gifts and girls -what do they expect

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10-11-05, 11:15 AM
joe45

gifts and girls -what do they expect

was talking to a gurl online-who said that one of her ex bf the richest one bought her a 350 fendi wallet , and when she goes shopping her other ex bfs have bought her items-not exactly sure what. this also other girl i talking to online-said her bf a painter gave her 100 dollars to spend to go shopping she said she wanted nike shoxs. i told the other girl this and shes like ah what only 100 dollars. lol
is this normal behaviour for guys to do to girls give em money to shop and buy em things or is it jsut for some.

ok guys have u ever dated or been wiht a gf were u spend and bought em stuff while shopping.i mean u guys go mall shopping to look around and she wanted this dress and u were like ah ok i buy it for u-lets say its 270 bucks-do u do it or do u say ah NO.

or something like that do u buy girls stuff while u are shopping with em. do girls even expect this from a guy they are dating.

and when do u give gifts to a girl during the time u are dating em-after the 5th date or what.... and what do u give em-not the richest guy.
10-11-05, 11:18 AM
Asip4u

My girls love gift baskets joe45....You know...chocolate, coffee, candy. ;)
10-11-05, 11:22 AM
shh!

Joe - avoid girls like this unless you want to be used. You need not buy gifts for girls at all until you have been dating a while, and you should NEVER feel pressured to spend more than you can easily afford. Don't take girls to the mall for dates, either. It will be easier to avoid this kind of trouble.
10-11-05, 11:26 AM
Asip4u

Joe how old are you? I agree with shh!, these girls just want to use you.
10-11-05, 11:40 AM
misombra

going to the mall for a date... never thought of that...
10-11-05, 11:56 AM
whaywardj

now you've done it joe. given misombra ideas. it's for reasons just such as that we try to keep her mildly sedated.
10-11-05, 01:05 PM
Junsui

Wow I've never been on a date to the mall either! lol I think that would be weird if my bf gave me money to go to the mall. He's not my father and I'm not 14.
10-11-05, 01:07 PM
Late_vamp

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Originally Posted by whaywardj

now you've done it joe. given misombra ideas. it's for reasons just such as that we try to keep her mildly sedated.

lol , its a first , whaywardj's post actually made me laugh .
10-11-05, 02:41 PM
bluesummer

If a girl expects a relationship to be about what material things she gets out of it, it's not really a relationship she's looking for. It's a handout. I know plenty of girls that think it's perfectly ok to keep a guy around simply for his money, even if she feels nothing for him. The only good thing about these girls, is that their intentions are pretty damn obvious......so any guy fool enough to fall into (unknowingly) is just dumb.

MY advice to you, is if she's not impressed with small, cheap, yet thoughtful gifts.....you need to ditch her ass as quick as possible.
10-11-05, 02:43 PM
Only-virgins

I know a guy who bought a 30k engagment ring for his bride to be. What a fool.
10-11-05, 02:47 PM
bluesummer

Hahahahaha. You have got to be shitting me. What a moron. Won't he be crying when she accidentally loses it over the side of a boat or something like that.
10-11-05, 04:16 PM
Only-virgins

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Originally Posted by bluesummer

Hahahahaha. You have got to be shitting me. What a moron. Won't he be crying when she accidentally loses it over the side of a boat or something like that.

Yea, seriously, she said she wouldn't marry him unless she got something like that. It was like 24k. I almost shit my pants when I heard it cost more then my car.
10-11-05, 04:34 PM
bluesummer

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

Yea, seriously, she said she wouldn't marry him unless she got something like that. It was like 24k. I almost shit my pants when I heard it cost more then my car.

Wow, sounds exactly like an ex-friend of mine. She was like "Any man I marry better buy me a ring that's worth more than his car. Otherwise, he's saying his car is worth more than me." I was like ok *****, if you think that way, his car proabably IS worth more than you. Run, buddy, run!!
10-11-05, 05:18 PM
Only-virgins

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Originally Posted by bluesummer

Wow, sounds exactly like an ex-friend of mine. She was like "Any man I marry better buy me a ring that's worth more than his car. Otherwise, he's saying his car is worth more than me." I was like ok *****, if you think that way, his car proabably IS worth more than you. Run, buddy, run!!

