Will she after she comes to America?

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08-02-07, 06:29 AM
J_Field07

Will she after she comes to America?

Hi there

I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who's never been on a relationship in the past, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships before, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia you know the ones that are popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I finally made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this death-gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails,. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus I go to Russia every time I can.
I am very serious with her, we’re on a one-year relationship now, we have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it.
Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.
So here are my concerns:
Do you think I am rushing into things? Or should I just go for it and propose?
Do you think it will work? You know, me being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia.

Any piece of advice would be very appreciated
08-02-07, 06:31 AM
The Great OV!!!

From what I hear those Russian girls really want to get the hell out of there....becareful...sometimes that is their only goal if you catch my drift. Just saying.
08-02-07, 06:36 AM
Junket

Dude, there was this ultra hot russian chick at Walgreens today.

I wanted to rip off those tight jeans and put it to her right there in the beverage isle.
08-02-07, 07:33 AM
The Great OV!!!

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dude, there was this ultra hot russian chick at Walgreens today.

I wanted to rip off those tight jeans and put it to her right there in the beverage isle.

How do you know she was Russian?
08-02-07, 07:34 AM
Gigabitch

I know a couple of Russian women who moved here to be with American men. Both of these relationships are working out, or seem to be. I like Russian women generally. They're tough and straightforward.

Can you wait a year before popping the question? Then you'd be more sure, or at least opt for a very long engagement.
08-02-07, 08:03 AM
Junket

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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How do you know she was Russian?

Straight, platinum blonde hair, thin, short.

NE Philly is wrought with russians (and jews and Indians).

Hell, so many that Comcast advertises with russian billboards.

If she wasn't russian, then she was probably Ukrainian or somethin' similar.
08-02-07, 08:50 AM
jurupa

I am glad I am part Russian as it is another country with hot girls, and hot girls that want to get out of their country sadly due to the conditions there.
08-02-07, 11:34 AM
The Great OV!!!

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Straight, platinum blonde hair, thin, short.

Sounsd pretty much like most European girls. Russian girls = buff chicks named Olga.
14-02-07, 07:02 AM
andy_traveler

I found this report at A Foreign Affair. It is an immigration report that shows that by marrying a foreign woman you have more than twice the chance of staying married than if you marry an American woman. Here in Scottsdale AZ the divorce rate is 70% and according to the US government the divorce rate with foreign women is less than 20%. Marrying an American woman you have a 250% greater chance of getting divorced.
14-02-07, 11:35 AM
Junket

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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Sounsd pretty much like most European girls. Russian girls = buff chicks named Olga.

Then you clearly don't know Russian girls.
14-02-07, 11:50 AM
The Great OV!!!

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Then you clearly don't know Russian girls.

That maybe be true but damn is that shiat crazy that this Andy guy just posted. I am so ordering myself a mail order Russian bride.
14-02-07, 11:55 AM
The Great OV!!!

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Originally Posted by andy_traveler [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I found this report at A Foreign Affair. It is an immigration report that shows that by marrying a foreign woman you have more than twice the chance of staying married than if you marry an American woman. Here in Scottsdale AZ the divorce rate is 70% and according to the US government the divorce rate with foreign women is less than 20%. Marrying an American woman you have a 250% greater chance of getting divorced.

What do you mean marry a foreign woman? One that is fresh off the boat or one that you import specifically for the marriage. The one fresh off the boat is obvious why, in Europe (at least Poland) the girls are raised to believe that it is a disgrace and shame on the family to divorce...they do not see it as an option like American women do. They also have a shit load of faithfulness and compromise with them. They also know it is about the kids. Different state of mind, I think they are less independent too...these American girls will leave you for bad morning breath, so what is the suprise with the large divorce rate?
14-02-07, 11:56 AM
Gigabitch

Yup. It's pretty consistent with the bad morning breath rate.

Sorry. Just had to say that.

Anyway, OV, are you really considering importing?
14-02-07, 12:04 PM
The Great OV!!!

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yup. It's pretty consistent with the bad morning breath rate.

Sorry. Just had to say that.

Anyway, OV, are you really considering importing?

LoL, bad morning breath rate.

Would I ever import? no...would I think about it and do I think there is nothing wrong with it?...yep. Maybe it is because I know someone who did and they are married for 10 years now...and going. The girl that came from Russia to marry this guy seems normal to me, she gets asked all the time why.
14-02-07, 12:07 PM
Charlie Boy

American chicks need to go and have a good hard look at themselves. Well the ones from San Diego do anyway.
14-02-07, 12:08 PM
Gigabitch

Yup. One of the Russian women I know moved here nine years ago to marry this old guy- but he's a really cool old guy, and they're still together. They have a lot in common and a good life together.

I applaud anyone who helps women get out of Russia. That place can be a living Hell.
14-02-07, 12:09 PM
Gigabitch

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

American chicks need to go and have a good hard look at themselves. Well the ones from San Diego do anyway.

Heh heh. The boys from San Diego are pretty good, though. That's where my bf is from, and he's wonderful.
14-02-07, 05:47 PM
MVPlaya

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Originally Posted by J_Field07 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hi there

I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who's never been on a relationship in the past, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships before, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia you know the ones that are popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I finally made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this death-gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails,. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus I go to Russia every time I can.
I am very serious with her, we’re on a one-year relationship now, we have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it.
Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.
So here are my concerns:
Do you think I am rushing into things? Or should I just go for it and propose?
Do you think it will work? You know, me being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia.

Any piece of advice would be very appreciated

Honestly, your situation is pretty unique. I'd be hesitant to take any advice on this thread as cannon, but just to make a more general observation. The girl has more to lose from this situation than you do, which means if she takes the step it showcases her sincerity, and if things aren't looking perfect she has more of an incentive to work for the relationship. You honestly can't expect anything to go perfect in life, but if someone is willing to take that leap with you, you will at the very least have some great memories.

As for cultural differences, if she's from any of the more metropolitan/european areas in Russia, she won't have any major cultural issues moving to the United States. I'm guessing from the fact that you guys have a relationship that shes fluent in English. So she should be fine integrating into American society.

Honestly, don't take any advice as golden, mine included. As for propose, that completely depends on your relationship with her. We have no idea man. Thats a mystery in life thats all yours to explore.