What do you do to get a tall guy to kiss you? At first I thought I could just pull his head towards me but maybe that's too agressive?? How about a question like 'can you bend down?', would the guy get the message??
thanks!
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What do you do to get a tall guy to kiss you? At first I thought I could just pull his head towards me but maybe that's too agressive?? How about a question like 'can you bend down?', would the guy get the message??
thanks!
I wouldn't pull his head towards you - I think it is too aggressive. If he doesn't like you in that way, it would be really uncomfortable. Are you really sure he WANTS to kiss you? If so, you could just ask him what it would take to get him to kiss you.
Perhaps it is too aggressive, but all guys are different. Personally, I loved it when my girlfriend "forced" me into doing sexual things.
How close are the two of you (and how old)?
"GET DOWN HERE AND GIMMI SOME SUGAR"! Lol, probly ask him if you can kiss him. It cant hurt.
Vashti,
no I'm not sure he wants to kiss me (except for the 'chemistry'/'attraction' I feel between us....which might actually just be my imagination and only on my behalf!).
Zarathu,
we're in our twenties and we don't really know each other. I mean, he's not a stranger, but we never went out or even....talked. Except for the occasional hey. That's why this is bad; bad enough that we don't know eachother but the fact that he's tall isn't making it easier.
HeyYouGuy,
maybe I could ask him if I could kiss him (IF I find the courage) but I read somewhere that it spoils the moment. Wouldn't a guy be turned off if a girl goes up to him and says 'Can I kiss you?'. Argh.
Once again, I bow down to the great shh! for her knowledgable adivce...
... then I sneak a peak up her skirt while I'm down there. ;)
I think it would be equally awkward to just walk up to someone and kiss them when you don't even know them. I thought you were talking about kissing him when you two were sharing a moment or something... in which case I think asking "can I kiss you?" would be fine. This is, of course, from a girl's perspective, but a guy once asked me if he could kiss me, and I found it not only sweet and romantic, but also just decent in general. While it's come to be normal to just kiss someone and see what happens, hoping they'll respond by kissing you back, I think it shows a certain amount of respect to make sure they don't mind.Quote:
Originally Posted by shygal
Yeah no just kissing him outa no where when you havent realy even talkd. You may scare him away if he is shy lol. I recomend just starting some convo then later asking him if he wants to take you out sometime. But name a date... i dono why but most people like it if you say a date and not just "wanna take me out sometime". But yeah once your on a date im sure it wouldent hurt to ask him after a while into it if you can kiss him.
I like the idea to ask first.... doesnt seem wrong to me.... most girls I meet to dont think it's to bad when your first starting to date. Just dont do it every time.
So thers my thoughts, use em if you want.
I'm wearing jeans today. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by dono
Ask him :)Quote:
Originally Posted by shygal
lovesjoyjam and HeyYouGuy,
I know it is a little weird and he might feel uncomfortable since we don't know eachother. Thing is here's the story: we used to say hi a lot and had much more contact/communication last year but this year I completely freaked out when he started to seem interested and...blew it. My painfully shy personality made me blow it and he's not interested anymore.
I know I'm straying off but: how can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? He used to hang around me, and I'd notice him around much often.
Zarathu,
It's my fault; he doesn't look at me anymore, and he's not interested. The pathetic thing is, he probably did like me at one point (and I ran away) but it's not like I became an obsession (the way he is for me) or that he's feeling all the things I am: regret, stress, fear, heart racing, paranoid thoughts, excitement yet disappointment....any thoughts??
Well if you know he's going away and you're never going to see him after that, it obviously wasn't meant to be, was it?Quote:
Originally Posted by shygal
It'll be fine, one more guy that passed in your life. You have years left ;)
Yes, it could be: it wasn't meant to be; but what if it was because I prevented it?? Keep in mind, I completely ignored him. How would a normal guy react or think if a girl ignores him? I'm also thinking: if he really liked him, he'd approach me more or wouldn't give up, right? But then again, I'm giving an totally cold shoulder!Quote:
Originally Posted by Zarathu
I want to move on, I'm hoping I'll forget about him and get over it, but I'm also upset that I sort of blew it. Plus, what if I never find someone as ...... as him.
