Lol. My history of getting excited for things that don't ever pan out.
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Lol. My history of getting excited for things that don't ever pan out.
So are you or aren't you meeting up with her?
Waiting on a response to the 7:30 I suggested.
so no response I see....you are still on line....
I'm always logged-in; not always necessarily at my computer. In fact, I just went out for a nice skate not too long ago/
All OVER?! Young idiot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She's obviously trying to work it out with you.
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Love ya LR :D
All right, all right..I believe ya. I THINK she might want to go out and MAY accept my invitation. No word yet, however.Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's funny: having sifted through countless profiles, it seems like there are a few girls out there who don't fit into the generalizations I facetiously make when I rant. There's one whose profile I've currently got on another tab: photogenic beauty AND nerdy. Said she wanted to write...VIDEO GAMES. It's like if there was a gritty reboot of "Weird Science" but it didn't have a happy ending!
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's a LOT more than "a few", just so you know.
Hm...no, not really. Most of them are all the same. It took HOURS but I found maybe 5-8 who were different.
I mean in the world ("out there" as you said), not just on that dating site.
Its more about brains not looks. Look even freaky looking guy can get girls -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kW80YH0qZ-4
Soooo nothing happening?
No word yet although she's read my suggested time. Uh oh, Spaghetti O's!
What other girls have you contacted in the last couple of daze? Any?
Others? Hm, well, one. And she hasn't logged in since early last month.
Get to it, son. What have you learned about placing all your eggs in one basket?
It's really hard. I don't even have a good opening line: all I ever do is send a greeting which also asks them about something in their profile. 60% of the time, it fails every time.
Stop dwelling on those that don't respond for gawd sakes how many times do we have to keep drilling that into your head. It's not a failure it's called culling out the ****ing herd.
Lol, well, I mean, I need a better idea of what first messages should look like. Mine suck horribly, maybe the worst guy in terms of messaging..
Huh... that's an idea. Drilling his head. Hmmm... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
... lol ...
I've actually looked into getting a lobotomy.
Why don't you find someone whose profile you find intriguing and just cut and paste her main verbage and then we'll all send you a one liner that you can contemplate sending?
"I'm going to do the basics. Or at least try to.
I'm Sarah. The three things that describe me are: silly, caring, indifferent.
I'm fairly new to Orange County. I was born and raised in small desert town.
It's almost too pretentious to write a bio about yourself, but I'm not one of those people who would believe that. I think I know myself pretty well, but I don't think I need to air out everything on an OKCupid profile.
I would describe myself as laid back - as in, I really don't give a **** about much. I'd rather make a shitty joke about anything that get into a serious debate. I also swear more than my mother would like me to. I don't have much of a handle on my filter.
But with that certain "laidbackness" (I'll copyright that word later) I also have a pretty rambunctious personality. I'm quite the chatter box. I can talk your ear off. I'm sorry. Kind of. On that note, I'm quite open. It doesn't take me long to become comfortable with a person. I don't really hide things about myself. I'm very open. I don't like to lie. I'm not even good at it. I'm also forgiving.
I'm 70% homebody. 30% Going out. At least, in the world I live in now. I'm sure if I was making more money, I'd want to go out more. But my favorite things in the world include: sitting around a fire and telling stories/joking around, playing board games, and throwing dinner parties.
I'm quite content with myself. I'm okay with what I'm doing with my life but I'm trying to better myself still. I think that's pretty important to mention.
I like to break out in song, but I'm tone deaf.
I'm more of a cat person than a dog person.
My favorite color is orange.
I'm a Unitarian Universalist. Meaning, I study multiple religions and don' believe that there's only one correct way. Feel free to ask me about it.
I'm a libertarian. POLITICS, yo.
Just one last note here, I think you need to have a good sense of humor and certain confidence to be on here. So kudos to all y'all OKC kids. Those are two traits that I find very admirable in any person. "
"if you're not a bro.
if you're not a gangsta.
if you're clever.
if you're funny.
if you're smart.
if you're interesting.
if you can be silly.
if you resemble a lumber jack. Beards. Yes, please.
if you can carry an intelligent conversation with me and then goof around when things get too heated.
if you're a light hearted asshole.
if you're handy
if you're all of the above.
** I almost always do the whole star rating thing at the top of the page hoping to get that message about "both of you rated each other a 4 or 5 star". :) You should try it, it helps break the ice a bit. "
Same girl, a number of mutually liked films and music but that list is LOOOONG..Anyway, maybe she's too awesome for a guy like me to even bother with. I mean, I chuckled a few times, pretty interesting stuff..
how about: "I'd like to tap into the 30% "going out" part of you and eventually meet you for a coffee. *gringz*" "You sound fun and intriguing." I'm a "light hearted asshole" so we're practically a match made in heaven" What say you?"
Oh my God, those are so good...Why are you better at being a guy than I am? :(
lmao. Dude. Take a creative writing class and it will just come naturally.
I'm joining a creative writing class next semester...but none of my writing will likely be optimistic and definitely not the kind of stuff that will land me chicks. My recurring protagonist will be a more neurotic Bogart-esque guy than himself in "The Treasure of the Sierra Madre", "Casablanca" or especially "The Caine Mutiny." Don't know if I'll learn to flirt through said club or through a creative writing class, though..
Best you take a course on The Art Of Flirting or; pick up a few books on that subject at the Library then. It's not hard to flirt and it's lots of fun for both the giver and the receiver.
"Not hard to flirt"? I think it would be easier to bounce with a pogo stick on a trampoline and recite Keats than flirt.
Could ypu give s some examples of that your messages look like?
Ok....
:) :) :) :) :)
What I usually do is like I said before, open with a greeting, say what drew me to message her (usually 1 or 2 mutual likes) and ask questions about them. And as aforementioned, 60% of the time, it fails every time!
Like anything you have to practice it until it becomes naturaly and part of who you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/flirting_tips/
Oh and ignore the first guys comments. You're already half way there to being lazy about getting women so don't let his jaded opinion influence you to be anymore negative. No looking for more reasons to be lazy about it by blaming it on men being the one's that "have to do all the work."
This may be a better place for you to start reading:
http://bitchbuzz.com/life/flirtexting-the-awkward-art-of-flirting-via.html
Or..
http://www.justaguything.com/the-art-of-flirting
AoYpu ask questions about her,eh?What kind of qiestions?
Well, I guess that "30% outgoing" line, which I thought very funny, didn't fly with the girl..
Stop coming in with cryptic bs and just tell us what happened. It will save bandwidth.