STD ... ? scared

ok uhm another question ... ive only been sexually active with once person before and we didnt have sex she did give me a blow job though ... a few weeks ago i noticed a very small bump on the shaft of my penis like right below the head .. and it does hurt to touch or anything but when i pee sometimes, not often at all but sometimes i get a cool sensation after like its uncomfortable but doesnt hurt really ... not sure can any of you give me some insight as to what this may be? and i dont think its an ingrown hair, i know most guys have ingrown hairs on their "region" lol uhm so yeah hoping one of you could tell me what this may be or if any of you have had this happen to you as well ... thanks

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ok uhm another question ... ive only been sexually active with once person before and we didnt have sex she did give me a blow job though ... a few weeks ago i noticed a very small bump on the shaft of my penis like right below the head .. and it does hurt to touch or anything but when i pee sometimes, not often at all but sometimes i get a cool sensation after like its uncomfortable but doesnt hurt really ... not sure can any of you give me some insight as to what this may be? and i dont think its an ingrown hair, i know most guys have ingrown hairs on their "region" lol uhm so yeah hoping one of you could tell me what this may be or if any of you have had this happen to you as well ... thanks

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Dude you are done. thats it, you are all done man. before getting a BJ you should see if the woman doesn't have any............
Oh man you got HIV Positive
you should go and see a doctor like right now





hahahaha i'm just kidding man i don't know

you know how much i hate you? thanks man yes i hate you lol

I'd see a doctor - that's something you dont want to mess around with.

And please - for goodness sake - wash your hands often and dont engage in sexual activity until you have seen a doctor and this matter is resolved (completely).

Are you umm... playing with yourself excessively and vigorously? Could it be a blister? (Ouch!) And yes, I am sorry to say that STDs can be passed orally. Most of what people call "cold sores" are caused by a strain of herpes virus.

yeah i will but im 16, how do i see a doctor man confronting parents about shit liek this is scary, also i jsut got involved with a girl recently they r gonna think she did this .. oh boy this is gonna get ugly

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I'd see a doctor - that's something you dont want to mess around with.

And please - for goodness sake - wash your hands often and dont engage in sexual activity until you have seen a doctor and this matter is resolved (completely).

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above is by far the best advice anyone can provide you................

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yeah i will but im 16, how do i see a doctor man confronting parents about shit liek this is scary, also i jsut got involved with a girl recently they r gonna think she did this .. oh boy this is gonna get ugly

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it might get ugly but you gotta do it
thats right, be a man
and do it.

ok, first off it could be any number of things. There are several std's that cause you to have bumps or sores. Herpes, Genital warts, etc.. But I would still go see a doctor. Just tell your parents that you think you have a bladder infection and it's really, really uncomfortable and you want to see a doctor. I'm sure they will understand and take you, then when you go in tell the doctor what's going on and ask them to do the tests I know your 16 but sometimes they don't even tell your parents what the problem is they just tell you how to take care of it and give you medication for it.

I do recommend though until you get this figured out, you don't have any sexual activity. Good luck with this!

Call the local health department. They will often see underaged teens without parental consent for issues like this.

I left home at 17... so that is where I had to get tested & treated for my first pregnancy initially. So I am suggesting that from experience...

Also, if it turns out to be an STD, you have to tell her. It wouldnt be fair to let her go on not knowing she is infected... and spreading it.

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yeah i will but im 16, how do i see a doctor man confronting parents about shit liek this is scary, also i jsut got involved with a girl recently they r gonna think she did this .. oh boy this is gonna get ugly

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Take a deep breath...and go easy on the drama..your parents will not know unless you tell them.

thanks ill see the doctor soon as i can and try and get this thing treated ...

Good luck!

good luck , dude , i just hope that from now on you'll be more careful .

Man, what a flashback. I haven't any STD issues for...hell...30 years.