Yea, he was a nice guy from what I remember too. He saved for close to a year to buy her that thing. Things are still going ok for them. Its non of my bussiness so I really dont say anything around them or anyone else really in preson. I would run personally.
10-11-05, 09:37 PM
Junsui

How old is he? That's a ridiculous amount to spend on a ring!
10-11-05, 09:48 PM
blackiesharley

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

I know a guy who bought a 30k engagment ring for his bride to be. What a fool.

I hope his last name was Trump or Gates.
10-11-05, 09:48 PM
misombra

30k? damn i need that guy to pay for my student loans!!!
10-11-05, 09:51 PM
Junsui

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Originally Posted by blackiesharley

I hope his last name was Trump or Gates.

lol I think Trump would be more likely to buy a ring that's like $1 million. 30K is a lot, but as you get older and make more money it's not that bad. If he's like in his 20's or 30's, that's way too much.
10-11-05, 10:53 PM
Lloyd95

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Originally Posted by joe45

or something like that do u buy girls stuff while u are shopping with em. do girls even expect this from a guy they are dating.

Get used to this; it's called "Marriage".
11-11-05, 04:54 AM
Late_vamp

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Get used to this; it's called "Marriage".

heck no , im not giving money so she can run off and buy crap . you want it , you work for it , now blow honey .
11-11-05, 06:35 AM
Rosebud

God some chicks can be so materialistic. I have two friends that are that way and it disgusts me, luckily we don't hang out that much. One of them had her husband by her several wedding rings becasue she felt the one she had was too small (diamond wise). Every year she would make him upgrade her ring. STUPID!!!

Anyhow, did anyone else have trouble reading the original post. From what I could make out the people you have been talking to are very materialistic. I don't like stuff like that, I mean I do, but I don't like feeling like someone is trying to buy my love!
11-11-05, 07:17 AM
Tone

I feel ya RoseB, I hate when girls are after me just for my M&M's.. it's like "Uh, hello, I'm here too ya know - do ya even CARE about gettin to know me??"

Sheesh.
11-11-05, 07:20 AM
Rosebud

LOL... I like snickers too!!!
11-11-05, 07:20 AM
Tone

Just when I thought you weren't like the rest... the truth comes out.......
11-11-05, 07:22 AM
Rosebud

LOL... you misunderstood... you don't have snickers, and I still care about you!!!! :)
11-11-05, 07:26 AM
clynn

I prefer occasional thoughtful meaningful gifts. Money - can't buy me love!
11-11-05, 11:00 PM
Tone

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Originally Posted by Rosebud

LOL... you misunderstood... you don't have snickers, and I still care about you!!!! :)

Okay, whew, I got worried for a minute...
12-11-05, 02:06 AM
Rosebud

LOL, you should know me better than that by now Tone, my dear!!!
12-11-05, 02:32 AM
Tone

Sorry, RoseB, I gotta stop letting Lloyd whisper in my ear...
12-11-05, 03:10 AM
Rosebud

It's ok! Apology accepted!!! *looking for Lloyd*
14-11-05, 07:45 AM
mini696

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Originally Posted by bluesummer

Hahahahaha. You have got to be shitting me. What a moron. Won't he be crying when she accidentally loses it over the side of a boat or something like that.

Most people will replace the real diamond with a fake.
14-11-05, 03:17 PM
youraddiction

i heard that girls appreciate small gifts.. you know and they don't want too much gifts..
15-11-05, 06:35 AM
Late_vamp

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Originally Posted by youraddiction

i heard that girls appreciate small gifts.. you know and they don't want too much gifts..

small gifts meaning , a tiny box where only a ring or jewelry could fit or small as in a pair of sox ?