I think if you're more comfortable and like the end result of not smiling better go with that, your profile intro is 'cheerful' sounding enough for it not to be that big of a deal I think.
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I think if you're more comfortable and like the end result of not smiling better go with that, your profile intro is 'cheerful' sounding enough for it not to be that big of a deal I think.
That's because you smile specifically to take the photo. If you don't smile because you feel like smiling, then it's a forced smile.Quote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That is because I REALLY hate being photographed. In fact, before this whole online dating escapade, I think the last time I had a photo taken of me was back in college for my ID, lol. Every time I have to be on the lens side of a camera flash, I die a little inside. I think it just may kill me before all of this is said and done, lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I didn't think the teeth made you look like a serial killer. I just found the photos a bit dorky.
Anyway, the photo with the car is good and so is the one in the yard. Now, we just have to look at the closeup. I looked at a few other profiles to try and find the type of shots which would appeal to me. These guys both have photos which would work for me:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=55923043
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=42436741
Not only do I get to see them clearly, but the photos have context and tell me something about the person. I particularly like the photos of the guy in sunglasses.
Ok good suggestions I suppose. Not sure about the sunglasses one though, lol. That is one thing all the sites say not to do for a main pic. Thanks for picking a few of those for me to look at. That is helpful.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In principal, I agree with the sunglasses sentiment. But the ones this guy is wearing are very light and I can still see his eyes.Quote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I tried to join the site with a fake profile so that I could find more good profiles for you to see. But I can't think of a hard enough password to get in. I'm all numbers and letters and upper and lower case and no luck. Was it this difficult for you to join? Any suggestions?
I bet it is just that verification screen giving you grief. Those are a pain where you have to match the numbers and letters when you can barely see them. Thanks for trying.
You see the guy just on his motorcycle? You could do the same on your ATV....the majority of samples are all just imprompt to, simple, natural photos...nothing staged.
Well, I don't have an ATV or motorcycle, but I do understand what you guys are saying about the photos now. I am going to try again this coming weekend to get some more relaxed/spontaneous photos. I think I have just been trying too hard, lol.
Try my b&w suggestion and dog suggestion ;) Let us know when you put up new photos so we can all look, please. I smile both ways off your smile Q earlier in your thread. Toothy grin and closed mouth...go with what ever makes you feel most comfy. Snap lots of photos both ways and then judge.
Well will be here waiting.....
Alright, so this is my last attempt at these darn photos, so I went all out, lol. There are several on my profile now and I took them with the suggestions you guys have made in mind. I tried to add some variety and even went a little goofy on a couple. I also made some changes to my description to liven it up a bit. Tell me what you guys think...
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=50706517
I have one more social setting pic I am going to add of a gathering I went to on the 4th, but I don't have it yet from the person who took it.
Thanks
OMG much much better! Keep it up.....keep adding more
Just my opinion but I really like the black and white photo with you wearing sunglasses.....that should be your profile picture...I like the truck one too...you look very relaxed. What do your friends think of your profile now?.....I like the car one...that one is pretty good too.
Nice new photos, Clean Cut. Looks like you took my B&W advice and look how well smackie liked the sunglasses one, I like both of the b&w ones the most. Great redo, imo. Have you got any site feedback off the ladies there yet? You look happier in the new shots, more carefree, it will definitely help you out. All the best! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Great job!!!
Wow CleanCut, MUCH better! I really like that you put a really goofy pic (the one with the dumbbells), and a pic with your friends - that's where you look more natural and relaxed and it's SUCH an improvement. I also like the ones with the car and sunglasses. I think you should put the sunglasses pic as your profile pic, and get rid of the fake smile pic altogether. I'm sure this new profile will be more successful. Good luck and keep us updated!
Wow, what a relief! I am so glad I struck the right notes this time with these new pics. I amazingly even got the ok from my toughest critic, Smackie9, lol. I can't thank you guys enough for your awesome feedback and putting me in the right state of mind for this. I truly appreciate it!
Since I am more confident now about my pics, I am going to start messaging people throughout the coming week. I'll let you know if I get any hits :-)
Thanks again
So much better Clean Cut, I feel almost like a proud mama lol nice work, really the best of luck, keep us updated!
Great work buddy, much more character, keep us posted.
man you is not even goodlooking.u freak the gurls out
ur pics make me laff lol
still cnt do anyting bout that unfortunate face lolQuote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wow. such great photos now!
Yes you are probably one of those who doesn't photograph as well as you appear IRL. Try for a more relaxed, less 'staged' set of photos.
no its not tat he is not photogenic he is just unatractive lolQuote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
His pictures are fine, and he has a few good ones where he seems more relaxed. He's not unattractive trevor, and jealousy is unbecoming of you.
Thanks for that LifeInflux. Yea, I am not taking trevor's feedback seriously because I could really care less how attractive another man finds me anyways. Especially some guy from Azerbaijan who can barely even spell out a complete sentence in English :emot63:
the truth hurts.a face only a mutha could love lol
hahah jealous of that .nowonder he has 2 resort 2 a dating site lol
Much better :)
And now he's a dead Azerbaijani so that won't do much for improving his spellingQuote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What's with the racism? His nationality and his english-writing abilities say nothing at all about him as a person. I bet most people here can't spell a single word in his language.Quote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I would have said "especially from someone as blatantly idiotic as him" or something.
Back on topic now, sorry for the interruption :-).
eh , what's a mutha?Quote:
Originally Posted by trevor [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wow, I even get suggestions on how to improve my insults here, LOL. You guys are awesome! By the way, I actually didn't intend for that comment to be raciest. I mentioned his nationality just to point to the fact that "good looking" people in his country are probably different than that of the US. Yea though, people that blurt out half-baked messages like his indicate to me a lack of intelligence.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think he meant a face only a mother could love. Btw no offence cleancut :P You're getting there and great job :)Quote:
Originally Posted by UndercoverLover [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LOL, this guy is a cutie.Quote:
Originally Posted by CleanCut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Why thank you :)Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have to add one more thing.....maybe eliminate the "I don't like" type stuff in your profile. I think the ladies find it a bit off putting.You should fill it with just things you like and enjoy...make it more upbeat and positive. You can discuss the "I don't like tattoos" and stuff like that privately when you chat with a potential date instead. As for "quality guy" comes off as being a bit pretentious. I would be more interested if a guy says "Small town guy looking for sweet small town girl". ....something like that.....it's more inviting.
Change "I do not drink" to non-drinker.....just sounds not so in your face.
Just my 2 cents.
Yea, some of those things are deal breakers for me and need to be said, so I tried to word it as nice as possible. However, I may be able to lighten it up a bit though. I might change that "quality guy" headline to something like you suggested as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't like how it says "I do not drink" either, but unfortunately all those profile details in that section are just drop down fields on your POF profile and you can't change the wording on it.
Thanks again for the input :)
So how's it going, any positive replies or dates since you revamped your pics & profile?