Second Date Ideas

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Originally Posted by TheGreek [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She may or may not have gotten that message. Plus, if she did get it, maybe it got her thinkng about the possibility of us giving it another shot, this the conversation a week ago.

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Sorry, I got the dates wrong ... she contacted you the last week of January, not the week of the 9th. Even if she didn't get the message, I think your feelings are clouding the real issue. She seems to feel free to invite you back into her life whenever she pleases.

You were really, really good to her and she essentially dumped you in December without even talking about it with you. Why is SHE the "prize" and not YOU?? You never did anything to her!

At this point, I wouln't ask her out at all. Rebuild the friendship, and maybe by the end of March, honor her with a date.

Carl.

Why not? Just don't get too attached and if you get sick of the flakiness break up with her. That's how I handled things with Tamie and it all worked out pretty good. Just view it as a really temporary thing.

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why not? Just don't get too attached and if you get sick of the flakiness break up with her. That's how I handled things with Tamie and it all worked out pretty good. Just view it as a really temporary thing.

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That's pretty risky, Charlie. If Greek weren't already somewhat attached, he wouldn't even be talking with her any more.

Carl.

yeah but risky in what sense? What is he actually risking? A little bit of heartache - so what? You're supposed to go through stuff like that when you're young. You're supposed to learn things the hard way. It's all just a bit of fun, the whole drama of it.

I dunno...normally I'd agree with CB and say ask her out again. But this girl hasn't just been flaky, she's also played weird games with Greek.

The whole story about her hearing something he supposedly said about her being drunk just smells funny to me. If she was pissed off over this supposed gossip, why not confront him about it? Why drop him without explanation? It's strange.

I agree with Carl. I think there's another guy in the picture and Greek is her fall guy. I don't know if this girl seems like she's worth the drama. There are red flags all over the place with this kind of behavior.

Just a little update, she messaged me again tonight and we are currently having a nice little music convo. Again, she contacted me for the third time now.

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Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If she was pissed off over this supposed gossip, why not confront him about it? Why drop him without explanation? It's strange.

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I think it's a sign of immaturity. Bear in mind, this girl is a sophomore in high school.

Oh lord. She's a sophmore in high school? She probably just had her phone taken away because she was being bratty to her parents. I wouldn't personalize anything that goes on with a girl that age. Ifyou want to try to date her again, then go on. Charlieboy is right - this is all par for the course with 15-16 year olds. Just try to lighten up about the intensity - you shouldn't take it all so seriously at this age.

Yeah, she's two grades below me but only a little over a year under me. That's why I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt.

Last night we had a long conversation mostly about music and she mentioned how she wanted to see The Expendables on March 3 but her friend bailed on her. Obviously this was a hint to me, so what do you think is my best approach to asking her/offering to take her?

Just say "I'll take you; I've been meaning to ask you on a proper date, anyway."

Yeah, I should've said that haha. I guess now I could call her sometime this weekend and if she doesn't bring it up, I will. And then I'll just ask her. There's no sense in making a big thing out of it.

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Originally Posted by TheGreek [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yeah, I should've said that haha. I guess now I could call her sometime this weekend and if she doesn't bring it up, I will. And then I'll just ask her. There's no sense in making a big thing out of it.

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Just make sure you have a friend to go with or someone who will buy the tickets just in case she stands you up at the last minute.

Carl.

Yeah I do, but I'm not anticipating that. She's more excited to go to this concert than me. She loves the band. I think they're alright. I'm just going along to be with her.

i think it might be good to string her along a bit more.

That's kinda what I was thinking. Make her keep chasing me a little. She's contacted me three times now, without me contacting her once since November. I may give her a call sometime closer to the concert.

I called her tonight. We chatted for about 5-10 minutes. I invited her to go the Boardwalk with me on Friday. She said she was busy on Friday, but then asked if Saturday would work. I said that would be fine after my school's basketball game, so we'll be going there after the game around 10 or 10:30.

The conversation went well, it was lighthearted and playful and I had her laughing most of the time. This should be fun.