I know alot of women at my job, elsewhere who have legit boyfriends and husbands and they are still cheating on their men.
a.....Why do women cheat?
b... If you say you love someone why cheat? How can you say you love someone and still cheat?
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I know alot of women at my job, elsewhere who have legit boyfriends and husbands and they are still cheating on their men.
a.....Why do women cheat?
b... If you say you love someone why cheat? How can you say you love someone and still cheat?
Women cheat for the same reasons men cheat; because they are assholes. It's not a gender thing.
No, women cheat because they are not being loved enough. And they are not being loved enough because they are stupid enough to settle for idiots who can't.
Okay, never mind. Evidently, it's because they're stupid.
Agree here. There's this girl I had a low key relationship with. She kept breaking up with her BF every 5 minutes then we'd get togethor and she'd ask me if we could step up our relationship a bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by damoclesjones [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I had no real interest in her long term but she kept cheating on her boyfried to be with me [really only realised this afterwards] Anyhow she wasn't at all happy with him but needed to be 'loved' by someone, anyone, and would rather stay in a bad relationship than be single.
He wasn't giving her the love she deserved and that's why she cheated on him
And what's your logic for why men cheat?Quote:
Originally Posted by damoclesjones [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Because they have not discovered who they really are; a genius lover of life. Without this direct life experience, a continual rightness and creativity, they lack, and feel lack. They go off into the world of sex, knowledge, power and forgetting; to erase the pain of being who they really are not.
So women cheat because they are stupid, and men cheat because they haven't found themselves yet? mmmmmmmmK.
Men cheat because they want variety and excitement (hormones are a contributer). Men tend to get bored being around the same women everyday/every year.
Men cheat because their wife/girlfriend begin to get obese and dont look too well.
They also cheat because they found a women who can treat him better.
So you're saying I only cheated on my ex because I haven't found myself yet?Quote:
Originally Posted by damoclesjones [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yeah, I like the sound of that, definitely alleviates some of the guilt.
Hey, I have a question. Megan cheats on her boyfriend with me, but she says it's because she still loves me and I'm different and [insert more bullshit here].Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Now, I want to make sure that it isn't my mind bullshitting me, but it sounds like she is bullshitting, and she probably did the same on me while we were going out.
True?
I think it is simply a matter of greener grass...Quote:
Originally Posted by Zarathu [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, I'm saying you only cheated on your ex because you haven't lost yourself yet.Quote:
So you're saying I only cheated on my ex because I haven't found myself yet?
Then you misunderstand. Hanging onto guilt is insane; but when you really see how selfish, shoddy and cruel you have been, you first feel a guilt that almost completely crushes you; from this, redemption is possible.Quote:
Yeah, I like the sound of that, definitely alleviates some of the guilt.
If a woman cheats its usually because her current bf/husband is not making a good effort or is letting her walk all over him. Infact when a girl dumps a guy and goes for another man, the one to blame is the ex BF who practically hand wrapped her for the next guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by loveman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Once a woman finds a good partner, she will stick to him like glue.
As for men cheating, its in our nature. We were made to make as many women pregnant as possible. A woman can have 1 baby a year. While a man can make women pregnant everyday... thats deep core psychology... I wont get into if its wrong or right.
This is the best answer on here. Everything else is just an attempt to justify males who cheat. I hate to point this out, boys, but it really IS a choice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Dude, you're an idiot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex Nova [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I say that in the nicest way possible.
That you have the desire to screw anything in sight is biology. To act upon that desire is a choice.
What the **** are you, Christian?Quote:
Originally Posted by damoclesjones [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
*CatholicQuote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
;)
Thats ok... I think you have no social skills at all!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My point in calling him an idiot was the attempt to put males and females into categories, and saying they all cheat for THAT reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aegis [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's not true. I cheated. Why? I was insecure.
One of my exes cheated. Why? Because she loved sex.
My best friend always cheats on her boyfriends? Why? Because she likes to get back at them whenever she gets into a fight.
Categorizing people into those two, simplistic categories ruins the entire purpose for actually sitting and looking at each individual situation, and trying to help people grow.
THAT'S why he's an idiot. He's not helping anything...just sticking generalities into each thread he's in without looking at the real situations involved.
For the record I never had a girlfriend and thus never cheated on anybody.
I just wanted* throw that dude's argument in his face.
'Cause his argument was dumB.
So um ... why are you even giving advice about cheating? :detectiveQuote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You don't need to be a cheater to have opinions about cheating, just as you don't have to be fat to have opinions about food.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex Nova [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know that looks like a typo, but I really did mean dumB.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aegis [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Don't question it, simply because I can't explain it.
Didnt the guy say he had no experience with women at all?
If you're referring to me, I never said I had no experience with them, I did however say I've never had a girlfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex Nova [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So do tell about your female encounters or are they male? heh... :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Women cheat because they are looking for something that their present partner is not able to give to them in sufficient amount or quality.
What's there to tell?Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex Nova [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You know the answer :) because they want somme little fcuk ;)
Ok, why do men cheat?
Because some of us are assholes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Converse [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Seriously, it's not deeper than that, people. Yes, we're programmed a certain way. But, any guy who tells you he is ****ing some other girl because he's "programmed" that way is a dick. Plain and simple.
Cause women started it first!Quote:
Originally Posted by Converse [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm not a cheater.
Ditto.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Do fantasies count?
Nah, neither does window shopping.Quote:
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