Crabs were the freakiest. TOTALLY spooked me!

yo man i ahve no idea what this could be though because look ive had only two relationships really, my ex, and my current, my ex was like 6 months ago and we didnt have sex, she gave me a blow job but she didnt have any STDs, and my current GF and i havent done anything but i didnt finger her which has nothing to do with my penis ... i dont know what the hell it is .. it usually onyl hurts like when i pee after masturbating ... ANYWAYS i dont know how i could ahve gotten something though

Well, and you know, it could be anything. With a guy everything goes straight to the pecker... because it is usually first in line to be touched next with germy hands (when you take your next bathroom break). Poison Ivy is a good example. Go out and get into that, take a piss, next thing you know you have a breakout in the crotch area.

(I learned this raising a boy)

Anyway - it could be something as simple as a little pimple or something. You're too young to have oddball growths popping up... so definitely need to swing in at the health dept. at the very least.

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good luck , dude , i just hope that from now on you'll be more careful .

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Now I have to ask a dumb question. Be more careful how?? Does this mean blow jobs are out of the question these days??

(Surely you arent suggesting the use of condoms during oral sex?? Or yes?)

i already have trouble getting off from oral sex, using a condom ... kill the sensation and plus oh boy fun for the girl

It could definitely be a pimple. And I don't think you're too young to be growing hair in weird places, by the time I was 16 my whole body was covered in hair. Also, if you've been shaving at all down there, that causes you to get zits and they sometimes take a long, long time to go away and usually can't even be popped. Hopefully its not an STD, but just like everybody else said, you should go to the doctor. You could say anything to your parents, like you're pissing blood, or anything, just to get into the doctor and then tell him what's going on. You could even tell them there's a lump on your balls, I don't know.

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Well, and you know, it could be anything. With a guy everything goes straight to the pecker... because it is usually first in line to be touched next with germy hands (when you take your next bathroom break). Poison Ivy is a good example. Go out and get into that, take a piss, next thing you know you have a breakout in the crotch area.

(I learned this raising a boy)

Anyway - it could be something as simple as a little pimple or something. You're too young to have oddball growths popping up... so definitely need to swing in at the health dept. at the very least.




Now I have to ask a dumb question. Be more careful how?? Does this mean blow jobs are out of the question these days??

(Surely you arent suggesting the use of condoms during oral sex?? Or yes?)

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more careful , like checking the girl or asking the girl ... there's nothing wrong with asking , its just that some ppl are too closed off to do this or they might take it in a bad way .

And some people would lie - out of embarrassment, or because they are in denial. Or because they want to be with you bad enough to just plain lie.

Which is sad...

ya, who knows it could be a pimple and you could just have something as simple as a bladder infection. But you won't know for sure until you go and get checked out! So do that as soon as you can!

If you are close to your dad, I am sure he will be quite a bit more understanding than your mom, and he can also help you determine the proper course of action.

yeah ... my dad is dead so ... thats not gonna work

check out the department of health. they'll usually do it without having to talk to your parents. sometimes they'll even do it for free.

...not something you should ignore.

Like everyone said go to the doctor, but I seriously doubt this is an STD. Yes you can catch things from oral, but that doesn't sound like herpes. Herpes is an open sore that does hurt. Bumps come up sometimes.

its looks like a pimple like on my shaft but what scares me is that its like right near the head of the penis and i havent had any hair that high ...

JP 5050, I know you posted another thread re: oral sex....I think if your gf is smelling and you preformed oral on her, now you have weird sensations in your penis, a bump, etc, it could be a simple urinary tract infection you and she are sharing. She may also have a yeast or trich infection which could explain why she smells off. Both of you should go to a doctor to get treatment, and then perhaps if you still have to have sex/oral sex, do so responsibly and wear condoms/dental dam (for her). Cuts down on the sensation a bit but also the risk of getting infections.

Those bumps are normal. They happen to alot of man and many confuse it for something terrible when its not.

Tell us how it goes

Good luck!