gets out. So I get ready to leave, assuming that since he's showering and getting clean, he's not coming to the barn to see me...but I figure he'll call me......he never calls.....strange....
So there...now you're up to date....time for Plan B? What IS Plan B?
I was thinking of talking to him today, and asking him if he's got ANYTHING after work (I know for sure that he doesn't today)...and then tell him that I'm taking him to dinner (or at least getting takeout and taking back to his place).....I got my mom to watch my daughter tonight....but I don't know.......this whole thing is strange.....
And the plot thickens...
What an ass. Bummer man. Sorry things didnt go better for you.