I'm hurt by bf's actions...

My boyfriend and I work in the same building, on different floors, and there are over 1000 employees in the building. He had a relationship over a year ago with another woman that works here. He's told me of how he loved her, but that it is over. My problem comes in like this: he doesn't want to hold hands, and I just mean in the parking lot. Yet he told me he used to do that with his ex, and it made him feel SO good to be holding hands with this beautiful woman beside him. He was exceedingly proud to be seen with her. With me, he says it makes him feel uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice? Or should I just suck it in and not say anything?

How about moving this to the "Dating" section?

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Originally Posted by just_me

He had a relationship over a year ago with another woman that works here. He's told me of how he loved her, but that it is over.

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Maybe it's over, but he's not over it.

Mrs. TAVS is that you?????

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Originally Posted by Tone

Mrs. TAVS is that you?????

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That's funny. As you know, we now work for different companies. But guess what; I had a good job interview yesterday and to my surprise the company I interviewed with is directly upstars from my girlfriend's new company.

LOL what are the odds..

Well that wouldn't be AS bad... at least you wouldn't be working side by side.

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

How about moving this to the "Dating" section?

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We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.

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Originally Posted by just_me

We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.

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Thanks for that. But you posted in "Off Topic", which stands for "off the topic of love, or any of the above listed categories." :bored:

dump him.
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wait, you live with him?

ah, dump him anyway.

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Originally Posted by just_me

We live together.....we aren't 'just' dating.

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We dont care; this post does not belong in this section. This is A Love Forum....Off Topic does not include Love.

you guys leave this person alone. geez.

Forget it TAVS, it's a very confusing issue, apparently, for her. She must be blonde :D

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Originally Posted by misombra

you guys leave this person alone. geez.

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We would have if she had not tried to defender herself with flawed logic. :goofy:

you guys think "show me a pic" is perfect logic.

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Originally Posted by misombra

you guys think "show me a pic" is perfect logic.

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Ok Smarty-pants, explain how "show me a pic" is flawed logic? :stuckup:

show me a pic first.

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Thanks for that. But you posted in "Off Topic", which stands for "off the topic of love, or any of the above listed categories." :bored:

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It isn't a question for Dating, Kissing, Dumping, or Sex. And the Off Topic Discussion states "Forum for general conversation, share interests, have a laugh or discuss anything not related to above or below forums." :D

Silly BinT.

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Originally Posted by misombra

dump him.
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wait, you live with him?

ah, dump him anyway.

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damn, sombra, you beat me to it.

See I knew it; renaming the forum was a stupid, stupid idea.