looking at pornography

is a really bad addiction of mine. i have been looking at porn since i was about 12 years old, when i desperately hacked my mom's aol address in ohio and changed mine to general. i have realized over the years that i have become addicted to it, thinking of a way i could look at it again, even it if means my mom is in the next room over. i never thougth i might be gay until i looked at porno. i never stuck things in my butt until i started looking at porno.

i never started thinking really sexual thoughts about my friends who are girls until i started looking at porn.

its too late to change all of that.. but porn is beginning to ruin my life. i waste too much time with it and the guiltiness of knowing is what i live with. i have only just recently realized that i have been comparing my love to the actors of pornography, rather than loving her and appreciating her.

i just want to stop looking at porn but im addicted. today im going to throw away (and break in half, just incase i get horny later) a porn dvd i made. but my brother has porn on the computer and if i delete that he will get mad and try to seek revenge on me as much as possible.

help me try to get off of porn!

ever since i saw mario when i was young i have been masturbating alot..and no its not the way he smashes his head into the bricks. remember when that lady was in the mud tub in the movie? i was extremely attracted to that and that got me touching myself. started masturbating.. i wanna stop being so horny but i dont know how..

any ideas??

This is the problem with porn - learning to limit its use. Honestly Lilwing, a lot of grown men can't keep this under control, so I would expect you to have problems with it. I suggest you talk to your mom so she can get you a therapist. This sort of thing can easily ruin your interpersonal relationships later on.

that's true. i had a friend who divorced her husband because he wouldn't have sex with her. after the divorce he finally told her he was addicted to pornography.

i agree with shh, if you think it's really bad you should see someone about it.

porn can also ruin your sex life , dont over do it ... happened to lots of my friends ...also 12 , thats a little to young , your still young , stop before you lose control , break the dvd and keep away from the internet ( except maybe LF :) )

dont jerk off , pick up a sport , a hobby , you will get better physically and mentally , then isntead of net girls (porn actors) ... youll have real girls to play with , and THOSE are 10000 x times better .

im guessing your kinda skinny and not built ... well , go so some sports and workout , in no time , youll have girls running up and down on your tool . Trust me .

Jerking off can make you go blind.

Lilwing, when you stop jerking the board's chain with bogus issues, I'll start taking you seriously.

LoL I think its normal. Don't worry about it. People over-react to everything.

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Originally Posted by whaywardj

Jerking off can make you go blind.

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That explains then why I have glasses. lol

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

LoL I think its normal. Don't worry about it. People over-react to everything.



That explains then why I have glasses. lol

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do you also have hairy palms ... ?!?!

thats just an old myth ... it was to scare off kids not to do that ... yes kids CAN masturbate also .

i once saw a drawing of what masturbation did to you , it was a drawing made in the years , 18xx or something like that ... very old , but hilarious now , because all of it was so much bs ... it shows a guy getting skinnier , he loses his family and job , then he gets really skinny and at the end , he dies ... all this from masturnation .

crazy old beliefs .

The secret is...

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...to just stop.

It's really as simple as that.

Find something else to do in place of jerkin' off to porn.

Like playing rediculous amounts of videogames.

Once you've accomplished this, come back and complain about how you're a videogame addict.

At which point I'll give you a pat on the back, and absolutely no advice to rectify the new addiction.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

The secret is...

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...to just stop.

It's really as simple as that.

Find something else to do in place of jerkin' off to porn.

Like playing rediculous amounts of videogames.

Once you've accomplished this, come back and complain about how you're a videogame addict.

At which point I'll give you a pat on the back, and absolutely no advice to rectify the new addiction.

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its funny how as humans , we are always stuck in some sort of "bad" habit .

if were not alcoholics , we are gamblers , if not pervs , if not game addicts ...
why is it that we are always so overwhelmed by these feelings ?

i believe we will never truly know the nature of these things .

yes i was once a game addict , then a perv , then a drug addict ... now im a movie addict and coffee , not to mention the Girlfriends ... but thats normal . ahh well , at least i dont smoke anything anymore and im not a thief ... i was the biggest one in elementary ... ya laugh it up , you think because i was young it was stupid , i made 500 $ worth of stuff in those 4 months ... and i was 9 years old .
now imagine if i would have continued ... the things i would have now ... lots of money but lots of jail and other crap ...

You have too much freedom in your hands. Sometimes I am even happy that someone is always at home and I don't have my own room. But usually it gets on my nerves and I end up frustrated.

get another job and do something productive.

raverboy

cut the first layer of skin on both hands , like that it will burn if you touch your penis , good luck driving and doing other activities btw .

I still don't see why you would want to quit. A bad habit is only bad if it has negative influence on you. Like smoking isnt bad because its smoking..its bad because it kills you..lol.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

Like playing rediculous amounts of videogames.

Once you've accomplished this, come back and complain about how you're a videogame addict.

At which point I'll give you a pat on the back, and absolutely no advice to rectify the new addiction.

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LoL, I do both. Its why video games have a pause button.

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

cut the first layer of skin on both hands , like that it will burn if you touch your penis , good luck driving and doing other activities btw .

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LOL!

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

LoL, I do both. Its why video games have a pause button.

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Clever bastardo.

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

cut the first layer of skin on both hands , like that it will burn if you touch your penis , good luck driving and doing other activities btw .

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good lord.. monkey see, monkey do i assume

i dont have a rubix cube for a penis vamp, you know i can like hump my pillow or something if im that desperate.

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Originally Posted by lilwing89

good lord.. monkey see, monkey do i assume

i dont have a rubix cube for a penis vamp, you know i can like hump my pillow or something if im that desperate.

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uggh , i dont think you would WANT to hump your pillow , i mean , how will you sleep on it after , full of jizz and smegma .

its too bad you dont have a rubix cube as a penis ... :sad2:

:goofy:

i have 2 pillows :D

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

Clever bastardo.

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I agree strongly with this statment.

If pornography is an unhealthy obsession of yours, you will have to find a way to gently wean yourself off of it. Out of curiousity, how old are you? I'm wondering if this is being compounded by the confusion of adolesence.

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Originally Posted by shh!

This is the problem with porn - learning to limit its use. Honestly Lilwing, a lot of grown men can't keep this under control, so I would expect you to have problems with it. I suggest you talk to your mom so she can get you a therapist. This sort of thing can easily ruin your interpersonal relationships later on.

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they are speaking the truth

look at my thread if you don't believe it
I wouldn't say my relationship is ruined but I would say it's a hurdle we now have to overcome