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Wow. I just spent over an hour reading these posts and oh my goodness. I am totally and completely baffled. I hope everything works out for you and I can't really give you any advice as I have not been in a relationship for that long and I wouldn't be able to relate with how that would effect your feelings for someone. I mean, if I had to say I would not get back together with her. She just seems really really... shady I guess. It almost sounds like she wants to get back together with you because she feels bad. And she's using the way you feel against you so that you'll want the same thing, which you admitted you did.

Welcome back.

I was really hoping for an update where you tell us how you're now thinking clearly and you've decided that you'll have nothing more to do with Amy's self-created shitstorm. It's tough to see a good person value themselves so little. I know you really care about her, but you're better than this.

Good luck with everything.

so sorry to read your problems.. mine is nothing when compared to yours, though it hurts as hell as well..

good luck for all of us dude and take care

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

By the way, in an effort to get over all of this, I did make a serious effort to hook up with a woman who posted here some last fall. She and I stayed in touch in a friendly way and talked a lot about meeting up, but she started dating someone new recently, so it's probably not going to happen for us. If you mods have the ability to peek into our private messages here, you will know who I'm talking about.

Otherwise, I really haven't had any enthusiasm for meeting anybody new.

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Even if you dated someone now...it would be rebound BIG TIME I'm afraid...this Amy got under your skin...the only way out for you is to put a brutal and an impossible geographical distance between the two of you.
I don't recommend you marry this woman or have children with her (I know you're hoping to have children some day) but she is not mother material...she is a mess...she can't even take care of herself...don't add up on poor decisions..

Again Vicenzo...don't ever make her the mother of your children...

A clean cut is your only hope to start afresh...be strong my friend.

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Nothing hurts worse than being betrayed by someone you love. I wish you the best in dealing, stay strong. I know this is much easier said then done, but try to keep a tough resolve, logically this is so wrong. Don't let yourself forget that for a second, the heart depends on the mind to take over sometimes...

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Originally Posted by alwaystryin [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Nothing hurts worse than being betrayed by someone you love. I wish you the best in dealing, stay strong. I know this is much easier said then done, but try to keep a tough resolve, logically this is so wrong. Don't let yourself forget that for a second, the heart depends on the mind to take over sometimes...

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I think you're wrong...There is something worse than being betrayed by someone you love:

Sticking around using "answers" "explanations" and helping the one that betrayed you to get out of that
supposed abusive relationship while she claimed she loved him.

i cannot believe you're falling for all this bullshit.

This is probably the worse case of naivete that I have seen on LF ever. I thought that vince doesn't belong to such cases... And I'm not making fun of this, it's seriously sad. But well you get what you ask for right? Some stupid forum and virtual people will not change his mind...

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Originally Posted by SelflessnHumble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think you're wrong...There is something worse than being betrayed by someone you love:

Sticking around using "answers" "explanations" and helping the one that betrayed you to get out of that
supposed abusive relationship while she claimed she loved him.

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You're right, I wasn't thinking of self abuse at the time. That is worse.. or at least more sad. But then, we're all guilty of that.

i cant even think of a response, could only imagine how you're feeling

It seems the luck of the draw with relationships. Vincen just got very unlucky with this. would need to rip out your heart to get through this to start new. Just hope everything work out and your choices are the right ones after careful analysis.
Life is too short for 2nd chances and possible regrets.