Porn Star

hah thanks for all your insight. i told my boyfriend what made me so angry and he went "oh" then fell asleep. so much for great conversation! and he's the one always trying to push me to talk. but i think a lot of this has to do with my own security or at this point my insecurities as a female. it's clearly not fair to my boyfriend that i got upset at him for something he doesn't realize he did.
so maybe i need to grow up and get some confidence.

i agree with porn only being for men. women are so submissive in porn films its ridiculous. men always dominate. big surprise

Maybe you and your bf need to make a new kind of porn film, marla. The kind where you tell him how it's gonna be.

Apologize to him if you haven't already...it was a bit childish but I can understand why you reacted the way you did. My ex used to hate the fact that I had looked at porn. But then again she was crazy.

You can always just leave this post open on your computer on purpose and have him walk in and hope he walks in and onto the computer and reads it.

Met a porn star twice. First time, it was a client at my place of work. Knew it at the time and it was a bit strange. Didn't say a word though--totally unprofessional to treat her as anything other than a client. Second time, I was at my high school reunion--one of my classmates became a porn star. Actually, she was nicer at the reunion than in school days. Nobody else would talk to her at the reunion except me. She was there with her husband and we all had a very nice conversation. I felt bad for her that she'd become the class pariah. Also, I was very complimented that she'd remembered so much about me from high school--I never even thought she'd known who I was back then. She was just a normal person at the reunion.

Knew a Playboy Playmate. Knew a stripper. Both of them just happened to be clients of mine and I never knew until years later. I'm so clueless. Someone had to tell me. I was totally surprised.

When you meet these people in the way I did, you get totally turned off by the sex industry. You look at them and say to yourself, "Geez, these people have mothers and fathers and what kind of turns in life led them to sell their bodies?" In the case of my classmate, I was just enjoying the conversation with her and little else--I wasn't sad for her or anything. She was just a person and she had a husband; so she was more settled.

BTW, your friend should have kept his mouth shut about the porn.