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Has anyone here been in a relationship with a guy/girl who just doesn't seem to get jealous over anything??
In my last relationship, the guy was extremely jealous & didn't trust me. Now, the guy I am with completely trusts me & won't get even a little bit jealous.
Of course I like that better, but I don't know... I don't know what the point of this post was, but ya... I guess I just want to know how it's possible to never get jealous...
by being very self confident
Yeah, my ex was like that. I still wonder if it was because he trusted me completely or because he just didn't care all that much.
Yeah the last thing you want is an over jealous guy...... so probably dating someone who is the extreme opposite is kinda weird for you. But honestly.....passive guys can be a good thing. Don't take the fact that they dont get jealous as not caring for you. THey do...
He doesn't care.
Seconded. First thing I'd do is check his mails to see how many flings he has on the side.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
No way!
Some guys are just naturally trusting and also trustworthy. Or, they may also adopt a "zen" approach to life. If you're going to cheat on him, you're going to do it --- and so he can carry on loving and respecting you and if you choose to behave in an untrustworthy fashion, he may be the type who knows that that is your issue, not his...and if it happens, he a) couldn't have stopped it, and b) you weren't worth it anyhow.
there was a touch of sarcasm in my post.....should've used a smiley to convey it :)Quote:
Originally Posted by clynn
i think there are two types of people, people who are just naturally jealous due to they arent confident. and other people who know that unless given a reason there is no room for jealousy. I personally am never jealous with a girlfriend until she cheats on me or something? and then i start getting more and more jealous..
i think everyone is jealous over some things deep down but some people show it some others realize its not worth showing because it may start arguments or something dramatic. He sou8nds like a keeper!
Dream on. We all have fantasies.Quote:
Originally Posted by clynn
Anyways, you don't need the lack of confidence to be jealous. I am jealous as hell and I am confident like a son of a B.
if you have so much to be confident about, then why are you so jealous?
Because the two have nothing to do with each other.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra
Confidence; to be expecting and/or always thinking of the postivie consequence one can do.
Jealousy; pissed the fawk off about someone cheating on you.
You know, im not talking about jealousy prior to cheating, rather after...are you saying that if someone is confident and their GF cheats on them they wont care and just go on? haha yea right....thats not confidence...thats stupidity.
That's a hell of a point OV just made their.
jealousy is one ****ed up emotion.
I agree, arn't they all though?Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra
That happens often, I tend to do it alot. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by BlueRaven
I've noticed that in my short time posting here, lol. I guess you could say that I aspire to one day be able to do the same.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
Its good to have goals. Welcome to the forums by the way...I dont visit the introduction section of this forum so I probably missed you intro if there was one.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlueRaven
oh my, seems OV has just adopted himself a new padawan.
This is an interesting statement, I think you guys may want to clear something up. Jealousy comes from lack of self-esteem, not self-confidence. There is a difference. Self-confidence is your ability to stand up in front of a crowd of people and talk or something along those lines, whereas self-esteem is how much you find you are worth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
People who have had shit childhoods or major psychological problems have low self-esteem, and therefore become jealous during a relationship. This can seriously hurt loved ones:upset:
Thanks... and no I didn't put anything up in the introduction section.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
Lol, no I don't think I'm anyone's padawan. I just happen to like the style that OV posts with that's all.Quote:
Originally Posted by DutchBoY
Jealous?Quote:
Originally Posted by DutchBoY
I think you have a few more years of school to go before you can make judgments like that. Low self-esteem creates drug addicts and some-times quiet people....not always jealous people, everyone is jealous..just some people have more tolerance for it than others but never the less everyone has that button that when pushed sets them over.Quote:
Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO
if ur human, then u have a sense of jealousy. Its just how we each try to control it.
sound so much like my ex! while he was with me, he wasnt jealous type of guy,...i mean...he's not jealous that i might like other guy more than i like him, but he's jealous if i have something "better" to do. He was once jealous with my Movie series! cos i was addicted by it, and didnt wanna leave the house for 2 days! so he was rather pissed off. saying that i prioritise the movie more than him.
do u count that as jealousy? cos i feel it's rather the same thing. if u change the object (the movie series) to another object (another guy) then, it will still be the same, dont u think?
Yeah, that is jealousy too.Quote:
Originally Posted by pinkpuca84