Why is it so hard to let go of someone so precious to you but then again you really need to because he is not yours and his bound to get married soon .... even though he told you how much he loves you and he cares about you.....
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Why is it so hard to let go of someone so precious to you but then again you really need to because he is not yours and his bound to get married soon .... even though he told you how much he loves you and he cares about you.....
Your soul is leaking. Find the hole and heal it.
in time ... i guess .. in God's Time
How long has it been?
almost a week now ... it does hurt like rubbing salt to your wound whenever you see them ..
You've got a long way to go. It takes months, sometimes years. One step at a time in the right direction....
i know that it'll take some time to really heal a wound such as this ... In Gods grace i will surpass it all.... im not goin to see them soon thank God
id like to move on ... gigabitch ...
It's been a week. Cut yourself some slack- it's not natural to just suck it up and get back into top gear. You have to give yourself time to deal with this, or you'll just end up stuffing your emotions down where they will fester and boil.
What's the story on this guy?
well weve been friends from almost 4-5 years already and when you gets to visit we spent some time together we get along so well that we end up so close ... and when i was still sleeping he kissed me and said i love you... and before he left to go back to NY he said he will come back no matter what .. i know for a fact he has a gf but i was so blind to realized i like the feeling of being cared for loved as well.. i was so vulnerable ..
what do u think Gigabitch...
I think you sound like a one-man-woman and he sounds like a two-woman-man.
Ouch.
And he's getting married soon? Poisonous.
Long story short: he's a cheater, and you don't really want him.
Unfortunately, I have to log off now, but I'll check on this thread tomorrow.
ok thanks i hope you can still talk to me tomorrow ... take care then
So, is this a situation where you have to deal with it all alone because your friends and family would hate you if they found out?
im totally over him now gigabitch and i am moving on and ive start dating again since last night ..... so gigabitch wish me luck...
:D Good luck!
:love: thanks for all the advice and i know i can make it coz i just to prioritize my feelings and whats right for me thank you so much ... its a decision i need to do to make me feel better and for me to move on...
well, i guess going out with somebody else may help you forget about him but at the end of the day, you may still fell the emptiness inside.
then you realize you still love him.... that is normal.. as previously stated only time can heal all wounds.....
good luck!
im trying to move on ... :D im praying and trying my very best to get my life back again.. it is hard i get to receive messages from him and even says he still misses me and all but then again id like to move on... but time will heal all wounds as they say but God is good he will guide me ..
Now i can say that i have moved on... i no longer look forward to see him soon and receive any messages from him. My mobile is no longer my bestfriend whenever it beeps im not crammy to have it and answer back. I love my life now i have someone i can say who supported and care for me inspite the fact were just friends.I always thank the Lord for givingme this problem i have surpassed the tide and the wind ... i am a survivor.
True friends will be there for you through thick and thin. Glad you have the support. You're doing great!