I have been asking people all over about what they thought or would do. I can't see myself having sex just for the physical pleasure alone. What do you all think?
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I have been asking people all over about what they thought or would do. I can't see myself having sex just for the physical pleasure alone. What do you all think?
You need to have better sex.
May I ask about what you truly think? Do you think that by having sex with just random people or friends - it would take away from how great that one time will be with the person you truly love? I tend to view myself as waiting or saving myself for my next serious relationship. Who I give my heart to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sex can exist quite enjoyably separate from emotional investment.
Yes, I will be the first to say that being in love with the person you're having sex with makes the experience a good ten times better and I'd never want to go back, but sex in and for itself is not a bad, sinful thing or a waste of time.
I can't be the only person on this forum who has done both, can I?
But you wouldn't go back? You do feel after experiencing the sexual intimacy that going back would take away from that awe feeling in you?
They're different experiences.
I prefer the huge endorphin rush from having sex with someone I'm ga-ga over, of course. If my relationship went straight to hell, I'd probably still consider having sex with someone just because I like it, but it wouldn't be anywhere near the same thing, nor would I confuse the two.
Yeah, I could be lying just because I want everyone to fall in love and have satisfying, committed relationships.
I am so ****ing sneaky.
you're not the only one giga. lol. we're such ho's i swear!
anyway i theorize that sex is not as good as when in a committed relationship because the person who likes the other one more (and thus has more power, and one almost always exists) will most likely hold back their affection as to protect their feelings. holding back in sex sucks for everybody. you have to have a trusting relationship where both people are doing the same thing and thinking the same way, u know?
anyway that's my theory [/rant].
As of right now.
No.
well remember it frizzzz it'll all come in useful for you one day okay?
Wait...huh?Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Im getting to the point where I want sex just for the physical feeling. I never thought I would, but after awhile you really miss it and it alone!
I want passionate intimacy with whom ever I find in life hopefully. I think if I were to have sex just for the physical feeling it would rip my heart out because I would want that so bad with the person I love. I wouldn't be able to "make love"... I could only have sex. Having sex alone would hurt me, and make me feel very alone and dirty.
And I thought I was hopeless...Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You think I am too idealistic? Why?
I think you can answer that question.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know im idealistic! We have talked about this before, but do you think I am foolish because of it?
If you feel like leaving, I'm not gonna' make you stay. But soon you will be finding, you can run, you can hide but you can't escape my fart.
Im afraid to admit that this seems to have absolutely nothing to do with this thread in anyway shape or form.Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The most well-known character developed and portrayed by Sumitani is Hard Gay (ハードゲイ), introduced in 2002, as whom he finally rose to national prominence in 2005. While the official name is "Razor Ramon HG", he is most frequently known as "Hard Gay", or simply HG. Dressing in a tight black leather outfit reminiscent of the Tom of Finland art, he goes around performing acts of charity (yonaoshi, "social improvement") for unsuspecting bystanders while performing trademark pelvic thrusts and vocalisations, often accompanied by "Livin' La Vida Loca" by Ricky Martin.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
God damn Ricky Martin! I always hated his songs. Sister is obsessed with him. Oh well.
I think I may be relying on the concept of romantic love too much for self happiness, but how the hell do I change that? How would I even go about trying to change that? I don't want to give up on Romantic love but I don't want to be dependent on it for happiness. RAWR
Come down to Philly I'll show you how it's done.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How old are you again?
EDIT: Ah, 19. Yeah, come down to Philly.
You should just save me the gas money and give me some thoughts. Im open to any thoughts or suggestions and opinions.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
First off, what kind of job do you work?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
McDonalds. 5.35 an hour. Terrible job. Going on leave soon due to schooling for about 2 months. So ill have $0.00 for a while coming up.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
rawr..
Now tell me, what kind of worker are you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You the kind that does things by the book?
Do you cut corners?
How's your relationship with your bosses? Your co-workers?
Are you talkative or are you quiet?
When you make a mistake or somebody has an issue with you, how do you react?
Damn, what a crap pay. In the UK, depending on age (18+) you get paid about 10 bucks an hour for working in MCD's. I get 11 dollars an hour with my current job. Damn, thats not even worth getting out of bed for.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The pound is worth double the US dollar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But damn, 10 bucks an hour for McD's?
That's ridiculous...
Yeah, thats why this place has become flooded with foreigners. You'd be lucky to find English born bred around here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So why's America still considered the "land of opportunity"?Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Shit, you guys can be the new world power, I'm sick of that title.
People expect too much from us.
This may be the stupidest question ever asked on this forum! :surprised
The OP must be female.
AHAHAHA. Nope, OP is male.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I am a good worker. I do cut corners, but only if it is more efficient for the over process. My relationship with my bosses are great. Everyone seems to like me and I am really close friends with 3 of the managers there. One of them being Glitterballs, which is actually now the store manager. I get along well with everyone. I am nice to everyone and they are nice back. Im very talkative, but sometimes I am quiet. Pretty balanced actually. But that is from my perspective, you would have to ask everyone else what they thought of me to really get a good base for your opinion.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I am quick to acknowledge a mistake I make and have no issue with being corrected. If someone has an issue with me then I will ask why and confront them about it and see what I can do to resolve it, if not then I would go to a manager to help resolve any situation that may occur. But to this date, I haven't had any issues with anybody. I have been working there for about 1 year and 4 months.
I am far more emotional than the average male. (atleast more than the average males from around here) Its only a stupid question because you dont understand it or can't relate to it. Either way your ignorant.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Besides, I know ALOT of people who express the exact same view as me. Their are quite a bit of people who tend to hold Sex as a whole on a much more sacred level than the majority of the culture today.
No question in which was honestly asked, is a stupid question. Swallow your pide.
Yeah, where I live (Erie area), the cost of living is extremely low. Pretty much the lowest in the country. Its really far down there. But it is peaceful and rual. (due to the amount of forest and nature still prominent in these areas) I like it, but there is alot of Neo Nazi and KKK groups round these areas. I'd watch out if you were to come around here. Its not really that bad but still. Anyways, yeah ... thats the reason behind the terrible pay.Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Making 10 bucks an hr at mcdonalds? Thats what the managers made when I worked there from 97-00.
I started at 4.25 an hr and ended at 6.50.
I'm glad I went into healthcare. Pay is much better.
Why would I have trouble around there?Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Elynn --- How much do you get paid now?
You wouldn't. Do you think I am asking a dumb question? Someone please post something related to the god damn thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think you're too young to be thinking about this shit. Follow Eurasians magical 4 F's and you'll be fine for the time being. I think the difference between you and other males your age is you are more open about your emotions. Wheras me for example tend to surpress em' and generally not express what I'm feeling. Which you will find quite common amongst teenagers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zach [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
so forget about the meaningful sex at the moment. **** em' till you dick drops off then find someone special. until then...
viva la screw
Pardon. What are your 4 F's of magic?Quote:
Originally Posted by Eurasian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well the only problem I have with what you have suggested is that I already know in my life that viva la screwing everything will not make me more happy. It is only a temporary pleasure. True happiness lies else where, where as finding passionate love can have a positive effect on your over all genuine happiness. I have been down far to many roads already and have been dissapointed plenty of times. I know exactly what Im looking for even though I am only 19. Im slowly releasing all my addictive pleasures and looking to contentment. Although I am slightly discouraged because most girls my age follow the viva la screw philosophy. Leaving me in the rain for the most part. grr