If a girl ignored me I'd think they would want to have nothing to do with me, and detach myself as soon as possible.
It's pretty much done unless you DIRECTLY and very DIRECTLY tell him. Good luck.
That's what he probably thinks too. Hence his distant behavior. I just can't believe how quickly he's forgetting about me, while here I am, can't get him out of my head. OR, on the contrary, he thinks I am absolutely in love with him because of my weird behavior. I think it's pretty obvious: Will I always live like this: 'I should have...I could have...'!!
Well, I guess once you find out if he wants to kiss you or not. Wait to find him when he's sitting. Sit on his lap and lay one on him.
Shygal, I was thinking about your situation yesterday. I was thinking about how I would feel if this certain guy I used to have a crush on and changed my mind about came up and kissed me.
I wouldn't like it. I don't think you should do it. There must be some other way to get his attention.
Gigabitch,
it really is sort of a cheap way to 'get him' isn't it? I wanted to do it because I was afraid of losing his interest and in fact...it seems like he really has moved on. If we were both on the same 'wavelength' and somewhat connecting, it would have been ok but since both of us seem to be hesitant, maybe both too insecure? I guess two insecure people don't make a good couple....but how the heck am I going to forget him??
Wait a minute- don't give up! If he liked you before, there's potential for future connection. Just don't blow it by smooching him.
Do you have any friends in common- any way to casually find yourselves sitting at the same table somewhere?
No we don't really have any friends in common. But that's not really the probem...I wouldn't have the nerve to go anywhere near him and randomly sit next to him when I've ignored him for ages. The fact that he's not giving any 'sign' probably means that he's moved on....I know I should too. Why is it that there was a spark or some sort of chemistry but all of a sudden it just fades away? I think we were just both physically attracted or infatuated...what's bothering me is that he's probably out there thinking 'oh screw it. Plenty of other girls' while I'm here worrying 'What if I never find someone like him....'
it sounds ridiculous that I'm upset over a guy I dont know....
Oh, you must know that crushes aren't really about the object of the crush- how could they be? You don't even know that person. He's just a person you affixed your romantic ideals to for a time.
And you still have your romantic ideals, so what have you lost?
So true; it's just that I feel I wasted my time....worrying about him, dreaming about him, it's almost as if he gave me some sort of a motivation. And now that I won't have him around anymore, I'm scared I won't find anything to make me feel that nervous type of excitement. In my head, I made him up, the way I wanted him to be. When will we ever learn?? I want to get to lose my romantic ideals because they're only getting in the way and making me suffer! I know this is a dumb question but: did I waste my time? Was it all a waste of time? And will I really move on? I want to get distracted now so I forget about him as soon as possible, but the more I do that, the more I cant....
Kick him in the knees. He should fall down. :evil:
I think that the advice here is preatty good.
Stand on your tip toes to kiss him, he might lean in towards you.
My guy's about half a foot taller than me, we're usually laying in eachother's arms when we kiss... *sigh*
just give him the "i want to kiss you" look
some advice from being on the receiving end of this- i'm not terribly tall, 6', but the girls ive dated havent been taller than 5'5" or so so theres a bit of the issue.
what i would find effective would be the girl saying 'lean down a sec i have to tell you something' and when he does just turn his head and kiss him.
of course, this would really only be terribly effective in a first kiss scenario typically.
in other instances, i would advise sitting next to him. on a couch, bench, brick wall, whatevers convenient. get close to him, and just lean in- he'll make it at least a LITTLE easier for ya. heh. at least i did when i dated a 5' tall girl.
hope it helps :]
Tell me how you kiss a girl that's taller than you?
I had to step up closer than I would normally.
Then again, it was a damn good excuse to get extra close.
Simple!!!.......................just ask him to kiss you!, and he'll be glad you did!
I would use the Yellow Pages lol