Need Advice!!! Real Bad!

mother of all questions here... neally a year ago i met this woman on the internet, in a fan club for a band. after a quick chat in the chat room we swapped MSN address's. within mins we were getting along great, had so much fun chatting to her everynight.

eventually we exchanged phone numbers, and were txting all the time. then we got to calling each other regually. then she told me somthing i never thought i would hear from her. she told me she had feelings for me, even though we have never met. which amazed me because i kinda felt the same...

dont sound so bad eh? im 16 shes 30.. we live 150miles apart, shes got 2 kids i have to go to collage here for the next year and a half, and a husband who wants to kill me.. even though they are splitting up (not because of me)

we talked about it for along time, and we thought we would give it a try. but first of all we wanted to meet.. met last saturday, she had to bring the kids and couldnt stay for real long, but we had a great time. pretty romantic. she drove me to near my house and we both got out of the car, and she gave me a present. we both got really sad because we knew we wouldnt be able to see each other till after christmas :( but we had a great kiss, with passion..

never felt anything like it before. we had fallen in love. she got home and we talked all night. it was goin great.. untill this saturday, when i got a txt from her saying "im not strong enough.. and im not good enough for you.. need to go.. sorry x" i was devistated. we are talking about things now, and there maybe a chance we get together, not sure??? do you have any advice for me and for us? thanks, liam

Sorry, liam, but my advice is to RUN.

Run, Liam, run.

You poor 'lil boy.

Because that's what you are to her.

A little boy.

And that's what you would be to the rest of her family.

A little boy.

You experienced a male teen's fantasy but it's time to get real and get the **** outta there.

Gross. I wish I hadn't opened this thread.

Although this attention must be flattering to a 16 year old, there is obviously something very wrong with her. Run away.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Gross. I wish I hadn't opened this thread.

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Me too. :P

As a quasi-adult I say run for the hills. You want nothing to do with that.

Were I in your shoes, however, I'd totally tap that and then run for the hills. Mad bragging rights.

But I'm not. So, er, I stand by my first statement.

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

As a quasi-adult I say run for the hills. You want nothing to do with that.

Were I in your shoes, however, I'd totally tap that and then run for the hills. Mad bragging rights.

But I'm not. So, er, I stand by my first statement.

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Serious bragging rights.

Lucky bitch, you caught a MILF. something I have yet to do. If I were you, I'd follow Eurasians magical 4 F's.

Find her.

Finger her.

**** her.

Forget her.

Eh presto!

EDIT: Oh yeah, brag about it. Good point Gribble.

FFFF

Get The **** Out

i dont wanna run away, she was on the phone to me last night crying her eyes out i heard her son say "mommy... why are you sad?" and that hit me bad!

she was saying how much she ha ****ed things up, we really wanna be together but we know its gunna be hard cos i will only see her 2 days a week for the next year and a half!!! if that

dont know what to do, but dont wanna run away!

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Originally Posted by metallica fish [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i dont wanna run away, she was on the phone to me last night crying her eyes out i heard her son say "mommy... why are you sad?" and that hit me bad!

she was saying how much she ha ****ed things up, we really wanna be together but we know its gunna be hard cos i will only see her 2 days a week for the next year and a half!!! if that

dont know what to do, but dont wanna run away!

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Well, boink her a few times then run.

Look, any 30 year old woman who would run off with a 16 year old is screwy. You need to stay the hell away from her for your own good. If you don't care enough about yourself, fine. At least do it for her. Otherwise her ass is going to wind up in jail for rape. Do you want that on your hands all because neither of you had the strength to back down?

im 17 now btw

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Although this attention must be flattering to a 16 year old, there is obviously something very wrong with her. Run away.

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Yeeeahhhh.....yikes.

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Sorry, liam, but my advice is to RUN.

Run, Liam, run.
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HA AHA HA HAHA!!! You seriously made me piss myself.

Ive been in this situation before though not exactly. What you should do is Run but hold your ground. You need to ask her how she feels about you, if she loves you enough then she shouldnt have to break up with you likee that. Also try viewing it from her point of view; maybe she feels bad for going out with someone who is ten years younger than her (sorry to say it like that) maybe she does LOVE her husband and wants to stay with him. Just be considerate of her feelings and hope that she is considerate of yours.

When I was 12 i was going out with a man who was 40 but didnt know it. We were interne chatting and I really was in looove with him, but his wife signed on in his screenname and when i said "hey babe" she cursed me out. So when i asked his friend (who was 19) he said "that he was 40 and married with 5 kids" I was so angry that i apologized to the wife. She kicked him out and he got arrested and while all of this happened my mom still didnt find out...

Just take it slow. See what happens but dont be negative towards her if the outcome is bad.